It s important that second married couples want to have a good life, you know what it is?

I think you should learn to tolerate each other and not lose your temper with each other casually. Learn to surprise each other.

It should be that two people should be honest with each other and trust each other, so that the relationship between two people can get better and better.

has a great tolerance for each other, so that you can live well, and at the same time, you can make the marriage very happy, after all, everyone in the second marriage has their own secrets in their hearts, and they can't be explored.

Although both second marriages are wives, many second marriages have a sign of distrust compared to the first wife. We must be cautious in choosing marriage. After Mr. Fu and his ex-wife divorced, they lived alone for more than a year.

I accidentally found that the life of a middle-aged man is very difficult, and I always feel disappointed and uncomfortable when I return to my empty home after work every day, and deal with the unoccupied rooms around.

In order to get out of the current situation, Mr. Fu met his second wife on the recommendation of a friend. The two chatted very well when they first met, Mr. Fu added contact**, and he was with each other a week later. From acquaintance to marriage, Mr. Fu and the other party only took three months.

Although there may be conflicts due to some minor problems after marriage, Mr. Fu feels that the life of the couple should continue, as long as the two of them understand each other. After getting married, Mr. Fu did not be much wary of his second wife, and still treated her as his first wife.

For more than half a year after getting married, Mr. Fu's mother had to pay a very large amount of medical expenses when she fell ill. When he asked his second wife for a savings card to withdraw the money, his second wife refused to give it to him for most of the day. After Mr. Fu's inquiry, I learned that the second wife actually gave Mr. Fu's savings of more than 200,000 yuan to her brother to buy a house, at that time Mr. Fu was almost fainted, he wanted to get the money back, but the other party had already made a down payment for the house, and it was useless to pursue responsibility.

When Mr. Fu and his second wife met, they knew that she liked to play more. I often get out with friends and drink until late at night before coming home. At that time, they were still in love, Mr. Fu felt that it was nothing, and after marriage, they had a family, maybe the girl would slowly get better.

But this is not the case, after Mr. Fu and his second wife got married, she would still squeeze time to play in her spare time, and often get drunk with friends, and even sometimes beat Mr. Fu to pick her up in the middle of the night.

It was okay at first, and Mr. Fu could bear it. After all, the two outstanding talents got married not long ago. It's also normal to be a little considerate of your wife.

What's more, she usually understands Mr. Fu, and often prepares breakfast for Mr. Fu in advance in the morning. But as time went on, Mr. Fu found that she was getting home later, and on several occasions Mr. Fu couldn't help but ask what kind of people she was drinking with, where she was drinking, and what she had done.

Not only did she not reply to Mr. Fu's words, but instead beat her up, saying that Mr. Fu didn't trust her and didn't love her, and even argued with Mr. Fu, making the whole family restless. After Mr. Fu recalled this feeling, he kept saying that he had done something wrong, and he was too anxious to see people clearly. Rather than talking about 2 people, it is better to live quietly and not have to worry about anything.

The most important thing for second-married couples is to understand each other more, and to care more about each other, to have their own economic foundation, economic independence, and to grasp property issues.

Don't easily hand over the economic power to each other, form a unified opinion on the education of children, and be cautious in words and deeds when two people get along.

The thing to pay attention to is never to say hurtful things to the other person, and never have any contact with your ex, these things are very important.

When the second wife proposes to take charge of the economy, don't agree easily, don't want a restless woman to leave everything for you and live in peace.

Create a good family atmosphere: A good family atmosphere is conducive to the physical and mental health of the children of the remarried family, and is conducive to the harmonious relationship between the husband and wife. Take a little more time to communicate with your children every day, take them for walks, parties, travel, visit relatives, etc.

From time to time, there is a small family evening party on the weekend, and the husband and wife perform some programs that are beneficial to the children, and also let the children tell jokes, tell stories, read poems, sing and dance, and so on. A good family atmosphere for remarried families is beneficial but harmless.

It's too hard! Both parties in the re-formed family must restrain themselves, and if they want to live well, they must restrain themselves more than in the original marriage.

Tips for second-married couples to get along happily: give each other a little more trust, give each other a little time to adapt, treat each other's relatives with heart, mention less about the previous marriage, learn the lessons of the past, and cherish the present.

1. Give each other a little more trust: Because the grinding file is a second marriage, there will inevitably be some contact with the ex, and these connections come from their children. So maybe after he marries you, he will also contact his ex from time to time to ask if there are any other problems in the child's recent life, and then he should trust the other party.

2. Give each other a little time to adapt: Give each other a little time to adapt, because you have some other habits that he may not be able to change for a while. So give each other a little more time.

3. Treat each other's relatives attentively: Both sides of the second-married couple must have each other's ex-wives or ex-husbands, most of whom have their own children, and neither of them can pretend to be too exclusive of their existence, especially for each other's children and parents.

4. Don't mention the previous marriage: When you fall in love, you are taboo to mention the ex, otherwise there will be a lot of misunderstandings and contradictions with the current one, not to mention that two people who have re-formed a family should keep silent about the previous marriage, and no one doesn't care that their pillow person has been so close to another person.

5. Learn the previous lessons and cherish the present: Most divorced people will become more mature than before, because their ignorance and immaturity before led to a wrong marriage, so at the beginning of the second marriage, you should tell yourself to manage the current marriage well and don't let the tragedy happen again.

The author believes that whether it is a first marriage or a quarrel, a second marriage or a third marriage, the most important thing is to be honest and sincere. If you are not honest and sincere, no matter how many marriages you have, your marriage will not be happy.