What is the mentality of people who still post on Moments after a loved one has passed away?

The circle of friends is not only a personal space, but also a public platform, and the content posted by the circle of friends should pay attention to not allowing individuals to vent their emotionsTo pass on positive energy as much as possible, this is a kind of respect for WeChat friends.

When a loved one dies and sends it to Moments, if it's only once or twice, some scholars think it's understandable.

But from time to time, it is a little inappropriate to send information such as missing you, because the gray emotions transmitted by the circle of friends will make people who see it very uncomfortable.

The character Xianglin's sister-in-law in Lu Xun**, because of the loss of her son Ah Mao, told her pain to people she knew or didn't know over and over again, and people first understood and sympathized with her experience, and after listening to it too much, they began to get bored, and even felt that her pain was worthless.

The so-called saying is as light as water three times, this is the truth.

Of course, some people will not be able to get out of the shadow of losing their loved ones for a long time, and they need to find an outlet to vent their emotions.

But there is a saying that is very realistic: "Your pain is only known to you, and you don't need to tell others." ”

The meaning of this sentence is that there is some pain, and even if you say it, no one will be able to feel it, and it is useless to say more. Furthermore, do you know whether others are genuinely sorry for you or annoyed by your gray emotions?

Here, what you want to say is:"Tell others selectively about your pain. ”

If you have to say it to make you feel better, then set up a visible crowd when posting to Moments, or set it to "only visible to yourself", or set your closest relatives and friends to be visible.

Only your closest relatives and friends can accept your joys, sorrows and sorrows unconditionally, and are willing to be happy and sad with you.

For others, it is undoubtedly a mental disturbance to see some sad messages in the circle of friends from time to time to remember the deceased.

The most important thing is to come out of your grief as soon as possible, and don't forget to face the sun, no matter what comes your way.

Life will not stagnate because you are immersed in pain, only by cheering yourself up, taking on your responsibilities and obligations to your family, and striving for happiness in life, is the best consolation for your deceased loved ones.

These people generally want others to know what his mood is like now, so even if a loved one dies, they have to post a circle of friends.

They may be very sad inside, but they want to alleviate their grief by telling it.

Just share your grief with others. You must not let sad things affect your normal life, and you must come out of your sadness.

1. I thought about kissing and crying all night, and the dawn was restored. Afraid of hurting the mother's mind, secretly flowing to the pillow.

2. The guest house and the state have been frosty, and the heart remembers Xianyang day and night. For no reason, he crossed the dry water, but he looked at the state as his hometown.

3. Sad songs can be used as weeping, and distant looks can be angelica.

4. The dew is white from tonight, and the moon is the hometown of Ming.

5. God is fair to everyone, and when you lose something, you also gain something valuable. Everyone should have a grateful heart.

The main purpose is to let relatives and friends know that you have lost your favorite relatives, and you can mourn if you have mourned.

You can often see someone posting it in the circle of friends, it still depends on the specific situation. If it's just a grief for your loved ones, it doesn't feel very appropriate to post a circle of friends, and if you express your nostalgia for your loved ones, it's okay to post a circle of friends. However, if there are more work partners in the circle of friends, it is still not recommended to send it.

The funeral incident affects the fortune of the circle of friends, affects the relationship and affects the career

Affect financial luck. The family died of illness and sent a circle of friends, so at this time, everyone should pay attention to their financial luck, the day when there is no money to spend will come, and everyone can not spend money lavishly. Usually at this time, everyone should pay attention to the arrival of news when making money, and when you get the news of making money, you must have your own analysis, not all news is suitable for you, and you must have a way to make trade-offs.

Affects feelings. At this time, everyone should pay attention to the development of feelings, everyone is easy to be hurt emotionally, the possibility of betrayal is very great, and everyone is easy to lose their way and self emotionally. The emotional unhappiness is a big blow to everyone's life, and everyone often feels that the more they love, the more directionless, and some efforts are not well cherished. <>

Impact careers. If a family member dies of illness and sends a circle of friends, then everyone's career development will be hindered at this time, and everyone will encounter trouble at work, and they will feel more and more unhappy at work. Usually at this time, it is difficult for everyone to face the work well, and they will lose some enthusiasm when working, and it is very likely that everyone will lose their jobs when they are avoided.

When a family member dies of illness, it's best not to post a circle of friends, because after doing so, some bad effects will occur, usually at this time, everyone's life will become difficult, and you don't want to have new troubles in your life, so don't send a circle of friends at will. It's better for everyone to be cautious about posting on Moments, and don't change your life because of some wrong behaviors.

When a loved one dies, you can send it to Moments, but it is usually not recommended to post it to Moments, mainly because the death of a loved one may affect your work, and if you send the mourning hall directly to Moments, this practice is not respectful to the deceased.

When a loved one at home dies and sends a circle of friends, and your colleagues know about it, you come to comfort you as soon as you come, which is equivalent to constantly reminding you that the patient has passed away, you will fall into mourning, and you will not be in the mood to work, and it is easy for you to lose your job for a long time.

Most people think that posting the news of the death of a loved one in the circle of friends is an act of disrespecting the deceased. The best way to respect the deceased is to let him go with peace of mind and dignity, instead of using his death to create a topic and win the attention and sympathy of others.

If something bad happens at home, it is best to bury it deep in your heart, and don't use the method of Moments to vent everything.

The psychology of a loved one who has passed away and posted it on Moments

Birth, old age, sickness and death are the laws of nature, and the departure of relatives is a huge blow to everyone.

Most of the people who post this kind of circle of friends who have passed away are mostly teenagers who are not yet mentally mature, such teenagers' cognition of the world, as well as the logic of thinking are one-sided and have certain limitations, they can't clearly realize what kind of consequences their behavior will bring to themselves, and naturally they can't realize that their behavior is disrespecting the deceased.

A few days ago, I saw a friend's hair circle and found out that her father had passed away.

Many people around said that they shouldn't send it, and their loved ones died, and they were grief-stricken, and they also sent circles.

Death, this topic, is already sensitive, send a circle, and let a little like?

Yes, I still have a little say in this question, many years ago, my father died, and during the wake, I posted a date in the circle of friends, and my relatives at home gave me a good talk. Later, it was deleted.

In my cognition, when a loved one dies, I post some words in the circle of friends, such as going all the way, for others to see.

When the relatives are alive, filial piety is better than anything else, and when they die, they are just a handful of ashes, and other than that, there is nothing, and they can't see the sad crying of their relatives.

My relatives said that my heart was too ruthless and cold-blooded, and I didn't cry much when my dearest person died.

But they didn't know that when I saw my father pass away, I was relieved in my heart and didn't feel sad, and I believe that my father also wanted to leave, because it was a relief for him.

They also don't know how their father struggled to survive those hopeless and difficult nights.

At that time, more than ever, I wished he had died like this, so that he would not have to suffer from illness.

Death is not terrible, but it is not easy to live.

Therefore, we must live healthily, live with hope every day, do what we want to do, leave no regrets, and I don't know which will come first tomorrow or the accident.

It's better to take advantage of this to live every day. y(^_y

It is very inappropriate, in Chinese culture, the dead are the greatest, and the cave should be respected. Obviously, posting the ** before his death to the circle of friends is extremely disrespectful to the wishes of the deceased.

1. In the face of the loss of loved ones, everyone is immersed in a sad atmosphere, and at this time there is still the heart to take out the mobile phone and send a circle of friends, I am afraid that your relatives will not have such deep feelings in your heart! If it's really important, I won't have the heart to post it on Moments.

2. If you send it to the circle of friends, it is also disrespectful to the deceased relatives and friends on WeChat, as the saying goes, death is great, relatives have passed away, and it is not appropriate to send it to the circle of friends! I believe that in addition to some friends who express sympathy, there are also a large number of friends who are more taboo about this kind of thing, so it is better not to make this kind of move.

3. If you really feel sad or depressed and have nowhere to vent, it is recommended that after dealing with the aftermath of your loved ones, you can send a sentimental chicken soup for the soul to talk about the remembrance, I believe that this way is more appropriate than sending the dead person's ** in the circle of friends.

Condolences

Condolence is an important part of funeral customs, and the way of condolence varies according to local customs. When mourning, the distance between the deceased and the deceased is different, and the number of condolences and methods of condolence are also different. After receiving the message, the children of the deceased should first mourn, then ask about the cause of death, and make every effort to go to the mourning as soon as possible.

When they came home, they had to cry when they looked home, and some of their married daughters even cried all the way.

When you get home, you should first kneel before the spirit and mourn until someone comforts you. Relatives and friends, although they are not as sad as filial sons, but they should try to be more sad. When relatives and friends come to mourn, the filial son should accompany them.

Closer relatives and friends generally mourn before the spirit until someone comforts them. If you are not a close relative or friend, you can burn a few pieces of paper money in front of the spirit. When relatives and friends go to mourn, they usually have to bring gifts or cash gifts.

The gift money is sealed with yellow and blue sticks, and the blue slip in the center is written with "Folded Sacrifice Yuan". The words "Dian Jing Yuan". Gifts include plaques, couplets, banners, incense candles, paper money, etc.

The above content reference: Encyclopedia - Traditional Chinese Funeral.

Part of the people who do this do it want to pay tribute to the dead and remember the dead in this way. But there are still some people who do this because they just want to attract people's attention and get the attention of their circle of friends, and they have no respect for the deceased at all.

Times have changed, and new things and ideas are not so easy for them to accept. Their perception of the world is very different from our perception of the world. In addition to grieving the loss of their loved ones, they also need to take back the gift money they had before and continue to live a strong life.

The circle of friends they sent expressed their grief and could also notify their relatives to come to condole, which can be regarded as using the Internet to save the time of notifying relatives and friends one by one. There is nothing wrong with them posting on Moments like this, and their thoughts can't be said to be anything wrong even if they are put in front of us.

I just hope that I can get some people's sympathy, so I just send it to Moments and give other people a good feeling, that's it.

Even children don't know about the world's relationship network, and they can only send it to the circle of friends and notify them all over the place.

Rubbing the heat, recording, etc. rubbing the heat, in order to attract the attention of people in the circle of friends; Record, some people use the circle of friends as a recording tool, but they simply want to record this matter.

The first type of person is usually a more rational person in life, and it is difficult to share his thoughts with others, so he can only express his sadness on the Internet, which can be regarded as a kind of venting. When this kind of person faces the death of a loved one, although he will behave very calmly in reality, he is actually very painful in his heart, but he can't chat with the people around him if he wants to keep himself calm and rational.

At the same time, I am afraid that my sad emotions will affect the people around me, so I can only publish it on the circle of friends to express my sad feelings. It can also be regarded as a way to commemorate one's loved ones.

The second type of person is because he wants to be in the circle of friends, and others can comfort themselves when they see it. This kind of person needs attention, and I hope that others can give themselves some comfort and add a little heat to themselves when they see these contents. After all, when most people see the death of a friend's relative in the circle of friends, they will come to express their condolences and comfort, which is human nature.

The third type of person is thinking about leaving a mark on his circle of friends. After all, the day of posting on Moments is the death day of relatives. In the future, when I look through the previous circle of friends, I can still remember the days when my relatives died, which can be regarded as another way of nostalgia.

And you can also make some blessings, which is also the last diary you wrote for your relatives, and it can be regarded as the last filial piety. After all, everyone misses their loved ones in a different way. Some people just like to post on social platforms, and some people just like to be obscure and keep it in their hearts.