Do you regret not marrying the person you wanted to marry at first sight? 10

There is a gap between the ideal and the reality, there are many times when you look at the person who is tempting, it is not necessarily suitable for you to marry, but it is not suitable for yourself, then don't marry him, since you have already married, then there is no regret.

It doesn't make much sense to regret things that have become a foregone conclusion, and the right person at the right time is not only once in a lifetime.

Regret but will not linger, the person who wants to marry at first sight, I am fortunate to lose my life, I must believe that now is the good arrangement.

I think it's one thing if you want to get married, not necessarily.

You didn't marry the person you wanted to marry at first sight, because you observed him for a while, and you felt that he and you were two different people, and you couldn't adapt to his lifestyle, and you couldn't get along, so you decided that you couldn't marry him.

Not married to the person you wanted to marry at first sight? Do you regret it? If you want to marry, as long as you choose what you choose, you don't regret it, it mainly depends on your inner choice!

No, the person you want to marry is not necessarily the most suitable person.

No**low**, this must be difficult, because if you like someone, as long as you marry him, you are very happy, but it is a pity not to give him the words.

What is there to regret, everyone should cherish the present.

I said that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan. Therefore, my love is all about getting married. But it's not like I just got married.

The first person who really wanted to marry was his first love, the sports student who was like poison. It's been ten years since we broke up after graduating from high school, and I remember my freshman year, passing by on a street corner, but we're still in peace. As for his current situation, I have basically heard about it.

1. I heard that he became a teacher.

I remember that when he graduated from high school, he was admitted to Erben's school. If you are a student with a sports specialty, your major should also be related to sports. In the past two years, I heard that it is also in the city where I stayed.

Working as a physical education teacher at an elementary school on a certain road in a certain district. A person who looks so strong and looks so serious without smiling, will he be amiable when he is a teacher for elementary school children? There should be, after all, people are really sunny when they laugh.

I heard that for the sake of my career, I actively participated in various school activities, and occasionally socialized, and it seems that I am also very busy. In the same city, there is no intersection in life and work, may he be prosperous.

2. I heard that I got married at the end of last year.

After graduating, I fell in love with an alumnus of my high school and college, and later after graduating from college, because I was busy with my career and neglected others, they broke up in frustration and married someone else. I heard that he regretted losing her, and I heard that he was depressed for a long, long time. Well..

For me, it was still inexplicably heartbroken when I heard this. After all, these are all treatments that I have never had.

And then I never heard of his feelings. It's just that at the end of last year, someone sent me two **s, which were his wedding photos. I finally saw him get married, but it wasn't as rosy as I imagined.

Maybe he also missed the person he loved the most, maybe this person is not as good as me no matter how he looks at it, and even less as the one he once loved deeply, but his name is filled in the spouse column, and they win all of them.

3. I heard that they are still together and often get together.

Maybe it's because everyone has returned to their home city, and their sports students in those years are still together. There is almost no movement in his circle of friends, maybe he has changed his number, but a few people who have known him are still there. Occasionally, in the news, you can see them drinking and talking, as if they were teenagers.

His laughter is still the same, and his smile is still sunny. Once classmate Xie took a ** to me and said, "Look, it's still so handsome."

I laughed and didn't say anything. Maybe there are several batches of friends around you who have been back and forth, but it feels good to have a group that has always been there.

They occasionally get together, but I never attend, I don't miss any of this, I'm just afraid of embarrassment, I used to be impulsive when I was young, there was no skin injury, but internal injury coughing up blood. Therefore, some people are better than nostalgic when they see each other, and it is better not to see each other again.

You and I were both teenagers, and when we became adults, you and I witnessed unrelated lives, and we would see the same people, but we never saw each other again.

In the long river of life, there are moments when we will see the shining point of a certain person, which makes us believe that this person can be entrusted for life. These moments may be the meticulous care in the ordinary, or the tenacity and responsibility in difficult times, or the kindness and sincerity in ordinary days. Here are the moments that make us feel that the person in front of us can marry and marry.

First of all, performance in the face of difficulties can often reveal the essence of a person. When we face adversity, some people choose to complain, while others choose to face it bravely. I remember that in the heavy rain, in order to protect our home, he stuck to the door, although he was soaked, his eyes were still firm.

At that moment, I saw his sense of responsibility and perseverance, which convinced me that he was a man worthy of being entrusted with his life.

Second, there are those tiny, seemingly mundane moments. For example, when I was sick, he made a bowl of hot soup for me. Another example is that time when I saw an injured kitten on the side of the road, he decided to attack Sun Zhaoding and take it to the veterinarian without saying a word.

These moments let me see his kindness and caring, and also let me know that he is a trustworthy person.

Then there is his attitude when dealing with problems. At one point, we had a very tricky problem and I almost gave up. But after carefully analyzing the situation, he came up with a workable solution.

At that moment, I felt deep admiration, and at the same time saw his wisdom and determination. It made me know that no matter what difficulties I face in the future, he will be there for me.

Finally, there is that love of life and optimism. He always finds the good in life and faces everything with a positive attitude. With him, I feel that life is full of fun and hope.

This attitude makes me believe that we can get through the auction no matter what difficulties lie ahead.

In general, those moments that make us feel that the person in front of us can marry are the most ordinary and the most real moments in life. These moments allow us to see their true qualities, attitudes, and values. When we meet these people who can make us feel at ease and trusted, we should cherish this feeling, because this may be the happiness we have been looking for.