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There are many people who think that when people reach old age, there is nothing to talk about, and some are just the gains and losses of each other's interests, and the better ones are at most the family affection that accompanies and takes care of each other. But as a person with flesh and blood and feelings, even the elderly, they still have the desire and need for love, Qian Zhongshu wrote in "The Siege of the City": The elderly are in love, just like an old house on fire and not saved.
Indeed, there are many elderly people who are used and deceived by ill-intentioned people in order to pursue the love they desire, and they are hurt financially and emotionally, but it is undeniable that there are still many people who have lost their spouses in old age, and once again encountered the lover who made their hearts move and make them yearn for, and for this love to enter the marriage again and enjoy the most beautiful sunset love.
Our neighbor Uncle Wang, 62 years old, his wife died of illness, because his wife was very affectionate and harmonious with Uncle Wang, and his feelings were deep, so Uncle Wang was not able to come out of his wife for several years after his wife's death, and he was depressed all day long, and he aged very quickly. Uncle Wang was a department-level cadre before retirement, the retirement salary was very high, and the person was clean and neat, after the death of his wife, there were many people around him to help him introduce, but Uncle Wang resolutely refused, Uncle Wang said that he didn't want to find someone around him who didn't feel no feelings. Many people think that Uncle Wang is whimsical, and he doesn't look at how old he is, and he still pursues love.
But Uncle Wang didn't let others say anything, but he was unmoved. In order to relieve loneliness, Uncle Wang went to participate in an elderly choir, but he didn't expect to meet his second love in the choir, Aunt Hao in the choir is cheerful and sings well, the two often practice together, and the two people have a good impression of each other and have feelings, Uncle Wang was infected by Aunt Hao's cheerful personality, and slowly opened his heart knot, and the two gradually couldn't do without each other, so they decided to get married and live together. Uncle Wang and Aunt Hao went back to ask for the children's opinions, although the children had concerns, but they did not object anymore when they saw that the two old people were resolute.
Now the two old people have been married for five years, live in Uncle Wang's house, spend their salaries together, trust each other, treat each other honestly, and get along very well with the children on both sides. The old friends around me are very envious of the life of the two old men and fairy couples.
Love is regardless of age, no matter what age it is, there will be love, who said that the elderly can not have love, once the elderly meet the real love, it may be more intense and mellow. If you really have this relationship, you should cherish it, right?
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Both men and women, young and old, have the right to pursue love. When a woman is old, it is only her face that grows old, and in her heart, she will still crave love;
Don't think that when you are old, your heart is like water, you have no desires, love is not divided between young and old, and having love is what everyone desires, especially old women, who need a sense of security and are more eager to be loved;
In short, love is needed no matter what.
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People need love when they are old. It doesn't matter if you're young or old. People rely on love. People are emotional creatures, this is understandable, we must learn to keep our love fresh.
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When people are old, they still don't want love, because your love is already the one who accompanies you to old age, that is the love you have, instead of choosing to talk about new love, which is a great disrespect for love.
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Love is needed. People are old and have experienced a lot, but they still need love by their side, someone who cares about you and sympathizes with you.
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Love is a lifetime for a lifetime, of course, it is needed, with love can support a person's life, whether the other party is still by their side, but this love in their hearts, let themselves no longer be lonely, and their hearts are sweet when they are old.
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When people are old, of course they need love, and they need love all their lives.
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It's also needed, if it's really true love, there is no age limit, as long as it's true love.
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Of course, people need love when they are old, and anyone needs love.
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Of course, people need to be old, and feelings are still important.
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Love is hard to find, if there is love by your side, you can't hide, it is a normal person no matter how old you are, because people are emotional animals.
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When people get older, they need love more and take care of each other.
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I think people pay more attention to family affection when they get older, and love is just a long-term return.
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Do people still need love when they are old? I also need love because people are old, people seem very lonely when they are old, and if someone is by his side, he will be better.
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When a person reaches the age of seventy or eighty, he will always worry about the person who loved each other when he was young but couldn't be together, what does this old man think?
The person in his memory has already lived deeply in his heart, even if he can't be together for various reasons, he must still have her place in his heart, keep her memory, and her shadow.
It's just that because of his responsibility to the family, his loyalty to his wife did not mention a part of his youthful past.
This is a true story, an old grandfather, in the countdown of life, decided to find his first love, although he has been immobile, but also asked his other half to help to find, her wife in order to give the old man hope, just help the old man find his first love, when he saw the young man love the moment, the old ** tears, at that time they were high-spirited, the girl is young and beautiful, now the girl is a gray-haired grandmother, The wrinkles on his face are full of the vicissitudes of time. When they looked at each other, years of concern finally came to fruition, and the old man's hanging heart was finally let go.
At this time, they were already relieved, each with their own family, and each with their own marriage difficulties. In old age, they no longer have the impulse of young Wang Tan, let alone love and be loved. At this time, the old man fulfilled a deep wish in his heart.
But there is a thought in my heart, a concern. When a person is seventy or eighty years old, he begins to miss the old, and he will think of his relatives and friends when he was young, and he will think about and care about the person he once loved. Even if you leave the world, you will have no regrets.
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There are several reasons to support the twilight love of the elderly in the family:
1.Respect for the autonomy of the elderly: Older people also have autonomy, and they have the right to choose their own lifestyle and partner. If they choose to be in love, we should respect their choice and should not discriminate or exclude their love behavior because of age differences.
2.Promote the well-being of the elderly: The life circle of the elderly is relatively small, and the feelings of loneliness and loss are relatively easy to develop.
If they are able to find a suitable partner and establish a new romantic relationship, it can increase their social circle and improve their well-being and quality of life.
3.Enhance family cohesion: The family is an important social unit, and the relationship between family members is essential for the harmony and stability of the family.
If the elderly in the family can find a suitable partner, the pure family can establish a new romantic relationship, which can enhance the cohesion between family members and promote family harmony and stability.
In short, supporting the twilight love of the elderly in the family is a manifestation of respecting the rights of the elderly, promoting the happiness of the elderly, and enhancing family cohesion.
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Women also need love when they are old, but they need family affection even more, women are old, they can see through everything, what love is just an ethereal thing for them, it is too unrealistic, the most real thing is that the children are happy and the family is harmonious.
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When a woman is over 40 years old, her mentality will change a lot, and it is a little ridiculous to mention love again. When I was young, not being able to talk about a vigorous relationship was the biggest regret of my life. But regret is regret, I don't want to pursue this ethereal emotion.
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In fact, every woman needs love, whether it is the old or the young, the old, everyone needs care and love, love is the integration of family and love.
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Both men and women, young and old, have the right to pursue love. When a woman is old, it is only her face that grows old, and in her heart, she will still crave love;
Don't think that when you are old, your heart is like water, you have no desires, love is not divided between young and old, and having love is what everyone desires, especially old women, who need a sense of security and are more eager to be loved;
In short, love is needed no matter what.
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Women also need to be affectionate when they are old, no matter what age they need to be accompanied, loved, cared for, cared for, women are old, their children are married and not around, they feel lonely and lonely, and no one takes care of their lives, so they need love, two people chat together, walk, exercise, care for each other, and when they are uncomfortable, someone serves tea and cooks, so as to feel warm and happy.
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I think that even women need love when they are old, they snuggle up to each other when they are old, have a companionship for each other, love each other, support each other's leather hands, alas, in the flood control water every year, two people respect and love each other, and take care of each other, this is true love.
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Women also need love when they are old, and they also need someone to care about and talk to their hearts, so that they can live a happy and happy life. If he doesn't have true love. Everything will be disrupted by him. Although she is old, he still needs someone to love.
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Of course love is needed. Women, whether young or old, need love and need to be spoiled. Love has nothing to do with age. People of any age are willing to enjoy life.
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Women also need love when they are old, they also need comfort, they will also be lonely, regardless of age, they need love.
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Women do need love when they are old, so they should have their own love no matter what, so that they can have a better future.
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Women need love more when they get older. Because people are old and have no one to accompany them, it is even more difficult to have a life, and one more love will have more companionship and more happiness, so love is very needed.
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Hello friend, although a woman is old, she also needs love, no matter how young or old she needs love, there will be no happiness without love, only love can go happily. Only in a lifetime can we go on happily.
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In fact, women need love at all times, and true love can bring people a lot of pleasant feelings, but when they are old, it is difficult to get real love.
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If you feel that you need it, that is the need, you don't need it, you don't need it, love is the same thing as a family, you feel that you will become complete with it, then pursue it, if you don't feel that the single life is more suitable for you, then you don't have to force it, everything is based on your own needs, based on yourself.
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Both men and women. No matter what age you are, you need love. Love is the lubricant. It can make your life colorful, and it is a kind of spiritual sustenance or spiritual power in life. So no matter the age, a life with love is the best life.
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Human beings are sensual creatures, no matter how old they are, they are always eager for love, and this will never change.
Excuse me: who wants to be a hedgehog if someone pets? If someone loves, who wants to be alone day and night?
Women always need love, and they try just to find someone who loves her and spoils her.
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Definitely need. A person's life, whether they are old or young. All need family affection, love and friendship. Old. Who are you, you need it.
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Love has nothing to do with getting old, anyone regardless of men and women, needs love when they are old, and they need to have each other's mutual support and love.
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When a woman is old, she also needs love, love knows no age, as long as you care for each other, it's okay.
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Women can also need love when they are old, and love depends on needs, not on your age.
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Women still need love when they are old, because with one more person, life will be more meaningful.
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Do women still need love when they are old? Women need love more when they get older. It needs to have a support, so no matter how old a person is, he likes to have love.
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It depends on personal preference. Someone loves love. Someone likes affection. People love rights. Someone likes money. If you feel. If something satisfies you, then go for it.
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Do women still need love when they are old? Yes. Love is needed even more.
Because women are old. The children are all married. He became a lonely old man.
Love is needed even more. In daily life, we need people's love, as the saying goes, a house full of children is better than a halfway couple.
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Women also need love when they are old, and they also need people's care and care.
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Women also need love when they are old, and they also need someone to care for and love.
When people are old, they still have the right to speak at home, after all, they are elders, and the younger generations will still listen to their opinions.
The pace of life of the elderly.
A woman can also meet true love when she is old, and it has nothing to do with age when she meets true love, it is mainly a kind of spiritual communication between two people from the heart.
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