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Every place should be different. On the third anniversary of the father, many places are where the son prepares the ceremony, including the hospitality of the guests, the cost of the ceremony, and the daughter prepares tribute (such as gift money), paper money, and some have to take flower cover money. The flower cover refers to the cornucopia of gold and silver, and the house utensils and other utensils used for burning.

On the third anniversary of the father's burning, the son prepared a few articles, and the daughter could buy some well, such as small clothes, some paper and some ingots.

Different places have different customs, and in our case both sons and daughters need to prepare some sacrifices. Generally speaking, it is fruits and snacks.

As long as everything is ready, it is fine, regardless of son and daughter.

The daughter should also prepare the sacrifice, and that is your father?

The third anniversary is very important, because in ancient times, when parents died, children were required to observe filial piety for three years.

Why three years, not two or five years? Because in ancient times, the child was lactating.

It's three years, just like now, a three-year-old child can go to kindergarten, and he can be separated from his parents.

In addition, the word three is also exquisite, the so-called three, the way of heaven, earth, and man. Therefore, keep filial piety for three years.

After the death of the respected relatives, before the completion of the service, live at home, do not drink, do not eat meat, can not marry, cut off entertainment and communication, in order to show mourning, called "filial piety".

For the living, after three years, they can go out to work and lift these taboos.

Therefore, the third anniversary is the last solemn memorial to the deceased, and it is also a process of lifting the taboo for the living, so it is more solemn and more important.

The third anniversary celebration should be prepared in advance. Gather the more important people in the family, arrange their respective shifts, take each small family as a unit, prepare their own memorial supplies, and go to the cemetery to pay respects at the agreed time.

At that time, the guests of the feast, the filial son cried to the cemetery to pay respects, and burned the paper products brought by the relatives.

The third anniversary is finished, and the funeral ceremony is kept.

That's the end. In many places, monuments can only be erected on the third anniversary.

Filial sons and daughters should prepare some paper clothes to burn along with the paper money, because the clothes taken away at the funeral have become old in three years, and new clothes need to be added.

The offerings are large offerings, chicken, fish, meat, elbows, meatballs, eight kinds of fruits, and five kinds of dim sum with three pieces each.

After the third anniversary, people can wear brighter clothes, but not too brightly.

At the same time, the "paper money" and "ingots" burned during the worship.

There will be a lot of things like that. The focus is on a "grandeur", that is, it reflects the psychology that people pay more attention to.

In some places, after the death of an elderly person, his family and children need to change the couplets in their homes to purple and continue to paste them for a year or three years. However, in recent years, many people have stopped caring about these external rituals and have only maintained the most basic worship.

Topaz. Jade belongs to yin, which can communicate with the underworld, and topaz is warm, which can be used to express the thoughts of the deceased and ward off evil spirits.

The significance of the 100-day burning, the burning anniversary, and the 3rd anniversary of the burning: After a person dies to the underworld, there are a total of ten royal officials (the prosecutor of the underworld) and four judges, whose duties are: to interrogate the deceased, to interrogate the deceased with what he did before his death, good and good, evil and evil, and clan beams, a total of ten royal officials, in charge of the ten halls, first of all, the first seven halls:

The first hall Qin Guangming King, the second hall Zhao Zaoyun Chu Jiang Ming King, the third hall Song Emperor Ming King, the fourth palace Wuguan Ming King, the fifth hall Yama Emperor Jun, the sixth hall Bian Cheng Ming King, the seventh hall Taishan Ming King, children burn seven, I hope that the parents can be safe and comfortable in the underworld, and the king will be smooth. Do seven worship the king of Ming, check his lifetime|Forty-nine days later, the deeds of "Shanyi" were transferred to the Yin Cao Court for four trials, and every ten days were ten days, and they were brought to trial once: the first trial, (the first ten, the fifty-ninth day) Judge Cui; Second Instance, (Lent, Day 69) Judge Lee; Third Trial, (Lent, Day 79) Judge Han; Fourth trial, (Lent, 89 days) Judge Yang; After another ten years, it is 99 days to burn 100 days (called short 100 days, long anniversary), and then worship, the eighth hall of the Ping Zheng Ming King, the first anniversary of the burning, the ninth temple of the city Ming Wang, the third anniversary of the burning of the Ming Dynasty, the wheel of the queen, decide how to reincarnate, into the next life.