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The charm of abiding by Zhu Kunfeng.
When I was in elementary school, I read a foreign story: one cold winter night, an officer who was about to catch the last train to the barracks was stopped by a woman, the officer was a little angry, and the woman hurriedly explained: she saw a thinly dressed child on the street where the pedestrians were thinning, he was sent to stand guard on the corner of the street at dusk playing a war game, and his commander said that there should be no retreat without an order.
The woman understood that by this time the other children, who had forgotten about the incident, might have been asleep in the hot quilt, and advised him to hurry home, but the stubborn child insisted on leaving the ...... only after receiving ordersThe officer's face gradually overflowed with a soft and solemn expression, he walked to the child with the steps of a soldier, saluted in a dignified manner, reported his rank, and said: "You have completed the task excellently, I order you to leave your post and go home immediately!" The child looked at the officer convincingly, returned a military salute, and danced away.
This story touched me as deeply as another story I personally experienced, and made me realize the charm and value of a promise from time to time
At that time, I had just graduated from Lu'an Normal College and was teaching at a middle school in the countryside of Anhui. It was six years ago, on a cold winter night with snowflakes flying. I was curled up in my dormitory with my futon wrapped in a futon and fighting hard for the graduate school entrance examination, when there was a soft knock on the door.
One sound, and another, sporadic hesitation, sounded on such a cold winter night when no one was likely to visit. I listened intently, and at first I thought it was the wind blowing against the ice, but the sound grew from staccato to resolute and resolute. I got up and walked to the door, and at the same time I heard the voice of a little girl trembling outside the door:
Teacher, please don't open the door, okay? I stood outside the door for a long time. I just want to borrow 10 bucks from you, can you hand it to me through the crack in the door?
Teacher, I will definitely pay you back, please lend it to me......"The little girl suddenly began to sobb aloud, her childish cry and the sound of the wind and snow, and the ice pick pierced the weakest part of my soul. Poor and self-respecting little girl, I also had a poor and bitter childhood! Remembering the scene when I couldn't afford to buy a schoolbag when I was a child, my tears welled up all of ...... I had out of the door
Three years later, I got my wish and was admitted to graduate school. The little girl's trembling cries have long since faded in my memory. It wasn't until before the winter vacation that I suddenly received a remittance slip signed by Zhang Qin from the remitter, and there was such a sentence in the short postscript column:
I was full of emotion all of a sudden, not to remit money for 100 yuan, but to make a vow for the female string. What the girl sent me was not just 100 yuan, but something called "credit" that was thousands of times more valuable than money, and flowers bloomed suddenly in my heart!
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The barber brought an apprentice, and the apprentice officially took up his post after a few months of learning. He finished giving his first customer a haircut, and the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is too long." The apprentice was silent.
The master explained with a smile on the side: "The long hair makes you appear subtle, which is called deep concealment, which is very in line with your identity." ”
The customer listened and went away happily.
The apprentice finished giving a second customer a haircut, and the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is cut too short." The apprentice was speechless.
The master explained with a smile on the side: "The short hair makes you appear neat, simple, and kind, which makes people feel kind." ”
The customer listens and goes away satisfied.
The apprentice finished the third customer's haircut, and the customer smiled while paying the money and said, "It took a long time." The apprentice didn't know how to answer, and stood aside wringing the corner of his clothes.
The master smiled: "It is necessary to spend more time for the 'leader', haven't you heard of 'entering the door of the blue-headed showman, going out white-faced scholar'?" The customer laughed and walked away.
After the apprentice gave the fourth customer a haircut, the customer smiled while paying and said, "The action is very neat, and the problem will be solved in 15 minutes." The apprentice was silent.
The master smiled and said: "Nowadays, time is money, and you have won valuable time and money by working hard to win you valuable time and money, why don't you do it?" ”
The customer listened and said goodbye satisfied.
Closed in the evening. The apprentice was stunned and asked the master, "Master, why are you speaking for me everywhere?" In turn, I didn't get it right once. ”
The master smiled generously: "Yes, everything contains duality, there are right and wrong, there are advantages and disadvantages. The reason why I encourage you in front of your customers is twofold:
For customers, it is to please others, because everyone loves to listen to auspicious words; For you, it is both an encouragement and a spur, because everything is difficult at the beginning, and I hope you will do a more beautiful job in the future. ”
The apprentice was very moved, and from then on, he studied more and more diligently. Day after day, the apprentice's craft became more sophisticated.
People raise the sails of life in encouragement, enjoy the joy of success in encouragement, and create miracles in encouragement. Encouraging others is both an art and a virtue. Gratitude to the encouraged person is the best reward for the encourager.
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Hehe, I don't know? Stupid! So many words, who will give you a call! It must be a fool to give you a big one!! Hmph==!!
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1) The little boy is faithful to his post in the game, there is no order, he will not retreat, he still insists when the night is dark and the wind is high, the kind woman turns to the officer, and the two recognize the boy's behavior in a suitable way and give a reward.
2) After five years, I learned that the girl who borrowed 10 yuan from me with pity and self-esteem was called Zhang Qin, because she kept her promise and repaid the money she borrowed from me. After five years, in the face of Zhang Qin's 10-fold return, I feel the great charm of keeping my promises.
2.Something called "credit", which is a thousand times more valuable than money, suddenly bloomed in my heart like a flower!
2) refers to the insistence of the poor self-respecting Zhang Qin in the dilemma of borrowing money, and lays the groundwork for the fulfillment of his promise.
4.Not contradictory.
Gentleness is the love for the boy's silly behavior of keeping his promises, and solemnity is the sublimation of the officer's feelings, from pity for behavior to love for the spirit.
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The little girl has her own ideas and doesn't want the teacher to know about her, and she doesn't want the teacher to ask her why.
In addition, she occupied the door for a long time, and the knocking sound was scattered, and it could be seen that she had thought and struggled, and added an ignorant child, whose immature heart was reflected, and there may also be a feeling of being forced to be helpless, the expression on her face that could not be described in words.
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