I m not stingy, but my boyfriend makes me spend money everywhere

Kicked, what do you want him to do That's not called a man, it should be called a little white face.

Hello, I think you need to take a good look at your boyfriend from the following aspects.

First of all, what is his personality, is he petty and selfish, or is he arrogant that it doesn't matter who pays?

Secondly, does he take the initiative to let you spend money every time? So, on what grounds did he say it?

Again, when you say that you are asked to spend money everywhere, do you mean that he wants you to spend money no matter how big or small?

Finally, out of kindness, I personally think that such a boyfriend should think about it again, and the love stage is still like this, so what should I do in the future?

- Men let women spend money?

I'm a man, I think I should spend more money together, and I will use her money, but it's all small places, such as buying a bottle of water, having a light meal, and she will pay for it.

I spend a lot of money when I go out to buy clothes and travel. I think that's how men should be.

This kind of man. What's the use? You say that saving is saving, but that's not the case. A stingy man won't be able to become a big climate in the future, I advise you not to want him yet! 1. What is the meaning of that kind of man! It's so almost!

Dumped, kicked, do whatever you want, don't be polite with this kind of man.

Men love to use women's money so much, what breaks men, loses it, loses it.

How did he make you spend money everywhere? How to say it.

Does he love you or money? This kind of man is not worthy of love!

Break up with him decisively. Because he doesn't love you.

When your boyfriend is particularly stingy, I think it's best to separate from him. When a man is unwilling to spend money for a woman and is unwilling to pay for this woman, it can only mean that the man does not particularly love this woman at all, or that this man is not suitable for a relationship.

It can be said that money is not something that can measure everything. For example, it is not that a man is willing to spend money for a woman, that he likes this woman more, or that he is willing to take care of this woman.

But if the man is unwilling to spend money on this woman, it really only means that the man does not love this woman, in other words, this woman is not so important in his heart.

There is also a possibility that this man is too stingy, but this kind of particularly stingy man, in fact, it is actually difficult to get along with such a man.

So in the face of your boyfriend's reluctance to spend money on you, there are only two possibilities, the first possibility is that the man is particularly stingy, and the second possibility is that the man does not love you enough.

So no matter what kind of situation you face, the best way is to separate, if the other party doesn't love you enough, it's like this when you're in love, and when two people get married, you're actually facing more difficult things, because there will be more trivial things in life.

On the other hand, if this man doesn't love you at all, then there is no point in you doing more. So no matter what the case is, the best way is to separate, and maybe separation is the best way for two people to face each other.

Don't continue the relationship because you are upset with his pettiness, and this emotion will affect your feelings for him. After a long time, your feelings for him will be affected, and you may still break up in the end. In that case, it is better to break up earlier.

First of all, we should affirm that reality is a very cruel problem, and now it is a material society.

If you are not short of money, don't force your boyfriend to pay for some unnecessary things. Some unnecessary things, after the love period, when it comes to marriage, men are not very willing to take the initiative to buy them for women.

1.When your boyfriend's family is very wealthy, he generally doesn't care about spending money, or he doesn't have a clear concept of spending money, but he still refuses to spend money for you, it can prove that your boyfriend doesn't love you, and it is recommended to break up early.

2.When the boyfriend's family is very wealthy, but understands the hardships of his parents' entrepreneurship, that is to say, he is not a rich second generation who only knows how to spend money in the full sense, they will understand where they should spend money and where they should not spend it. For some of your not very suitable spending, you will make a judgment and refuse to pay.

But this kind of person will be unusually generous when it is time to pay. At this time, it means that your boyfriend loves you and it is recommended not to break up.

3.When your boyfriend's family is ordinary or not very wealthy, then you should understand that he refuses to spend money for you that he shouldn't be... It's up to you to choose whether or not to continue.

In today's society, it is understandable for a girl to find a man who thought she was spending money, and parents are thinking about their daughters.

If you want to get both, first of all you're good enough, beautiful enough, and understand men ...

All in all, men who are not necessarily willing to spend money for themselves are good men, but men who are certainly not willing to spend the necessary money for themselves will certainly not love themselves.

Please think carefully and make the final decision.

Hope, thank you.

I don't think the happiness index is high.

Whether it is the difference in the consumption concept of the two of you, or he is really reluctant to spend money for you, the two of you will have frequent conflicts on this in the future, and it is up to you whether to break up or not, but I think the happiness index will definitely be affected.

My boyfriend is really too stingy and reluctant to spend money for you, should this relationship continue? It depends. Look at your standard of reluctance to spend money.

If you think that he wants to buy you 10,000 yuan or 20,000 yuan of luxury goods every month, and if you don't buy it, you are reluctant to spend it, this standard is set a bit high. If he can't even afford to invite you to an ordinary hot pot of one or two hundred yuan. Then you can not think about continuing the relationship.

As long as you're not spending lavishly, or if you like luxuries, it's generally within your ability to accept it, and he's still buttoning the noose, that's fine.

Your boyfriend spends money stingily, what do other aspects do to you, if people spend money for him, your ideas are a little unrealistic, you have your own job, you earn money, why do you want your boyfriend to spend money on you, girls are financially independent, self-esteem and self-love, you will be respected by others.

Is spending money for you to be atmospheric? Will you still be with your boyfriend one day when he runs out of money? Think about it again! Both men and women are equal, and they have the ability to make their own money and spend their own money!

If you're tired, put it down early. Love will not be absent, but it will come too late.

Boys are two concepts of thrift and slamming, from the above we can see that this boy is indeed very picky, and his girlfriend is so clear, which means that he does not regard you as a very important person.

If you meet a boyfriend who is slamming when you are in love, how should you solve this kind of problem?

1. Take a look at who his slamming is aimed at.

We have to admit that many boyfriends who seem to pick the door are just like that when they target their parents and siblings, or only when they target themselves, they are very generous and understand etiquette for their parents, their brothers and sisters, or their friends. Many times we think that our boyfriend picks the door a little, which is a symbol of living a life, how good it is not to spend money indiscriminately, to live a life, is to find a man who does not spend money indiscriminately. But if he is generous to any of them, and only picks at you and your relatives and friends, then I advise you to look at him from a different perspective.

2. Be direct about what you think.

If you are already a little unhappy because of this matter, it is recommended that you can directly express your own attitudes and thoughts for the relationship between two people, you can express your thoughts euphemistically, you think that boys can be thrifty, but not too picky, after all, money is used in exchange for a better quality of life and can not become a slave of money.

3. Choose to break up.

If you are unable to adapt to the other party's frugal living habits, you can choose to break up with the other party, after all, this is also your right to choose. And men pay the women they like, which is considered relatively normal by many men, if your boyfriend feels that this matter is not quite right, and there is no way to reach a consensus between you, then it is also a good thing to separate as soon as possible.

Fourth, the date pays out of pocket.

If you are unfortunate enough to find a boyfriend, then when dating, it is recommended that you do not wait for your boyfriend to pay every time, otherwise it is very likely that your relationship will not last long, and you yourself will consciously pay for the fee, which may be better for your relationship.

In fact, you don't have to hold this matter in your heart, say it directly, if you fall in love between two people, you have to say your inner thoughts. He definitely didn't think about it so much, he didn't think about it so much, and he was relatively wooden, not that he might usually be picking.

If you really like you, you are willing to spend money for you, and there is no straight man in this world, he just doesn't want to be warm to you.

Seems like a very interesting question: why is a boy willing to take you to eat but not want to buy you a piece of clothing for you to eat because people are going to eat and have you an extra pair of chopsticks by the way, and he buys clothes purely for you, and he doesn't want to pay for you even a single piece of clothing.

How to say this, I think well, maybe you have to observe his life a little, maybe she may not have a lot of balance, and then he is not very generous to you, in addition to this matter, whether there are other aspects is also worth considering, if he himself is rich, but he is not willing to spend it on you, this is a more obvious problem.

I want to get away with it. What is the method of wanting to catch the law? Let me use an example directly:

For example, if the two of you go shopping together and then buy a piece of clothing, it is actually quite expensive, and you like it very much. Then you also see that your husband is reluctant on the side, and even has to run away, so you have to learn to be well-behaved. For example, you are about to buy it, and suddenly pull him out and say:

Forget it, don't buy it, don't buy it, it's too expensive! Then I don't think it's easy for you to make Q, although I like this dress very much, and then how about it, describe it more, how you like and understand him about this dress.

I don't know what you're talking about, what you mean by being very generous, when you two are usually together, if you calculate everything, if you are reluctant to spend money, it's a bit picky, if it's just the usual expenses, then there's nothing wrong with it, it may be too much, if you have to buy anything that should be bought and what you shouldn't buy, then your boyfriend must be very ungenerous, and it also shows that your boyfriend is a responsible person, that's your problem.

If you don't say it at this time, then you can only suffer more in the future, he is reluctant to give you 45 yuan this time, and he is reluctant to give you 4000 40,000 yuan next time, and when you really talk about marriage, you will find that he is reluctant to have more things.

If you think that you can accept other aspects of him, and then think it is very good, then you can tell him what you care about, you can't always have this uncomfortable heart, just say this uncomfortable thing, and see if the two parties can mediate.

As long as it's good for you, it's a trivial matter, after all, the personality is different between people, he may be a person who lives a life, and he has a regular attitude for spending money, not the kind of person who spends money lavishly, as long as he is good to you, it's OK, you should usually talk more about him, and the place where you should spend money can't be like this.

Your boyfriend is too picky, isn't it, let you go over to him and be reluctant to even give the money for the round-trip ticket, do you still want to go over? During the relationship, he was cut like this, I'm afraid I don't expect him to be generous for the rest of my life. Hurry up and divide it, a stingy iron rooster can scare people to death.

You can explain your situation to him when you go, he will definitely give it to you when he comes, he is not generous enough to spend money now, you may not be very happy, but on the other hand, this is also an advantage, some men spend money lavishly, but what to do if they get married, overdraft every month, how to live life? He's good to you in other ways, no one is perfect.

Boyfriend is very generous in spending money, which is very good, if your boyfriend spends lavishly after marriage, then how will your life be? It's not a bad thing for a boyfriend to spend money very generously, so that he can live a better life as a family.

This shows that your boyfriend is a very picky person, and he is not very generous in spending money, but as long as he is willing to spend money on you, it means that he still has you in his heart.

It shows that the boy is more meticulous, reluctant to talk a little more, and many times he can save it, so even after marriage, it will be like this.

Then don't go. What are you going to do like this? You yourself are calm and calm, and you analyze and analyze well.

It depends on the situation, there is a plan for reasonable consumption, if the first half of the month is spent and the second half of the month is eaten of soil.

It's not a big problem, and I'll talk about the return ticket after I go, but I just mention it one more time.

There seems to be such a saying, depending on whether a boy loves it or not, you see whether the boy is willing to spend money for you.

Although such a material value is not a value that I respect and agree with, to a certain extent, I feel that Wei has a certain degree of correctness.

If you value material things very much, such a boyfriend is not for you.