Why can t I forget it after ten years of breaking up?

Although you have broken up for ten years, you still can't forget it, it proves that this relationship has been deeply rooted and has been deeply buried in your heart, and after the breakup, you have been missing, missing this feeling, so this feeling is still enough, God can make you miss it so much, it always feels like a friendship that can't be abandoned, but now that you have broken up, you still have to face it, and you already know that this kind of breakup can't go back to the past, so there will always be this pain of loss, always put it in your heart, That's why you are so angry that you still can't forget this love after breaking up for ten years, which fully shows that you have paid your heart and soul to this relationship, and not getting this love is the regret of your life, so after ten years of breakup, you still can't forget it.

Although there are a lot of sadness and pain in the days with him, but more happiness and good memories, in the ten years after the breakup, you have never met someone better than him, so in comparison, you miss his good even more, at this time you will magnify his good to you, and gradually forget his harm to you.

Hello, I think you grew up in an unhappy family, and you feel that only such a man you can love, this is indeed a sadomasochism, this abnormal love. And have you ever thought about counseling in the past 10 years?

I think maybe counseling will be more helpful to you, help you build a healthier lifestyle, and let you get out of your attachment to the last relationship as soon as possible.

In fact, everyone is the master of their own life, you only live once, you want to let life shine, not continue to sink into the past, people must live soberly. Bless you.

Maybe the active party of the breakup is not you, and the reason for the breakup is not caused by you, you broke up when you were very passive and unwilling to break up, so you will not forget the past after ten years of being single. It's hard to change and forget.

The original love is too hard to remember, if there is no new appointment to think about it, it should be, but with a new appointment, the thought is broken, otherwise it will be unfair to the new appointment.

Is the question too complicated? Why can't I forget after breaking up for ten years, that is a very deep relationship, and I can never forget that relationship, because something happened that shouldn't have happened, so I separated, and that relationship can never be forgotten for ten or twenty years.

The breakup has not been forgotten for ten years, which shows that the other party occupies a very important position in his heart.

In fact, the biggest root cause is yourself.

Hold it, put it down. The so-called letting go refers to the state of mind, everyone in the world will have a lot of things, and at the same time will lose a lot of things, lose and lose, don't be nostalgic, be willing to let go. In fact, it's not that you can't forget, but you don't want to forget, knowing that the past is unbearable to look back on, so that the trauma is not easy to heal, which will only increase the burden on yourself.

If you always allow yourself to remember what you have lost, to regret or mourn in vain, you will not let the wound heal. But if you understand that the reason why you don't forget is because you don't want to forget, because you subconsciously enjoy that little bit of pain, then you are asking for your own suffering. Therefore, you have to be strong and have the courage to face reality, we don't need to cry for the spilled milk, it's futile.

You lost her, but you have a wider world, and the world doesn't stop moving because of your little misfortune, and you should keep going. Fate is a thing, you will naturally get it when you arrive, and you must treat everything with a normal heart!