I m good looking, and I have a good personality, so why doesn t anyone chase me?

fainted, then you have to really recognize yourself!! For example, some people are very outgoing and mingle with boys, and that kind of girl thinks that her personality is good, and it is indeed good, but the problem is that in the eyes of boys, there is a feeling that this kind of girl is only suitable for being friends, not for being a girlfriend. So you start from yourself, make yourself more feminine, perhaps, the effect is better! ·！

Because others haven't found out your goodness yet, but if you find a good goal, then don't blame it, rush forward, and chase after it.

Maybe you're too cold, and it's not a reason to chase you, look at people, you haven't met a one, congratulations.

Don't keep thinking that no one will chase me, if that's the case, then no one will chase you, you have to try to do your best, and often make the boys happy so that they will be more impressed by you!

Don't you have the opportunity to meet new people? Or is it not attentive enough? If you don't know the reason yet, you can find a friend of the opposite sex who has a good relationship and ask what the reason is!

Because as good as you are, it hasn't appeared yet

It's that you are good-looking, and others think you have high vision, so no one dares to chase you, and you should take the initiative to chase others.

The people who love me and the people I love.

It's in your heart.

Some girls who have been single are curious, why have no boys chased them for so many years, is it because of their appearance or personality? In fact, in a relationship, you don't have to be chased by others, you can also take the initiative when you meet a boy you like! Below, let's take a look at the general reason why girls are not chased.

Most of the reason why girls are not chased is because they are not good enough, and the so-called not good enough include:

1.Not looking beautiful enough In the relationship between the sexes, the attraction of appearance is the most direct attraction. If a girl has no talent and no temperament, but is beautiful, she can also attract the attention of the opposite sex.

2.The circle is too small As the saying goes, the fragrance of wine is also afraid of deep alleys, if the girl's personality is more introverted, not good at interacting with people, and there are few activities on weekdays, so they objectively circle themselves in a fixed activity trajectory. If there are few boys in the circle in which girls usually move, then naturally no one will chase them.

3.The personality is not pleasing I don't know if you have noticed that many average-looking girls, but because of their cheerful and lively personalities, they can play with boys, so the opposite sex is very good.

And those girls who look okay, but have a withdrawn personality, often make boys shy away and dare not approach.

The reason why girls are not chased is because they are not good enough, and another reason is because a good hand of cards has made girls play poorly.

Many girls rely on their beauty to be beautiful, so they regard beauty as a kind of capital, wandering among boys, and their boyfriends keep changing one after another.

Which boy likes to be a pick-up man? When a girl's casual style of making friends has spread in the circle, the boy will naturally not chase it.

If a girl wants to meet love, she must first learn to love herself, and secondly, she must constantly make herself better, change those you can change, there is always a boy waiting for you not far away.

First of all, everyone has their own opinions and feelings about how they look, but remember that physical appearance is not the only factor that determines our worth and attractiveness. Appearance is only a person's hidden characteristics, and our value and attractiveness also include internal quality, personality, interests, talents, etc.

If you feel that you are ugly and unworthy of pursuing someone you like, here are some suggestions:

1. Cultivate self-confidence: Self-confidence is the key to attracting people. Believe in your own worth and uniqueness, learn to accept your appearance, and show inner confidence and positivity. A confident attitude will make you more attractive.

2. Pay attention to internal quality: appearance is only the tip of the iceberg, and internal quality is more important. Cultivate your hobbies, learn new knowledge, develop your talents, and show your unique charm and wisdom.

3. Make real connections with people: Connecting with people you like isn't just based on your appearance. Make an effort to establish deep communication and emotional connection with the other person, showing that you are kind, considerate, and understanding.

4. Pay attention to personal image and health: Although appearance is not everything, it is also important to maintain a good personal image and healthy habits. Take care of your body and image to give a positive, healthy and energetic impression.

5. Don't set limits on yourself: Don't be too obsessed with the impact of your appearance on your feelings. Everyone's definition of attraction and beauty is different, and feelings are complex and individualized. Don't set limits on yourself, be brave enough to express your feelings and pursuits.

Most importantly, you learn to accept and love yourself. Don't rely solely on your physical appearance for your worth, but show yourself by cultivating inner qualities and self-confidence. Everyone has something unique about appealing, believe in your charisma, and look for those who can appreciate and like you.

People with good conditions in all aspects should be pursued by people, and it is easy to catch up with people, but there are exceptions, such people are generally extremely rare, and in real life this kind of thing is really there, the reason, according to my opinion, is generally not branched out in the following situations.

First: He is too beautiful and outstanding, and his personality is arrogant, which makes the opposite sex around him feel ashamed and dare not look away. This kind of beauty is beautiful, but it lacks vitality and is not easy to get close to.

Even if a man with commendable courage dares to chase it, he will definitely chase it very hard, and even if he really chases it, he will feel very boring and boring after getting along for a long time. And usually, men's patience is very limited, and few people can hold on to it to the end.

Second, he is impeccable in terms of appearance and figure, but he has a lot of life experience. an unbearable past; dazzling past; Shameful smudges.

This third point is a bit heart-wrenching, but this is also an objective existence, and people must understand themselves correctly. But some people don't know themselves at all, look at themselves in the mirror, and always pity themselves for looking good from head to toe, a typical beauty! Now there is a beauty camera, a retouching filter down, but anyone with complete facial features, everyone can become a beauty, if the reality and the P picture become chaotic, then the evaluation of their appearance, naturally, will be seriously deviated.

You think you are a beauty, but in the eyes of others, you are just an ordinary person with an ordinary appearance, or even a slightly uglier woman, ordinary women and ugliness are not sins, obviously not beautiful, but think that your beautiful resentment and sighs are ridiculous and sad. Even if a man who doesn't pay attention to his face chases you, this man who sells "work" will run away in fright.

Whether it is a handsome beauty or a fake beauty who pretends to be amazing, in fact, you should understand: no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it cannot last forever, and it is superficial and sad to only use hue as capital and have nothing else. "Life is dark and long, only the soul can illuminate the future."

After a few years, you'll understand that this isn't chicken soup, it's the truth.

In today's society, looking at the appearance, it is too heavy, girls are ugly, boys feel pressure, girls are beautiful, and they are worried that she will not last long; The boy is ugly, the girl feels that he is very faceless, and the boy is too handsome and thinks he is not safeOh my God, what exactly does it look like to fit our feelings? When it comes to "confession", everyone thinks it must be a very happy thing, but it also depends on what kind of boy confesses, if it is a tactful boy who confesses to you, will you accept it?

In fact, a man's appearance is not the most important thing, the important thing is that the man is responsible, wise, and responsible. It doesn't matter what a man says, what matters is whether he can keep his promise! It doesn't matter how much money a man has, what matters is whether it is spent on you or not!

It doesn't matter if a man is in **, what matters is whether he cares about you in his heart. Generally speaking, men will care more about whether a woman's appearance is attractive, while women don't care so much about a man's appearance and care more about the other party's economic conditions. One exception, though, is that most women care about a man's height.

In fact, you can try to see everywhere, getting along with each other in love is the most important thing, and a handsome appearance can't guarantee that he can always bring you happiness. I can understand the girl's concerns. In this face-looking society, appearance is undoubtedly very important.

When you first meet someone, your first impression is mainly based on your appearance, and if you look good, others will be interested in the inside. After all, everyone loves beauty, both for themselves and for others. The other person's appearance is very attractive, or it can be seen in the past, so that you want to understand the other person on a deeper level.

Therefore, appearance plays a very important role in the process of understanding and communicating.

No one likes a sloppy look, but, as we believe, we know that looks aren't everything. It is normal for men and women to have requirements for their appearance when they are in love, after all, everyone wants to find a rich and handsome. When we first met, we didn't know each other, so we naturally found feelings through our appearances.

It is true that appearance is a favorable condition for a person to fall in love. But after a long time together, appearance will take a back seat. If two people have a good temperament and a common language, people are more willing to find the person who is in tune with each other.

In real life, we have seen some people's boyfriends and girlfriends, and their appearance is extremely incompatible with them, but the relationship is very good.

Don't look at people outside, because some are good boys on the inside, it's okay to look good, I love my wife, I don't think it matters.

You can't look good, as long as you look pleasing to the eye, you can consider it if you're good for yourself, first observe him for a period of time, how you look is not important, first examine his character, and then carefully experience it from the usual daily chores, observe whether he has a sense of responsibility, whether he is filial to his parents, see what kind of friends he has made around him, whether it is praiseworthy of people to deal with people, a woman marrying is equivalent to a second life, don't easily believe in men's rhetoric, consider it comprehensively from all aspects, After all, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is the union of two families.

Of course, I accepted it, and good character is more important than appearance, because boys with good personalities will love girls very much.

Observe him for a period of time before speaking, how he looks is not important, first examine his character, and then carefully experience it from the usual daily trivialities, observe whether he has a sense of responsibility, whether he is filial to his parents, see what kind of friends he has made around him, whether it is praiseworthy to treat people and behave in the world, a woman marrying is equivalent to a second life, don't easily believe in men's rhetoric, consider it comprehensively from all aspects, after all, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a combination of two families.

can't accept it, because I still attach great importance to appearance, and there are many good-looking boys who also have good personalities.

If you don't dislike it, you should accept it.,The personality is very good and much stronger than handsome.,After all, we have to live together in the future.,Get along every day.。

You can't judge people by appearance, as long as you look pleasing to the eye, you can consider what is good for you.

People can't look at the outside, the inner beauty is the most important...

It doesn't matter if you look good or not, what matters is whether you are good or not.

It's best to get along for a while, some good-looking ones are scumbags.

Accept it, because I don't value a man's looks very much, only his ability and character.

Let him go, don't use him as a spare tire.

Do you have money and a house? Matter first.

Some people are good-looking, but they can't speak, giving people a feeling of boredom, is it because of this?

I don't think there is a question of "whether you should agree to him or not", because love is not pity and charity, touching and guilt, and neither envy is love. If you like him, promise him; If you don't like it, you should reject it from the beginning. Since he has been pursuing you for five whole years, it means that during these five years, you have not given him a clear answer to make him feel that he has a chance, and that there is a possibility between you.

Once he has this hope, he will think that you are not accepting him, but you are actually testing him, and he will keep chasing him. If you tell him clearly from the beginning: I have no feelings for you, I don't like you, I hope you let go and don't waste time on me.

If he doesn't listen and continues to pursue, it's his own problem, and you don't need to feel guilty. Because every adult should have the ability to pay for his own choices, since he is determined to pursue you with wishful thinking, it means that he is ready to bear the consequences, even if you still do not accept him in the end, he is happy to enjoy the process of pursuing you. So the answer to this question is still up to you.

He pursued you for five years, and you should be clear about your feelings. This is the time to think about how you feel about him. If you like him, stay with him, and if you don't like it, you don't have to force yourself.

Feelings are not a one-man show, don't be with someone because you are moved, because feelings are not love. True love should not have an element of pity and pity, which is unfair to both people. It is not the key for him to pursue you for five years, and it is not the key to pursue you for ten or twenty years, the key is your own inner choice.

Because it is his choice to pursue you; Whether you accept it or not is your choice. Taking responsibility for your own choices is the best outcome. end.