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"Borrowing death and not borrowing life" is a custom in Xuzhou for a long time. This custom holds that if you lend (rent) your house to someone else, and you die in it, there is nothing to accept. If anyone wants to borrow a house to have a baby, it won't work.
What is the "subtext" behind this concept?
It is said that there are "wealth" and "official energy" in each house, which are collectively referred to as "house energy". When a person dies, not only can the atrial qi not be taken away, but the good luck brought by the deceased during his lifetime and the unexhausted can still remain, thus increasing the original "atrial qi". So to be able to "borrow death".
There is also a practical reason, whether the person who borrows or rents the house, whether he will die in it, is difficult to predict, such as violent illness, suicide, etc. Since it is lent out and rented out, then find a reason to "comfort" yourself, and it is okay to borrow and die.
But "borrowing" is different. This custom believes that the child will not only touch the light of the homeowner, but also take away the "room gas", and the bigger the child will be an official in the future, the more wealth he will make, it means that the more "room gas" he took away at the beginning, so that the homeowner's family will inevitably be more unlucky and poor. There is also a theory that because the mother will bleed when giving birth, it will bring "blood and light disaster" to the homeowner.
Therefore, the folk custom is that children can only be born in their own home.
The above-mentioned concept of "borrowing death rather than life" has no scientific basis.
In fact, having a child is a happy event, and it is jubilant, so why not borrow it? Houses that have died are not easy to rent and will be considered "unlucky".
The concept of "borrowing death rather than life" is now meaningless. When the due date of delivery of pregnant women arrives, they are admitted to the hospital, and when the patient is critically ill, they are also rescued in the hospital, and they are in the hospital by borrowing life and death, and the hospital does not talk about the custom of "borrowing death without borrowing life".
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No. As long as the tenant has a positive outlook and good character, he can rent to others.
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In fact, there is no such statement, but people's hearts are troubled, and there are many landlords who are particularly willing to rent their houses to such people, because they feel that this can touch the joy of their children
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This is all feudal old superstition, how can you still believe this, the superstition is that it will take away good luck and leave bad luck, the older generation believes in this, now so many children are born in the hospital, if it is true, the hospital does not need to be opened.
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Linlin went to work with her husband after getting married, and now she is more than 7 months pregnant, but the rented house expires, and the landlord refuses to renew the lease, saying that she doesn't want to pretend to be noisy and rent to the mother to give birth. This bridge can make Linlin angry, and the two of them can only find a new place to live, but they can find that many landlords are like this, and when they saw that it was Linlin with a big belly, they excused themselves for various reasons. In the end, I rented a house for a young couple, and the landlord couple had just given birth to a child, so they changed to a big house.
Why are so many people reluctant to rent a house for mothers, and some places can't even be confined at their parents' homes, is it because it is unlucky? See what netizens online have to say.
Netizens collided: This is the case at home, my grandmother said that there were relatives who came to the house to do confinement in front of the hall, but for several years, there were always accidents at home. Since then, he has never dared to let confinement people come to his home.
Netizen, what do you say: I have heard a saying, which is very scary; Don't let you have a child in someone else's house because if you give birth to someone, the family will have to leave alone. This kind of thing, everyone would rather believe it than believe it.
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Precautions for new renovation may affect the health of the child.
Things to look out for when renting an apartment:
1. Regarding the cost of the house, at present, the owner bears the property fee and heating fee (north), and other daily life expenses such as water, electricity and gas are borne by the person;
2. At present, most of the payment forms of rent are taken as a deposit of one and three payments, but you can also negotiate with the landlord for other payment methods;
3. Check the status of the house when looking at the house, especially some problematic furniture and household appliances, which should be written in the contract in time;
4. At the same time, the reason for the house must be checked clearly to avoid overwriting;
5. Communicate well with the owner about the details such as the key;
6. For the treatment of the house under force majeure circumstances such as demolition;
7. The liability for breach of contract must be clearly written.
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Precautions for new renovation may affect the health of the child.
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It's not that there is no taboo in renting a house.
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First, this is a superstitious saying, not to mention having children, that is, the husband and wife rent a house, and in some places, they have to give the landlord a red envelope, so that the landlord will rent it.
Second, the reason why I don't want to have children is simple, because when a woman gives birth, there are all kinds of ghosts to be reincarnated on the side, which will be on the side, although it will not be harmful to the woman who gives birth, but it is harmful to the landlord, because there are unclean things, and they are taboo about this kind of thing. Moreover, when they give birth to children, they will see blood, and they are even more unwilling. Because you will not rent a house in the future, this house has also been unclean, and they are taboo.
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Why it is taboo to have children in a rented house depends on what local customs are for this kind of problem, and there are no regulations. Why don't rental houses be rented to pregnant women, in fact, in addition to some traditional ideas and feudal superstitions, some landlords also consider safety issues. Chinese culture is broad and profound, and Chinese folk customs are also a kind of cultural inheritance.
The customs and habits of different regions are also very different, why it is taboo to have children in a rented house, it depends on the local customs for this kind of problem, which is not any regulation. Why don't rental houses be rented to pregnant women, in fact, in addition to some traditional ideas and feudal superstitions, some landlords also consider safety issues.
Why is it taboo to have children in a rented house?
In fact, the customs and habits are different in each region, for example, landlords in some places don't care about renting a house to pregnant women, but landlords in some places are very concerned about this. Therefore, when you meet a landlord who is taboo in this regard, you have to think of an idea to convince the landlord, but changing houses is never an option, after all, it is definitely not so easy for pregnant mothers to adapt to the new environment.
Why is the rental house not rented to pregnant women
1. Traditional superstitions.
In real life, many landlords feel that if they rent the house to a pregnant woman, the newborn will be born and the blessings in the house will be sucked away, so that their fortune and financial luck will be affected, and there will be a lot of trouble in the future. So, if you meet a landlord who believes in this statement, it will be difficult to rent the property.
2. Worry about the house being messed up.
We all know that the older generation of confinement has a lot of particulars, such as not bathing, not blowing, not brushing teeth, etc., plus the pregnant mother has to take care of the newborn during the confinement period, and the child's eating, drinking and Lazar are all in the room, so some landlords will feel very dirty, and eventually unwilling to rent the house to pregnant women.
3. Fear of taking responsibility.
In the eyes of most people, pregnant women are vulnerable and prone to accidents. For landlords: If something goes wrong with a pregnant woman during the rental period, it is very likely that she will have to bear some responsibility, so in order to avoid trouble, landlords simply do not rent the house to pregnant women.
As we mentioned above, why it is taboo to have children in a rented house, this also depends on the regional culture, and there are many places where rental houses do not mind these problems, in fact, it is a matter of customs. Why the rental house is not rented to pregnant women is also a regional custom, and there are some feudal and superstitious places, there will always be some appalling sayings. However, some landlords do refuse to rent to pregnant women because of the safety of pregnant women.
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The possible reasons are as follows:
1. Think bad luck.
2. Worry about accidents.
3. It lasts for a long time, the sound is painful, and it disturbs the people.
4. Generally speaking, the economic conditions are not good for those who are unwilling to go to the hospital for production, mainly to save money, most of these people are rural workers, they usually have low cultural quality, and do not have a certain sense of self-care, so they are not only responsible for others, but also for themselves, so no one wants to let them have children in their own houses is also understandable. Hope.
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Personal wishes, nothing special, right? Probably afraid of getting the house dirty.
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It may be that the child is afraid that the child will be more "destructive" to the room
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