What happens to divorced men?

Everyone says that "marriage is the grave of love", and many couples have a very good relationship when they get married, but after getting along in marriage for a while, they will feel that they can't get along and want to divorce. Marriage and divorce are both big things that happen in a person's life, and it is related to our real life. Generally, after divorce, women will have a sense of freshness and rebirth.

So what happens to divorced men? Here's what I think:

1. Divorced men will have a lonely and lonely mentality.

Men are actually not as strong as we think, and many men are eager for marriage.

larger than women, they are in great need of marriage. Therefore, many divorced men will become very lonely and lonely because they have lost their other half, which is why the average man will remarry soon after divorce, because they can't stand living alone and need someone to accompany them.

Second, there will be depression and sadness.

If after the divorce, some men do not know how to deal with their emotions, and let their loneliness and loneliness amplify their psychological state, then the man will be depressed and sad, and his mood will always be relatively low. At this time, men must find a way to relieve their emotions, find someone to talk to or see a psychologist.

are all good choices.

3. I hope that everyone can cherish their marriage.

Every marriage is actually hard-won, and it is not easy for two people to meet in the vast sea of people and enter the palace of weddings. Therefore, after getting married, we must cherish our marriage. However, if you really can't get by, you must resolutely divorce and not let yourself live in the pain of marriage.

There will be a lot of changes in the psychology, for example, there is that kind of broken jar and broken type, thinking that in the family they have had enough of the control and trivial troubles of life from each other, so they don't want to get married anymore, and the psychology is also mature and cold, thinking that they will live better alone, and there will be that kind of positive maturity, although they have also experienced the unhappiness of the previous marriage, but they have a lot of ways to get along with each other as husband and wife, and they are willing to take care of each other and form a new family. There is also the psychology of wanting to live plainly and naturally, in short, there will be a lot of any kind of psychology, it all depends on personal feelings.

The first is the type of broken jar and broken fall, thinking that he lives a chic life alone, and is fed up with the daily trivial things in life and the woman's nagging or the days when two people are together and irritable with each other, so after the divorce, this kind of man will have a feeling of relaxation, and feel that ah, life is suddenly better again, and he has returned to the kind of unrestrained and unsupervised days, throwing clothes casually, eating takeout, smoking and drinking, etc., and even his stinky socks can be thrown away casually after going home, No one will care about you anymore or keep nagging you why you don't put away your clothes and socks, and why you don't maintain better habits and personal hygiene when you go to the toilet, and you have always thought that this kind of life is too beautiful, so after the divorce, you are reluctant to get married, thinking that you can arrange your life by yourself, and this is the psychological change of breaking the jar and breaking it.

The second type is the kind of psychology that is willing to look forward to life and family life despite experiencing the above series of events. After this kind of man does not go well in the first marriage life, he will be psychologically mature, and he will know more about how to get along with husband and wife and maintain the balance of the family, so that he will be full of expectations in his future life, because in the first marriage, it is not good and easy to quarrel and cause disagreements, because he has the last unsuccessful experience, so he will try to avoid it, he will pay more in the next relationship, and he will take more care of the other half, if he decides to get married for the second time, then he must be fully prepared, So this kind of man's psychology will be more mature.

In any case, divorced men must have a lot of thoughts in their psychology, it may be that they are sorry for their ex-wife and dissatisfied with their previous life, or they may be regretful, why they didn't do a good job in that period, why did they make both parties very tired to the point where they had to divorce, in short, there must be a certain amount of reflection and expectation for the next period of life, I think it's best not to divorce, sometimes you will find that the temper and living habits of the original husband and wife are more compatible, Each other is already familiar with each other's big and small things in their own lives, so if possible, two people are just impulsive, they can consider remarrying, and at this time, I believe that each other will cherish each other more.

There are very bad changes, and it will become very difficult to trust others, and it feels that women are not very good, and will not get along with themselves sincerely, and in the future, when contacting the opposite sex, they will be particularly nervous and fearful, and there is no trust.

I often think of my ex-wife, and I dare not dare to love boldly. often thinks of his ex-wife, the two have been together for too long, which has a great impact on men; Don't dare to love boldly, and fear being hurt again after being hurt once.

After the divorce, the man will feel very free and easy, and he no longer believes in love and marriage, and his attitude towards marriage has changed a lot.