Others treat me as cause and effect, and I treat others as practice!

Very good point. Seeing other people's attitudes towards you as cause and effect may help you understand your interactions with others. The attitude towards others depends on one's own cultivation and cultivation, which requires continuous efforts and improvement.

In relationships, we can better control our emotions and reactions by understanding cause and effect, while cultivating our own kindness, tolerance, and empathy through spiritual practice. Such practices allow us to better understand our interactions with others and build healthier, positive, and meaningful relationships.

At the same time, treating others is also a way of practicing that by paying attention to the needs and feelings of others, we are able to better understand and respect others, which leads to more harmonious and friendly relationships. Through continuous practice and practice, we can continuously improve our emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills to become better people.

As a social animal, human interaction with human beings is necessary for survival!Different people behave differently when they interact with others!See a sentence:

How others treat me is my cause and effect;How I treat others is my practice!This sentence sums up very well, can provide a solution to many problems in our daily life to provide a basic thinking, you give others a smile, you talk about the harvest of more beautiful, so that you have a good mood for a day, your abusive, feedback to you is full of negative energy, so that your day is not smooth!

Bodhisattvas fear causes, sentient beings fear results!Our whole life is about the practice we reap!

The meaning of this sentence is that how others treat you is the result of how you treat others, and how you treat others is your own life experience.

The so-called cause and effect are the antecedents and consequences of what you do!

Sow good for good and get good for good, and sow evil for bad and get bad for you!

How others treat me is my cause and effect: that is, the good or bad that others treat you is the reward of your own good and bad treatment of others before, and the reason why you say antecedents and consequences may be in your previous life or even before!

How I lead others is my practice: this is simple, if you cultivate well, and if you understand more, you will naturally be lenient to others!In short, what you do to others will plant different causes, and you will get corresponding results in the future!

It's about dealing with people and socializing with people.

No matter what other people do to you, you have to treat others well.

The causal cycle, how you treat others, others treat you.

Other people's attitude towards themselves is caused by the fact that they have done the same thing before, and the way they treat others is to make themselves better people. The meaning of the expression is that everything has a cause, and if you are good to others, others will be good to you, and when you are good to others, don't covet that others will be good to you, because what you do is just to cultivate yourself.

Throughout this life, it is to get rid of other people's expectations of oneself, find one's true self, and be free. Let go of the expectations of others, and others are free. You don't have to change your opinion of yourself for a sentence or two from others, how you are going to continue to be, and working hard just for yourself.

Causality in interpersonal communication:

What is said, what is done, all the thoughts are like an echo bar, and when it is emitted, it will react on itself. If you are kind to others, others will give feedback, and if you scold and slander others, you will be treated in the same way. Therefore, to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.

This is what Buddhism talks about cause and effect. Some people don't believe in cause and effect, but the word cause and effect is easier to understand and accept.

There is no way to know if you have offended others at work. I don't know how to offend others! Because it is a very ordinary thing for yourself, it is not so ordinary in the eyes of others.

I love everybody, everybody loves me.

One for all, all for one.

Answering how others treat you is already the result of the convergence of karma and cannot be changed, but as a practitioner, how we treat others is a choice, and it is also the cause of future events, which should not be underestimated. Everyone's life is unique, only you can decide, do yourself with a clear conscience.

Question: This person, he is very nice to others, what does it mean to be rude to me, love or annoyance?

The answer may also be that he only dares to lose his temper with you, what about this man, if you are a couple, it is good to talk to others, but it is not good to talk to you, he does not mean that this man is prejudiced against you or something, it just means that he cares more about you, that is, the way he expresses it may not be so correct, so you need to be tolerant in this regard, and then the two of you also need to communicate.

Meaning:How others treat you is already the result of the convergence of karma and cannot be changed, but as a practitioner, how we treat others is a choice, and it is also the cause of future events, which should not be underestimated. Everyone's life is unique, only you can decide, do yourself with a clear conscience.

All our lives, we want to get rid of other people's expectations of ourselves, find our true selves, and be free. Let go of the expectations of others, and others are free. You don't have to change your opinion of yourself for a sentence or two from others, how you continue to be, and how you work hard, just for yourself.

It means that how others treat you depends on how you treat others, and how you treat others is completely determined by your self-cultivation and experience and emotional intelligence.

It's not easy for everyone, thinking of a sentence in "The Life of the Disgusted Pine Nut": Born as a human being, it is helpless. There is no such thing as easy in the adult world, respecting each other, understanding each other, and treating each other well is a way of life practice.

There is a sentence in the Sutra of Cause and Effect of the Three Worlds: If you want to know the cause of the previous life, the recipient of this life is. If you want to know the consequences of the future, the author in this life is.

How you treat others, others will treat you the same way, this is cause and effect, people with good interpersonal relationships are not like this to persevere, and then eventually go to the ladder of success.

So please choose kindness, kindness is the foundation of human nature, "Three Character Classic" said: At the beginning of people, nature is good, sex is similar, and Xi is far away. Kindness is the original duty of people, and there is no evil at the beginning of people, but they just walk and choose to abandon kindness.

Being kind to people is a choice, being smart is a talent, and being kind is harder than being smart.

Kindness is a kind of practice in life, it may be a seat, it may be a white lie.

Choose kindness, you don't have to admire others, you are the most beautiful scenery.

Master Huineng of the Sixth Patriarch said in the "Altar Sutra", "If you are a true cultivator, you will not see others." It's too late for a true cultivator to take care of himself, so how can he have time to take care of others? It's true, take care of yourself first.

So when I see others, my first reaction is introspection, do I have any? If there is, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be encouraged. For this wrongdoer, not only do not blame him, but also thank him.

Why? Thank you to him for reminding me, if I don't have him, no one will remind me. "He", this he has a large scope, "everything is sentient."

In other words, it includes being affectionate and ruthless, and all the laws of all things", all of which are him. Everything is taught to us, and those who can learn are everywhere Buddhas and Bodhisattvas who are reminding you and teaching you; Those who don't know how to study, the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas don't know in front of them. "All without fault", all the laws of all things, all without fault, "the original is unstained, pure and natural, and the original is self-fulfilled", this is what is said in the "Shoulengyan Sutra".

When we are in contact with the outer realm, we must know how to keep our own nature, which is pure and equal awareness, the mind is pure and equal awareness, and looking at the outer realm is also pure and equal awareness, which is the Buddha's knowledge and Buddha's view.

Answer, it means "whether others treat you well or badly, look at how he treats me, and if the result is serious, I will do the same to him!" It's a habit of my own! ”

I wonder which master said it? Now many people pretend to say that it is their own quotations, and the issue of Chinese cultural copyright seems to need to be verified.

A few days ago, I was chatting with a friend about "nobles".

I said that I felt that my mother-in-law and my mother were my nobles.

She asked puzzled: Your child is still young, so busy with work, and when you need help, your mother-in-law helps your daughter take the child, but you think she is a nobleman?

I laughed: Although she didn't help me bring it in the past two or three years, she also really helped me with her old man, and every time she came back, she also helped buy vegetables and cook with warmth and warmth, and she taught me how to "love children".

If she is worried and uncomfortable at home, it is better to support her to go, which is "respecting the elderly".

Honestly, I don't think she can't help me with the baby, and it's the same as not being nice to her. What's more, mother-in-law and mother are not obliged to help you take care of the child regularly, if there is help, you have to be grateful, if not, you have to be peaceful, because the child is born by yourself, you have to be responsible for him, they don't have to.

The reason why my mother is also a noble person is because she always tells me: Your mother-in-law is not easy, you have to be good to her.

Tell me, the characters in the world, I don't know if I say no, it will be gone, don't worry too much about life...

She didn't read much, but she taught me the most simple and rare truth: tolerance.

Life is a practice, and how others treat me is my cause and effect;

How I treat others is my practice!