Is my current boyfriend worth the change?

Do it according to your own heart, in fact, being afraid of losing means that you are willing to change for him, and if he really loves you, he will tolerate you, I don't know if you understand what I said, in short, the affairs of two people cannot be decided by others, and you are the one who decides.

、I didn't understand it before、].

I always don't reply to the post、I haven't been able to raise my level and increase my experience、] Now I understand、].

Anyway, the reply can be upgraded

You can also earn experience

And it takes experience to level up

I'll copy that sentence

When you encounter a post, you will return, and you will flash your experience

First of all, do you know what love is? Sometimes it's not about having love, if it's very painful to be together, then you have to think about who is wrong, if it's yourself, you can change, if it's him, you can see if he can change it first, if you can't, it can only be so painful, it's better to let go, send you a word: life is like a train, every time you arrive at the station, there are always people who want to come, there are always people who have to go, people who go will not come back, people who come will have to go sooner or later, and in the end they are just sitting alone in that terminal station that belongs to them!!

You're just not independent enough. You just have to remember that you have to learn to be independent, in fact, you also know what the problem is, you feel that you care too much about the other person, but you feel that you love your own feelings, I think it's a good thing for you to give like this, which makes you ask the other person to pay for you. So learn to be independent!

Actually, nothing has changed, whether it is a man or a woman, they all want the other person to pay attention to themselves, even if it is an ordinary greeting.

Hello friend, because liking someone more or less will change for the better.

I'm not going to change myself just because I like you. If it's something you find that you need to improve, it will change, but not because of someone else.

Changing oneself for the sake of love is not recommended. But you can change for your own sake, not for someone else's sake. Last month, my colleague Zhenzhen was desperately **, in addition to doing yoga exercises at home for two hours every day, she didn't even eat dinner.

My boyfriend thinks I'm fat, and I'm going to change myself for him so he loves me more. When Zhenzhen said this, a smile spread on her face, and it could be seen that she was enjoying sweet love.

In the past two days in the unit, when I saw Zhenzhen again, I felt that she seemed to be a little depressed, and when she talked to her, she was also listless. During the lunch break, I asked her if something had happened. As soon as she heard me ask her, her eyes turned red.

She said that she didn't know what was wrong recently, and her boyfriend seemed to be a little cold to her, and he hadn't looked for her for more than a week. When I asked him, he said he was busy.

Everyone was at home during this time, and I don't know what he's up to. Zhenzhen said that she met her boyfriend in the game a few times: "He has time to play games, and he doesn't have time to send me a WeChat message."

So what did he say? I asked Zhenzhen. He said that he didn't play every day, he just felt bored in his heart and played.

Zhenzhen also told me that she told her boyfriend that in order to make him happy, she was in ** every day during this time.

Who knew that the boyfriend said: "That's your business, don't pull it on me, I didn't force you." One sentence made Zhenzhen's heart burn.

She said, "If it weren't for her boyfriend, she wouldn't want to suffer that sin." After listening to what Zhenzhen said, I felt that her boyfriend was not very attentive to her, and it can be said that he didn't love her much.

Zhenzhen was right, he would rather play games than contact her. Although it is said that love has times when it is tired, this kind of performance is indeed a bit excessive, at least it shows that he doesn't miss Zhenzhen so much, and his attitude towards Zhenzhen going for him is indeed very disappointing. But, then again, Zhenzhen actually has a big cognitive misunderstanding about love, that is, she said "I want to change myself for him".

I think it should.

Two people together should understand each other, tolerate each other, and change each other, there are few 100% compatible two people, two people together will not necessarily have some run-in, and these run-ins, there must be one person to make concessions, there must be one person to change, isn't it? If two people insist on being themselves, never compromise, and never change a little, it is like two hedgehogs with thorns, hugging can only stab each other, and it is impossible to be together for a long time.

I think changing yourself doesn't mean that you have to live as the other party likes, everyone will have some expectations for their lover, such as girls expect their boyfriends to be more careful, boys expect girls to be less tempered, and in fact, carelessness and temper will indeed affect the feelings of two people, so why not change yourself as the other party expects? If the other person's expectation is to make you better and better, rather than completely making you a different person, I think it's okay to change it and make fun of it.

If the other party expects you to make a change, it is against your own will or treats you as a stand-in for another person, such as asking you to dress exactly the same as your ex, and your living habits should be the same as your ex, then of course you shouldn't change, since he loves his ex, and what he sees through you is also his ex, then let him get out of here, and go back to find his ex? In short, it depends on whether it is worth it, whether it is willing or not, and whether it can make your relationship more complete.