Why don t men and women get married as soon as they get married?

This is why do men and women get married as they do when they get married?

That's what you mean.

I'll tell you: it's not that after getting married, it's that person is still the same person. Why does it feel different?

Tell me what I think:

First, before getting married, one person shows the good side in front of the other. After getting married, the other side can be discovered.

Second, after getting married, I feel that I am all my own people, so I will lose the etiquette before marriage and be less polite. Speech is not so gentle.

Three, it is true that some people are completely different before and after marriage, and that is a **.

It's in hand, there's no freshness, it's conquered, etc.

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love.

It is also said that what you get is never as good as what you can't get.

Happiness in marriage does not depend on love, even if husband and wife do not love each other, as long as there is love between two people, as long as two people are more suitable in all aspects, there is still a chance to live happily.

For the vast majority of people, the ideal marriage state should be to marry the person they like.

And most people will also believe that this kind of marriage in which two people love each other can be maintained until they grow old together, because they believe in the power of love.

Frankly, I also want my marriage to be like this, and I think it will definitely be very happy, but this is still too ideal after all, and most people may not be able to do this.

It can be said that in fact, many people's marriages are without love, at least there is no kind of love that you love him and he loves you.

But why is it that even in a marriage, not both people love each other deeply, and their marriage can last? Because love is not a necessity for marriage.

Love is only a very small part of life, whether we are happy or not, whether we are happy or not does not depend entirely on love, there are many things that can make us happy.

Even if you don't love the person who is partnered with you, many of the things he does for you will still move you and make you feel happy.

For example, when you are lonely and vulnerable, he gives you comfort, such as when you are tired and hungry, he gives you warm meals, such as when you need encouragement and support, he stands silently behind you.

Maybe you don't love him, but you will still be moved by the things he has done, and you will also feel that it is a kind of happiness, so a marriage without love is not necessarily unhappy.

And for men, in fact, love is not so important, there are too many things in this world that can make men feel happy, as long as they are not deprived of these things, there is nothing without love.

You will definitely be very unhappy after marriage, mainly because the marriage between the two of you is not premised on love at all. In this case, after getting married, the two of them will not get along very happily.

will not be happy, because this boy doesn't like this girl at all, and if the two are together, there will be no good results, and the marriage will not be happy.

No, because you and the other person have no feelings at all, so there will be no feeling of happiness, and happiness is based on two people who love each other.

It will not be happy, because two people do not have any common language together, and two people will not feel particularly happy when they are together.

will not be particularly happy, this guy doesn't like this girl at all, and the two don't have a very good relationship foundation.

Yes. Marriage is not a matter of one person, you have to consider the people in the family, there is no way, who doesn't want to be with the person you love! But people can't be very selfish!

Some are oppressed by life, some are forced by their parents, and some don't believe in love, and it doesn't matter if they marry someone they love or not.

Sometimes there are two; The first; Yes, a man marries a woman he doesn't love for money. The second kind; No, marry the woman you love.

However, there are other opinions: young men will not, they have dreams and ambitions, and like us women, they also have a lot of good expectations for the other half, and when the other party is not the person they like, he will bravely leave him.

But older and more mature men will not, for example, a man in his 30s, he will ask his other half to meet his own requirements in terms of material, image and education, and match his identity (of course, there are others), and there are more and more complex factors to consider. I also think long-term and take into account the feelings of my family.

And then there are young little white faces, as long as they have money, what is ugly and old, and it is the truth to be stubbornly entangled!

The essence of marriage is a transaction, and as long as the chips are in place, nothing is a problem.

Most of the reasons why men don't get married is because of lack of money, and only a very small number of people really don't want to get married, and most of the reasons why women don't get married are because they don't want to get married or are empty-sighted.