What is it like to be disgusted by your ex girlfriend and still be so poor?

If your ex-girlfriend gets back together with you, and she steps on your shoulders to climb up to a man who is richer than you, you may not be as easy as you are now, and a money-worshipping woman stays by your side, and you yourself should not have much security.

What you care about is just what you need to say, if you abandon the current one, it's really not a person, the predecessor just cares that you have money, if you run out of money that day, she will definitely leave you.

Maybe if you think about the problem from a different angle, you won't be so entangled. If you are your current girlfriend, if you have given everything for your boyfriend, and you have always thought that soon you will have your own future, but now your boyfriend is disconnected from your ex-girlfriend, will you be sad? Do you get chills?

I don't care about her, I don't care what she says, I'm trying, trying to prop up a home for my current girlfriend! Don't bully young people into poverty.

Don't bully young people to be poor, I used to be poor, and I am still poor now, but my hard work, it is not necessarily who will become a master in the future!

So what, look down on me now, but no one can say what will happen in the future, as long as you have a heart to work hard, where will you go?

Don't talk nonsense about this kind of woman, refuse directly in front of the current one, and say that you are in a relationship with the current one, and it is also the time to express your determination with the current one.

You rejected me when you felt that I was not worthy of you, and when she felt that I was worthy of you, you were no longer worthy of me, cherish the present.

I understand your ex-girlfriend's concerns. She is still in graduate school, has no life**, and needs your financial support financially. I suspect she is anxious and panicked about the uncertainty of the future.

And the embarrassment of your family of origin exacerbates this anxiety and panic. This requires you to communicate and coordinate to help her build confidence in the future and create a better life together.

Now you are thinking about whether to break up with her and ask your friends, I don't think it's necessary at all, everyone looks at the problem from a different angle, and the conclusions will be different. And people change, who knows in which direction your ex-girlfriend will change in the future? What's more, we, as melon-eating people, can't see anything else from your description of the stem except knowing your economic conditions.

Take myself as an example, I have also struggled with the importance of bread and love, but in the end I saw that two people together are not just love and bread can live together.

In terms of love, my husband and I have been together for three years to see our parents, we have been together for five years to buy a house and get a license, we have a wedding for seven years, and we have children for nine years. Love comes first, bread is earned slowly. But the factors that made me settle my mind that he would not marry were not these two, but my affirmation and appreciation of his character.

On the train, he would put suitcases for girls who took the initiative to help them; On the bus, he will voluntarily give up his seat; At the end of the party, he would clean up the vomit of his roommates who were vomiting all over the place; In my family, he treated my parents sincerely and filial ......All these little details of life tell me that this person is worth marrying, even if there is no good life, but at least my heart is down-to-earth and fulfilling.

Love and bread are the foundation of being together, both are indispensable, and more importantly, what determines your togetherness. Love changes, bread changes, what keeps you together? This is something you need to figure out urgently.

Finally, whether you decide to break up or decide to stay on the sidelines, keep your posture graceful, listen to your inner voice, and have a clear conscience.

What people are most afraid of is losing confidence, whether it is for feelings or life, or for work, as long as they lose confidence, they will be very sad in their hearts, and sometimes they don't even dare to try similar things again, for fear that their hearts will be traumatized again. Especially emotional things, people are most likely to be hurt, such as being disliked by an ex-girlfriend, and they dare not go to their girlfriends until now, such a big person. They are going through a very painful experience, and they feel more bitter than eating coptis.

In fact, only those who have really loved will be so painful, because they care too much about each other, and they are disliked by the other party, and even they are a little disgusted with themselves, and they feel that they are really like what their ex-girlfriend said, maybe they are really unhappy in their appearance, or they may be that they really don't have any money in their hands, and they are just a poor egg; It may also be because of his low emotional intelligence, always offending people, etc., in short, he is useless, in the eyes of his ex-girlfriend, he has changed from the first lover to a worthless "bad guy" and "waste", which makes him feel that his body, mind and soul have been greatly traumatized, and he naturally has no confidence, he is not interested in everything, and he may be able to continue to live and work, but he has no feeling for finding a girlfriend again.

Such a person is experiencing a kind of pain, a kind of helplessness, a kind of loss, but there is nowhere to say it, because once you say it, you really feel like a bad guy, like a waste. For men, how can such a thing be said in public? Even if there is only one person around, they don't want to talk about it, they can only wait, wait for a girl to open their hearts and let them regain their confidence.

Your ex-girlfriend must have broken up with you because she disliked you in one aspect, and you are disliked so you don't dare to find a girlfriend again, which is obviously inferiority.

It is normal to be disliked by others, maybe being disliked by others will not hit your self-esteem, but being disliked by your own girlfriend will hit your self-confidence. Over time, this dislike will go deep into the bone marrow, and you won't even be able to raise your head in some aspect of yourself.

There are many reasons why you are disliked by your girlfriend, maybe because you are extremely ugly, or because you don't lift it. It's also possible to break up because of dislike for these two reasons, and there are also reasons for dislike of personality and daily life, but this won't hit your self-esteem, right?

If you are aware that you are really disliked in some way, you don't dare to find a girlfriend because you are afraid that the next girlfriend will dislike you like your predecessor.

People with low self-esteem are like this, the more inferior they are, the more they dare not face it. The more you dare not face it, the deeper the feeling of inferiority will become.

First of all, you should find out what your ex dislikes about you, and then face up to this shortcoming and change it. Give yourself more self-confidence to change the bad side. As long as it is corrected, it will no longer be disliked.

In addition, just because your ex-girlfriend dislikes it doesn't mean that other girls will. The point is that you can't dislike yourself. If you really look ugly, you can put more care into your attire so that you can dress appropriately. As long as you dress well, you won't be too disgusted.

Put away all your inferiority complex and change yourself from now on!

It shows that you have been affected by her dislike and emotional, you have some inferiority complex emotionally, you are already an ex-girlfriend, you should go out and let go of her influence on you, and you will have a better life!

I think it's probably because you went through the previous relationship, you were always disliked, and then now you may have some low self-esteem, and then you don't dare to go to your new girlfriend, and she will also dislike you, I think you can change it.

Very inferior, in the last relationship has a shadow, you must be confident, everyone is unique in this world, there will be a better person waiting for you in front of you, be brave.

I think this is a manifestation of your inferiority, a manifestation of not daring to look directly at your past, which is very uncomfortable, and you will lose your motivation if you feel meaningless in doing anything.

Ex-girlfriends are all in the past, so you don't have to think about her opinion anymore.

Hello first of all.

We're going to deny your girlfriend.

It's so selfish.

The poor ghost is just a satire on the weak.

If one pursues only material desires.

This is undoubtedly tragic.

Because the man is not sound.

At the same time, it also reflects a problem.

Current society. Money is not everything, though.

But you can't do it without money.

All in all. Happiness, joy.

It's all made by us with our own efforts.

Hope to work together.

The world is big. There's always the right one.

I also have a much better family situation than my boyfriend, but when I make money, I don't often ask my family for money, I earn it and spend it myself. Not long after work, when there is really no money in hand, who has a better family and who has a little more, what is there to worry about this. Besides, couples are generally together and girls spend a lot of money, and my boyfriend is reluctant to eat or spend, but as long as I want to buy something, I have to get it.

Maybe China has the habit of two people being together, and boys pay more, but they have to live a lifetime, so why do you care about that. Your girlfriend didn't even think about what she was going to do with you, so it's not too late to break up. Sooner or later, she will dump you, and then your injury will not be as simple as dumping him now.

The breakup was really not because of money, both of them had jobs and family conditions were comparable, but they broke up because of some trivial quarrels.

Does your ex-girlfriend think you're a poor ghost? Don't want such a woman, a woman who doesn't know how to respect others is not worthy of your love. Maybe you are just an ordinary person living an ordinary life, but these should not be an excuse for your ex-girlfriend to attack you, since you have had a fate in love, even if you can't stand the poor days, you shouldn't use words like "poor ghost" to humiliate you, such a woman in addition to worshipping money, but also has character problems, don't do it.

You should be glad that you can recognize her true colors when you are dating, otherwise it will be a tragedy to dislike you every day after getting married.

In fact, poverty is not terrible, what I am afraid of is that people are not self-motivated, many successful people are from scratch, from poor to rich, bit by bit by their own hard work, therefore, people can not be short-minded, as long as they do not give up or abandon, everything will be fine.

No, I didn't just pick it, it was so good for you.

If she is poor herself, and she still dislikes me for being poor, she doesn't want this kind of girlfriend.

So they're already ex-girlfriends, so it doesn't matter what she thinks.

Earn money silently.

When you go to the bank to withdraw money, the money is consecutive, indicating that the price is going up. When a classmate who usually likes to talk suddenly stops talking, it means that the teacher is here. When there are a lot of beauties in the village, it means that the anti-pornography outside is serious.

When everyone is playing with their phones after eating, it's time for you to check out. When you don't know how to spend 5 million, it means that it's time to wake up from the dream. When you see me typing so many words, it means that you and I have a fate, and it's time to like ......Truth be told, a poor guy like you doesn't deserve a girlfriend at all!