What are the pros and cons of working in different places apart when you are married?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-15
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The advantage is that the small don't win the newlywed, and the disadvantage is that there may be a third party.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course, it is not good for a husband and wife to be in a different place. 1. Husband and wife living in different places is not conducive to emotional stability. Any relationship needs to be managed, and if the two are too far apart, they will miss many important moments of the other party.

    For example, when one party is sick, verbal comfort pales in comparison to careful care. For patients, a glass of warm water can warm the heart.

    2. Long-distance couples must contact each other frequently. If you can't see each other often, it's important to keep in touch and try to give them as much respect and security as possible so that they can know your whereabouts at all times. People in relationships always suffer from gains and losses, and if they don't have enough security, it's easy to be cranky, and their feelings will become very fragile.

    3. Couples in different places must create romance and make your life more ritualistic.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is not good for the husband and wife to be married in different places, whether it is for the relationship of the couple or for the children in the future, there will be some bad hidden dangers.

    First of all, for couples, being in a different distance can lead to a weakening of the relationship. Although we may know that we have to be in a different place due to work or other reasons, couples will definitely miss each other very much, and some people may call each other every day, but sometimes no amount of words is more comforting than a hug.

    I believe that no matter how strong a girl is, there will be times when she is crispy, and if her husband is not at home at this time, then she will feel lonely, helpless, and may even slowly doubt her marriage, so it is easy to have estrangement and contradictions.

    In addition, if the husband and wife are long-distance for a long time, then the emotional support of the children is not complete, which will have a great impact on their psychology. Children want their parents to be around, and if only one parent is always there for them, then they may feel that they are not happy enough.

    Some children may be emotionally sensitive, and they may even feel that their parents do not love them, which can have a great psychological impact. Therefore, the company of parents is really important for children, whether it is in learning or in the future in the world.

    Therefore, it is best for married couples not to be in a different place, the run-in between husband and wife is reflected from the days of being together every day, and the distance will make each other more alienated, which is not conducive to emotional communication, and at the same time will also have an impact on children's education.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think this off-site situation is definitely not good.

    Because if you are married, you need two people to stay together, if you can't give each other that sense of security or if two people stay together to get along, in fact, the relationship between you is prone to cracks.

    <> if two people are not married, and then they are busy with their careers, then it is still acceptable for two people to be in a long-distance relationship, because you still have expectations in such a situation, and this expectation is that two people can stay together when they get married.

    But if you are married and the two of you are not together, I think there will be problems with him, for example, if the boy goes to work outside and then the girl goes to work outside, think about it, if you don't give your wife enough good care or care for him, then it is easy for others to take advantage of it.

    When your wife has a problem or a cold, you are beside him and ask for warmth, not if you are someone else, over time, your marital relationship with him, in fact, many times there are already problems, and at this time you do not occupy a very important position in his heart.

    And if you are in a different place for a long time, you don't know each other, and the other party doesn't understand you, and the time you spend together may be that you have gone to him, or he has been looking for you in the past, and you don't get along enough, and there may be problems in the relationship between you.

    For marriage, you definitely don't want to separate two people, because two people still stay together if they can stay together as much as possible, because many marriages are problematic because two people don't get along well, so I don't recommend you to do this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it is not ideal for two couples to be married in different places, if conditions allow, it is better for the two couples to stay together, so that there will be emotions. If you are married, it is best not to live in a different place, if you live in a different place for a long time, it is not good for your marriage, I feel that two people still live together, no matter how much money you make, it doesn't matter, the relationship between husband and wife is good, and the family will be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is not good for two people to get married in a different place, and it is easy to be taken advantage of by others when they are vulnerable, which may cause a family breakdown.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Married, it is not good for the two husbands and wives to be in a different place, the young couple should live together, they should not choose a different place, no matter which party, if it is good to step on that place, go to that place! It's not a good thing to be in a different place.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not good, the relationship between the two couples will slowly fade after a long time in a different place, and it is best not to choose to work or live in a different place.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you get married, there will definitely be conflicts between the two husbands and wives in different places, I think it is better for the two husbands and wives to live together after marriage, after all, people live in groups and live together, and the relationship will be deeper.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you get married, it is easy to have conflicts in different places, and the relationship is easy to disappear slowly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Pro, it is better to be together after marriage, long-term separation between the two places must have an impact on the relationship and the families of both sides

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether it is marriage or between lovers, it is definitely not good for husband and wife to be different from each other, because after a long time, two people may have great conflicts in their feelings. Therefore, two people must communicate frequently to cultivate the relationship between you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If two people are married, if the husband and wife are still living in different places, I personally think it is not good, and there may be problems with each other in terms of feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's really a dilemma.

    Off-site certainly not.

    First of all, communication is not easy, although mobile phones can solve it, but not face-to-face, of course, a little distance.

    The second is that physiological problems are not solved in time, and they are also prone to problems.

    In the end, the environment of the two is different, and the communication will not be understood.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, it is best not to live apart for a long time after marriage, except for military marriages, because they are not taken care of each other, and military marriages have a day of reunion, while different places are different and far away. Hope mine is helpful to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, it is not good to be married and live in a different place, it is not appropriate, and you have to find a way to solve the problem.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's definitely not good, but maybe you will compromise for the sake of life, life is not easy, hope.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you get married, is it okay for two couples to live in different places, of course they can be together. Both of them feel a little tired in a different place, and their family life is not good for each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not good! It should be together. A long separation can bring too much insecurity to each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is not good for couples to live apart for a long time, and it is easy to be emotionally estranged, and living together and taking care of each other will increase their feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no problem for married couples to live in different places for a short time, but if they are separated for a long time, it will definitely affect the relationship between two people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are married, it is best not to separate the two places, and find a way to transfer to work in one place, so that it is conducive to taking care of each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Marriage is a matter between two people, and it does not depend on whether the two people are in a different place or whether they are local.

    The relationship between two people, from recognition and cognition, the relationship gradually rehearses strongly, and finally chooses to get married, which may be a normal phenomenon, but there are many times when you have to choose a long-distance life due to work or life reasons. But the relationship between two people still exists, so I think the necessity of two people to get married depends entirely on whether the relationship between two people can last forever?

    If two people have been in a different place, I think that for the sake of affection, they should choose to sacrifice each other, in fact, people are involved in some struggles when they are young, so the probability of two people being together will definitely be great, so I think we should not only see the immediate benefits, but for the happiness of marriage, we should try together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think this matter should be judged according to the degree of love between the two of you, if the two of you are very affectionate, the relationship is very good, you both think that the other party is the half you want to find, and the distance will not affect the love of the two of you, although the two of you are often not together, and the work is far away from the place, and the bile two people can get married if they have a good relationship, and for the sake of the relationship, one party can also give up their work, and the power of the relationship can surpass everything, So I think if the relationship between the two of you is good and long-distance, it is also necessary to get married, and if you break up because of the long-distance relationship, then you will regret it for the rest of your life, regret it for the rest of your life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If two people's hearts are together, then they should get married, after all, now the high-speed rail plane makes the sense of distance not so big, and as long as there is a heart, they can always live together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This depends on the thoughts of the two people, as long as the heart is together, it is necessary, someone is very close, the heart is not together, and they will not get married, no matter how far away the two are, there is each other in their hearts, and it is not far away.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain, only by solving the problem of long-distance can you get married, long-distance marriage will encounter a lot of practical problems, it is difficult to solve two people if they are not together, there will be many contradictions, which is not conducive to the stability of marriage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really love each other, you have to work hard to be together, and if either party doesn't want to give, then there is no need to get married, because it is impossible to be in a different place for the rest of your life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At first, there will be a feeling of being newly married, but later on, it will be numb and painful.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    At present, marriage registration can only be obtained at the place of residence of either party, and the marriage certificate cannot be obtained outside the place of household registration. Only individual provinces and municipalities directly under the central government can handle marriage registration in the province, for example: Guangdong people can get a marriage certificate in Shenzhen, such as:

    People in Chaoyang, Beijing can get a marriage certificate in Haidian District.

    According to the provisions of the Civil Code, a man and a woman can register a marriage if they meet the conditions for marriage, and the procedures for marriage registration are as follows:

    1. Both the man and the woman of marriage registration shall jointly apply to the marriage registration authority of the permanent residence of either party with the required documents. Where an application is made for post-registration of marriage or remarriage, it shall be handled in accordance with the procedures for marriage registration.

    2. Both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority, and each shall fill in a "Declaration of Application for Marriage Registration".

    3. Both parties must sign or fingerprint in person in the declarant column of the Declaration of Application for Marriage Registration in front of the marriage registrar.

    4. The marriage registration authority shall examine the documents and declarations submitted by both parties, and if the conditions for marriage registration are met, the registration shall be approved.

    1. What documents are required for marriage registration?

    1. Permanent residence booklet and resident ID card of both men and women.

    2. A signed statement that I have no spouse and no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

    3. Both parties submit 3 2-inch recent half-length bareheaded color photos**.

    2. What is the subject of marriage in the Civil Code?

    The subject of the marriage relationship is the husband and wife. The main characteristics of the marital relationship are as follows:

    1. Based on the union of men and women.

    This is what marriage means on a natural level. The physiological differences between men and women and the inherent sexual instinct of human beings are the natural factors on which marriage is formed, and it is also the inherent natural attribute of marriage, which is an important feature that distinguishes marriage relations from other social relations.

    2. For the purpose of living together.

    The so-called common life refers to living together, becoming members of the same family, and living in the same living and consuming community. In general, it also includes the sex life between husband and wife and the mutual respect and love between husband and wife. Mr. Shi Shangkuan believes that co-living is generally a spiritual life (mutual affection, spiritual union), sexual life (physical union) and economic life (family common), which is a summary of the whole content of common life.

    3. It has the publicity of the identity of husband and wife.

    The openness of the identity of the husband and wife is the meaning of the phenomenon of marriage. It requires that the parties to the marriage should have a public status as husband and wife. This meaning of the concept of marriage has two aspects.

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