Why there is a limit to human patience

Everyone has a way to regulate their mood and vent their unhappiness. Some people choose to listen, some choose to go shopping and eat, and some people choose to be in a daze. In fact, these methods are just to divert the mind from the goal, and no longer think about unhappy things.

It is much easier to calm your mind and think about things in this way, and your mood will change quickly. This is life, everyone's life can not be smooth sailing, occasional troubles, not smooth, can also be used as spices, add vitality to our life. Think about it, the time to adjust our mood is also our preparation for the next second of sprint.

When people are bored, they will think about a lot of things, and when they make themselves troubled, they will naturally be unhappy. So keep yourself busy, do what you love, and listen. You can also take advantage of the boring time to blow the wind and enjoy nature, which is something that is rarely done, and you can also let yourself see and enjoy another taste of life.

Everyone's life is incomparably wonderful, no matter what. Happiness, troubles, and sorrows are all treasures of life. Your life is just as exciting, come on and live your life and enjoy every moment.

Of course there is, but everyone's mentality is different.

So this limit can be controlled and extended. Unless someone has reached the realm of great freedom, there will be no so-called limits.

There is a limit to human patience, and most people have an experience:

Usually good-tempered people send ** to the most terrifying. Because a good-tempered person usually doesn't get angry because he has been patient, and when he can't bear it anymore, what he explodes is all his suppressed grievances, and it's not just about the current matter. The outburst of grievances over the past few days must have been terrifying.

This question may have something to do with your personality, and in my opinion, you may be an introvert. Sometimes a person will be depressed for a long time, and when it is time to lose his temper, don't control it, don't hold it in your heart, if you have something to say, you don't say anything to others and don't know what's going on with you. In addition, you seem to be very image-oriented, a bit face-saving, and a bit serious.

Hehe... A proper diarrhea will be fine, good luck!

Of course, there is a limit, there is a limit to one's patience, and when it exceeds this, it will explode. A person who is usually very cowardly can be very irritable and can also do terrible things. The more patient people usually are, the more terrible they are when they erupt.

Behave! Everyone has their own certain principles, and they will control this principle. However, the limit of patience is a definition of one's own principles, which can be wide or narrow within the scope of one's own understanding.

Sometimes you have to weigh up and talk about your limits, but this kind of life will only make you more unstable. So as long as you think you can understand, then bear with it! Otherwise, just say no.

That's how life should be, don't push yourself too much, then you will find that you have lost yourself somewhere.

Yes, it's the same for everyone, and when you get closer to that degree, you're going to be tired and broken. When you reach that point, you'll be calm. But most people give up before they arrive.

Because you're too annoying.

Because human life is limited.

Patience overflows when it's full like a container!

There is no patience, there is no emptiness, there is patience.

yes. Everyone's limits are different

Then I ask you, why is the container full of water and if you continue to add water to the container, the water will overflow? I'll tell you the answer.

If there is no low line, isn't it okay to be bullied by others?

It's just that when I can't figure it out.

I'll slap you 2 times.

If there is no response.

You win.

Dogs will jump strongly when they are in a hurry.

It's either an outbreak, or it's death!

If people don't have patience for a while, they will lose the opportunity to make amends for themselves and the other person.

Therefore, some people are willing to endure for a while, and expect the other person to realize their mistakes and treat them in a friendly way.

But the other side has intensified, ignoring friendly tolerance, hurting one at a time, and trampling on the actions taken by others to maintain friendly relations between the two sides.

Finally, the tolerant person no longer tolerates, he also has to pay attention to the people who love him, and he can no longer waste his mind on this fruitless relationship, and the relationship will break down.

There are so many things we need to endure in this world, and if moderate patience can alleviate conflicts and resolve conflicts, it will be worth it. And excessive patience will become a person's cowardice and incompetence, and will eventually make himself the biggest victim.

As the saying goes,"People are good at being bullied, and Ma is good at being bullied. "For those who know how to be grateful, your temporary patience is calm, but for those who are ungrateful, your temporary patience will be exchanged for the other party's inches; For those who can empathize, your temporary patience is the sea and the sky, but for those who are insatiable, your temporary patience will be exchanged for the other party's intensification.

Infinite patience, sometimes pointless indulgence, makes people more and more greedy. If you lose your principles because of patience and touch your bottom line, you are using yourself to please others, which is equivalent to abusing yourself and hurting yourself.

That is to say, a person's patience with him has a bottom line, and once the bottom line is broken, he will get angry.

Patience cannot be unlimited, and when the threshold is exceeded, it erupts and rebels.

I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore, and if I endure it again, I will suffocate myself.

Is excessive patience cowardice? Yes, excessive tolerance is a sign of cowardice.

Forbearance is the embodiment of a strong man. A strong person chooses to tolerate because he doesn't want to deal with a weak person, forbearance is a virtue, however, everything is the same, everything must have a degree, excessive modesty is pride, excessive tolerance is cowardice. There was once a popular saying on the Internet, "If you can't bear it, you can bear it all over again."

Would you believe that this is the words of a strong man? No! I absolutely don't believe it, since a strong man can't say such things, he must be a coward who says it.

This happened in our class, a classmate because he knew other people's little secrets and tricks, those classmates didn't want others to know, that person asked him for money, and more than once, in the face of such a situation, the classmates who asked for money were put up again and again, knocked out their teeth and could only swallow in their stomachs, until the teacher found out, the matter was over. In my opinion, if these people who ask others for money are the masterminds, then the people who are asked for money are both victims and **, and it is their "forbearance" that connived at them.

In the same way, our motherland blindly tolerated and was forced to sign the "Treaty of Shimonoseki" and the "Treaty of Nanjing" that humiliated us Chinese, and some people sold our country's land to others, and some even helped foreigners beat Chinese and become traitors. We in China have been bullied like this, China still tolerates it, no wonder foreign countries call us "the sick man of East Asia", is this the style of the strong?

Forbearance is a high-quality performance, but if others think that you are afraid and cowardly, they will bully you even more, and your forbearance will unconsciously become cowardly. Anger is a dagger that is used to protect us, and if you don't use anger to protect yourself, but just tolerate, then you will become a cowardly person, and no one will approve of your "magnanimity".

If a person's level of patience is really very bearable, it proves that this person is a very scheming person, not that he is very cowardly.

Goujian, the king of Yue, was captured by the state of Wu, and finally defeated the state of Wu. Gou Jian must have endured humiliation during his time in the state of Wu as a captive, but can you say that he was cowardly?

Patience is the tempering of endurance and inner peace.

In the face of other people's provocations, some people will fight back, and most people will be at a loss, at this time, we can use the most helpless, but also the most effective method, that is: patience!

A person with a goal must also learn to endure and even endure humiliation while sticking to the inner rules. In the strategy of retreating to advance, what we need to admonish ourselves is to learn to be patient, persevere to the end, and grasp the final victory.

A famous person once said: "Those who can really succeed, no matter how they plan, will understand that people have a period of stages and periods when there is no other way to go through it except patience." But the most dangerous thing is that during this time, we can all be easily discouraged. ”

Therefore, the so-called patience is not to passively wait and wait for pie to fall from the sky, but to endure the pain of waiting and continue to work hard. Patience can become a strategy for dealing with the world, and even an art.

Patience is actually to let time and facts prove itself, and in doing so, you can get rid of unprincipled entanglements or unnecessary quarrels. Patience thus becomes synonymous with perseverance. Perseverance and patience may be inseparable.

If we have both, we may have an extra wealth in our lives.