When you hear someone say bad things about your girlfriend, you shouldn t tell your girlfriend

You can believe it, but just ignore it. Because it's a woman. It's all scheming. She wants to say bad things about your girlfriend. Then want to separate you from your girlfriend. And then he had a chance.

First of all, I suggest that you have a sincere conversation with your girlfriend and ask her, why do you always like to share my shortcomings with your friends? Listen to what she has to say, and then further address the leak? Don't hesitate, don't worry, I think someone who really loves you, how can he hurt you with his heart?

It should be the opposite of what your girlfriend does, love is taken care of by two people!

I think it's your girlfriend who is afraid of losing you, so she will say bad things in front of others, damage Chonghong's good image in the minds of others, and be frank to prevent other people's schemes. Hehe, it's not easy for so long, and it's too big to talk about it, and you should be mature to look at the problem.

When you hear someone say bad things about your girlfriend, whether you want to tell her or not, you must first determine who this other person is, the basis and purpose of saying this, and then see whether you want to tell your girlfriend or not.

First, if it's your family.

It's not a bad thing to say about your girlfriend, it's your family's suggestion or opinion on your girlfriend, you can put it forward to her, and if you don't, you can encourage it. After all, it's all an effort made for the two of them to be together.

Second, if it's your friend, say what's wrong with your girlfriend. It can be divided into two categories:

1. You have a very good relationship, and he accidentally bumped into your girlfriend who did something bad for your feelings, so he said it out of the mentality of reminding you. At this time, you can't ask your girlfriend directly, it's best to verify it from the side.

2, you have a general relationship with your friends, and you don't have a deep relationship on weekdays, so you have to pay attention to what he says badly about your girlfriend, or it may be grounded, or it may be that he has an opinion on you so he slanders your girlfriend. You don't need to tell your girlfriend at this point.

Third, if her best friend says bad things about her, this is more complicated, three women in one play, and there are many women in the first place. You can ask your girlfriend if she and her girlfriend have been so conflicted recently. Of course, it is also possible that her best friend is telling the truth, after all, her best friend often whispers to each other, and you need to pay attention at this time.

Fourth, what you overheard, if you overhear someone say bad things about your girlfriend, then there is a good chance that someone is telling the truth. Of course, different people look at things from different angles, so other people's opinions do not represent your own opinions, you have to have your own opinions.

No matter who says bad things about your girlfriend, it is advisable not to tell her at the first time, but to make a decision based on the situation of the matter and your girlfriend's personality.