What if I m introverted? I m already in college only to find out that this is really bad! Ay!

It's very important: a lot of times you have to push yourself!

First of all, participate in school activities, speech contests, debate competitions, you can give it a try.

Read more books and learn little by little from them. Recommend Carnegie's book to you, just change it little by little.

Another trick is to find a very outgoing person as a role model, first imitate his approach, and then slowly surpass him.

In addition, you can consult your homeroom teacher and these teachers

Good luck

Finding one's own shortcomings is a sign of positive progress, in fact, there is no need to be too anxious, I personally think that I can participate in more school activities and increase the opportunity to interact with others. In addition, is your self-confidence not enough, in fact, everyone has their own shining point, use your own shining point to help others or participate in social activities, and slowly the degree of attention will be higher, and self-confidence will be there, believe that you can do it, come on!

For both boys and girls, self-confidence is the most important thing;

Also, you have to remember that there are some things that you don't say and may never be known. (This is something I only started to understand in my two years of schooling).

Participate in group activities, and oh, be clear about what kind of person you want to be, introversion is not necessarily a bad thing, the key is whether you want to be introverted or not.

I also have the same problem: I was very introverted during the school period, it would be good to participate in more social practice, the secret is to speak boldly, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, don't have psychological hints, and take it slowly. It's good to enter society, everyone is slowly honed

Personally, I think: no need to deliberately change, no need to cater to others, as long as you are bright and proactive, it is OK.

Think so. If I continue to be introverted, I will achieve nothing, and I want to go to extremes. Under the trade-off, I still can't be introverted. Then let's get out of the way. Starting with a conversation, men and women are casual and find someone they don't know well but know to experiment.

Participate in more club activities, communicate more with classmates, find common topics with classmates, and slowly get better It's like this when you first enter college. It's really different from high school

You can participate in more activities, whether it is school or society, you can go to work during breaks, etc., and socialize with your friends more...

And socialize with people, be confident yourself...

It's good that you don't see your strengths, but introverts have a deep heart, so they feel a lot about things, and if you feel pressured, participate in more outdoor activities.

Then you have to be brave enough to socialize with others, overcome introversion in character, and grow yourself.

Summary. Hello, I'm going to go to college soon, but I'm more introverted and don't have self-confidence, don't worry, things gather like things, people gather in groups.

I'm going to college soon, but I'm introverted and don't have the confidence to do anything.

Hello, I'm going to go to college soon, but I'm more introverted and don't have self-confidence, don't worry, things gather like things, people gather in groups.

But I'm a boy, I'm sometimes afraid of what people say about me, I'm a bit sensitive.

Hello, are you a single parent.

Or have you been hurt in any way?

I'm not a single parent, I may have been a child, no matter what I did, my mother thought I couldn't do it well, and my mother had to do everything herself.

You can try reading aloud in the wild.

Or in a neighborhood park where no one is around.

What should I do, no matter what my mother has to do, I feel useless over time.

I think I'm going to suffer a lot when I find a job in the future.

I understand your feelings, and I just graduated from the past.

This one can be exercised.

If you exercise. Try reading aloud in a place where no one is around.

When someone looks at you once in a while, and you're not scared, you can move on to the next connection.

Well, good. Don't worry.

A lot of students are like that.

Who says introverts can't adapt to college life? I'm also an introvert, and I don't feel uncomfortable with university life. Being introverted doesn't mean you have psychological problems.

Of course, it is indeed more difficult for introverts to adapt to their surroundings than extroverts, and this is not only reflected in the school stage, but also in the society after graduation. You can try to be cheerful or make more friends, introverts also have friends. You don't close yourself off too much, but also try to go into the hearts of others, and if you have a few close friends, you will have less trouble.

The most annoying are some people who don't understand psychology at all, chirping every day about what is not good for being "introverted", not being able to adapt to society, and asking people in their hearts to change and so on.

Introversion, like extroversion, is a character trait, and there is no such thing as who is good and who is bad. Extroverts are sociable more sociable than introverts, but introverts are also more attentive than extroverts. Both personalities have their own strengths and weaknesses, and there is no need to deliberately change themselves.

Many of the famous people in history are introverts, so the key to success is not to change their personality, but to set a good position for themselves. Be clear about your own shortcomings and strengths, and choose a path that suits you.

When I was in college, there was a classmate who was super introverted and belonged to the kind of person who couldn't talk to strangers, but he was sincere, very considerate of other people's feelings, and rarely said hurtful things, so he was very popular in the class. So, brother, don't care about those people's words, and go on a path that suits you.

And you can tell from a few questions that you're not completely introverted, and you have a feeling of wanting to pop out.

First of all, I think you should get to know yourself well, see what aspects of yourself are inside, what is outside, talking, doing, communicating, communicating, ---

Then choose to make a slight change to your disadvantage, "so that you will find yourself not far from others".

It's not that it's bad to be introverted, it's just that I hope you can change appropriately to make yourself more in harmony with this society, is this also the way of human survival, I hope you can understand this society, this life.

No problem, our teacher also got a psychological test, and half of the results were invited by her to see psychological problems.

Introverts aren't the same in college yet, it's all about what you want to be.

If you want to be lively and cheerful, make more friends, go to more activities, participate in clubs, deal with people more, learn how to behave in the world, and expand your social circle.

If you want to become more informed and prepare for your future job, you should work hard to learn professional knowledge, deal with professional teachers, participate in professional competitions, go to internships in companies related to your major, take on projects, and accumulate experience.

If you want to continue your studies in graduate school, you can learn the professional knowledge and English you need to take the postgraduate examination, and if you are a graduate student of this university, you can get a lot of unexpected gains by getting acquainted with your future supervisors.

The same goes for taking the civil service exam or going abroad.

Don't waste too much time on computer games, it's better to skip class and travel than to sleep in your dorm room and play games.

Communicate with others and be part of the community... Good for you.

How to put it, introverts suffer more!

If you don't express yourself, you'll be taken seriously if you don't fight in a normal way.

No one thinks of you at a critical time.

There is nothing wrong with being public, but you don't want to be so annoying that you don't want to be public.

Be arrogant when you should be arrogant, and don't be afraid when you should behave at the banquet.

That's enough!

It depends on what kind of introvert you are, if it's autism, it's even more serious than being introverted.

First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths.

Then, let your strengths play to your strengths. This is the most basic. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good.

You have to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. We must do more, only in this way can we taste the satisfaction and confidence of success as much as possible. If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything.

The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, then you can be confident.

Of course, maybe take your time. You can start with small things and gradually increase them. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.

In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you. You must know that what others say about you is always what they think.

And honestly, we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing. Why don't you care so much about him?

It is necessary to have the momentum and courage of the world to exist only for itself. No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

In the last sentence, as long as you believe in yourself, you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.

Hope it helps.

Hello this junior!

I'm a college student,,, I just came out of high school last year, and I used to rarely communicate with my classmates in high school for the sake of my studies (which may also be related to my personality), and I basically didn't have any good classmates. Now that I'm in college, like many of my classmates, I want to have a good social relationship without delaying my studies,,, so I apply to a university in another province, and I don't know anyone here,,, so you start to communicate with people from a new starting point,,, so there is nothing to scruple about,,, be enthusiastic about people, and communicate with people sincerely,,, I am now in school, at least in our class, which is the kind of more active ,,, from my own example, I want to tell you:

First, you should first stay away from your former friends, because there will always be that weird feeling in front of your former classmates, you should know

Second, since I went to college ,,, I had to correct my mentality, I won't go into detail about the importance of interpersonal communication,,, just behave when you have the opportunity in front of strangers, there's nothing to be afraid of!! Make friends on your own,,, I hope what I say will be helpful to you!!