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There are many reasons that led Verne to success, but we have to pay attention to one detail: the encouragement of our family.
Encouraging relationships with human beings, like sunlight and plants, is an indispensable part of our lives. It's hard to imagine what Verne would have ended up without the encouragement of his family, and maybe he would have been just a pauper staring at pen and paper. Does encouragement really make that much difference?
Yes, there is.
In ancient times, there was a candidate who failed twice in a row. didn't pass the exam, and his mood at that time can be imagined by me. He was discouraged, feeling that it was in vain to study hard for so many years, he decided not to take the exam, and went home to farm for the rest of his life, and his relatives and friends came to dissuade him, comfort him, and encourage him.
He was very touched by everyone's concern for him, and he studied even more diligently to prepare for the next exam. When he finished the third exam, he was lifted, and since then, he has raised his eyebrows and prospered. Just a few short words that make a person's fate so great.
Doesn't change, encouragement play a big role? There are also examples of this in our daily lives.
When I gave my first speech, I was nervous and forgot most of my lines when I stood on the stage, and when I was done, I thought there must be a lot of boos from the audience, but the warm applause from everyone still inspired me. You may not think it's a good idea, but this kind of encouragement gives me great courage and confidence.
Whether it is Verne, or that candidate, whether it is a great man, or we ordinary people, we all need encouragement. Perhaps encouragement will rekindle the flame of hope for a person who has lost faith, and will give light to a person who lives in the dark. Encouragement can be a word, a bouquet of flowers, a round of applause, but the meaning of encouragement does not change, it is your love and care.
We must learn to help others, care for others, and more importantly, learn to encourage ourselves and encourage others!
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There is a saying in the concept of family education called "discrediting and appreciating education", which means that children should be treated with more encouragement, less criticism, and more appreciation to look at children's imperfections.
In fact, as adults, encouragement can turn despair or discouragement into an element of optimism and motivation, and it is instantaneous.
Whether we are parents, teachers, or company employees, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, if there are people in life who encourage us, we can endure it.
Encouragement means "injecting courage into someone", affirming their abilities, seeing them change, even if it's a word, a gentle pat on the shoulder, is a strength for others.
Your encouragement will motivate people to act, encouragement is not the goal, the key is to achieve the desired goal, so it is necessary to observe and measure the effect of encouragement, so that the encouraged person can do what he can do, and do it well.
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