A girl confesses to me, what should I do?

Drag this kind of thing can't be 100% certain, if it's really according to your mother's idea, I really don't know who will drag who in the future, who dares to guarantee that no one in the family will have the ability? Coming out of that kind of difficult growth environment, as long as you are not stupid, life will not be too bad in the future.

True love is challenging, do you have a crush on her? Do you feel like you want to relation, protection, and happiness for her? If you don't want to, do what your family wants, if you want to, then ignore others and hold her to challenge your future life, life has to be challenging to be more fun, isn't it?

You'll be happier, won't you?

If, you want to, then give yourself a little confidence first, won't you be better than your parents in the future? You have the greatest capital of youth, what are you afraid of? Believe in yourself, give you a good life for her, give your parents.

If you don't want to, I really admire that you can be so considerate of your family, after all, not every young person can think of this, parents are thinking about you, if you are not the kind of person who is confident that you can succeed, then be decisive, refuse, so that both sides are good.

Uh, it's too verbose, a little touching, I'm sorry...

What age are you? If you have worked and have a decent income, as long as you like her, the two of you are very happy together, her family conditions are not good, she also works these are problems that can be solved, if you are still a student, you don't need to think about it for too long, the specific problem is analyzed, your situation is not explained.

Then you can directly say your hardships, and she will try to come if she wants.

Thinking about it so much means that you don't like her enough, in fact, I can understand what you think. I can only say that if it were me, it would be rare for the two to be happy, but it would be impossible to meet. I'll take advantage of it, and it may be rare to encounter such a situation in the future.

Ask yourself first. Are you someone who loves others? It's still a family that loves others, and you have to control your own happiness.

This is not a problem at all, you will be on your own for the rest of your life.

Then do you like her, accept it if you like it, and say it if you don't like it.

Are you over 18?

You can try to communicate with your mother.

Ask yourself what is in your heart