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Song Dandan and Ni Ping did have a very good relationship when they were young.

Song Dandan's first sketch on the Spring Festival Gala was "Blind Date for a Lazy Man", she was a Beijing girl, and there was no dialect available (Northeast dialect was learned later), so she ran to ask Ni Ping for advice.

Ni Ping grew up with her grandmother in Shandong Village, so she suggested that Song Dandan speak Mandarin with a Shandong accent, so there was the famous scene of "My name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, and still unmarried".

This is 1989, and in 1997, Song Dandan and Yingda divorced, the whole person was very ill, and he couldn't cheer up, he called Ni Ping **, saying that he wanted to die, Ni Ping persuaded her to come to her house to mop the floor, Song Dandan went, and found that Ni Ping made a table of dishes at home, and ate with her grandmother, the old lady said that Song Dandan was about 20 years old (in fact, 36 years old), Song Dandan burst into tears and laughed, and the person came back to life.

Song Dandan and Ni Ping reconciled in the century, and the two asked why they didn't speak for 20 years.

The real reason why the two of them broke off their relationship was because Ni Ping once said to Song Dandan on a show, I am not your best friend, I have known you for a few days, who is your best friend, although this sentence is just a joke, but for Song Dandan, this seriously hurt his self-esteem, and he thought that the friendship between the two of them did not really exist, so he chose to break off the relationship.

Because Ni Ping's EQ is not very high, and she also insulted Song Dandan in public, saying that she was not Song Dandan's friend, Song Dandan was very angry.

The reason why the two of them broke off their relationship was because of a joke, the relationship between the two of them is very good, because of a joke, it is really a pity that the two of them have not been in touch for 20 years.

Ni Ping and Song Dandan used to be very good friends in private, the two of them had known each other when they were not popular, and they had spent a difficult time together, when Song Dandan needed help the most, it was Ni Ping who accompanied her through the dark time, so Song Dandan's success is indeed inseparable from Ni Ping's encouragement. But what makes people feel very strange is that for a while, Ni Ping and Song Dandan were like strangers, and they didn't know what happened.

In fact, the two of them have shared a lot of private things before, and Song Dandan will take the initiative to seek Ni Ping's help when he encounters any problems in his life and career, so the two of them are indeed very good relationships, and the reason why there was a dislike later was because Song Dandan said to ** that Ni Ping was his best friend, but he didn't expect Ni Ping to say directly, "Do I know you?" Song Dandan felt that he couldn't get off the stage, so he had a dislike.

Some people think that Song Dandan is indeed a little stingy in doing this, but from another point of view, in such a public place, what Ni Ping said really made Song Dandan feel very embarrassed, because in the face of many **, I don't know how to render it. In this way, the relationship between the two is not as close as before, and in the 20 years since then, the two have not had any contact.

However, later they combined again through a variety show, which made many people feel very moved after watching it, this is the first official meeting between the two after 20 years, so this is the careful planning of the program team, but the interaction between the two people will still make people feel full of emotion and surprise, maybe time is the best medicine for them, and after 20 years of misunderstanding, they finally released their suspicions.

In fact, this situation happens from time to time, but because they are public figures, they have more things to consider, so the possibility of small friction and small controversy is higher. Maybe the two can't return to the original intimate relationship, but the successful reconciliation under the arrangement of the program team is also a good ending.

Song Dandan and Ni Ping reconciled in the century, and the two asked why they didn't speak for 20 years.

Ni Ping and Song Dandan recorded a show together before, and asked Song Dandan how the relationship with Ni Ping was, Song Dandan was very good, but when she asked Ni Ping, she said who had a good relationship with her, Ni Ping was originally a joke, but Song Dandan thought she was telling the truth, and then the relationship between the two of them was not very good.

Many people don't know that 20 years ago, Ni Ping and Song Dandan were a pair of good girlfriends, but they had conflicts because of some personality differences, and then they drifted apart, and there was no intersection for so many years.

Song Dandan immediately answered, saying that you just provoked me, but you didn't pay attention to the very small thing, and then talked to Ni Ping. More than 20 years ago, Song Dandan said to a friend he had just met, "Ni Ping is my best friend", but Ni Ping said in a usual joking tone, "Do I know you?" Teacher Song Dandan emphasized that I knew that Ni Ping was joking, and the words came quickly and she was open-mouthed, but she was very hurt at that time.

In my opinion, it takes great courage for Song Dandan to take the initiative to meet Ni Ping, otherwise it would not have dragged on for 20 years to meet. At the beginning, she took the initiative to break off relations, and if she didn't untie the knot for a day, the two couldn't go back to the past.

In real life, we often meet people who joke casually, and sometimes even feel that joking to the point of making people uncomfortable is to say it sincerely, that is, to take the joke and say what you mean. Especially those jokes with low emotional intelligence, let's go back directly, everyone is embarrassed, it seems that you are too serious. Everyone said that how could he have bad intentions, it was just a little joke, you might as well be more tolerant, generous, and smile more, but what should people who are hurt by that sentence do?

The two of them finally said what they had been holding back for 20 years on the show, and now Song Dandan has a very independent personality, and she is no longer so sensitive and vulnerable. Ni Ping also explained sincerely, she really just said a joke at the time, but she didn't expect to hurt Song Dandan.

In the end, they reconciled with each other and were moved to tears. Song Dandan took the initiative to add WeChat, and the two returned to their original "little sisters". When people are frustrated, it is easy to be sensitive and hurt, and similarly, when people are going well, they are also easy to ignore the feelings of others, so as to unintentionally say some words that hurt others.

If there is a misunderstanding between good friends, it must be resolved in time, because unintentional words hurt each other for 20 years, and the price is too high. I hope that everyone can respect each other and achieve each other with their good friends. Finally, congratulations to Song Dandan and Ni Ping for returning to their best friends.

At that time, Song Dandan said that Ni Ping was her best friend when she participated in a dinner, but Ni Ping said to Song Dandan, do I know you, because this sentence broke my heart, so the two had conflicts for many years.

Because Song Dandan and the other party attended a party at that time, they were both having dinner at the time, and then they said that they knew Ni Ping, and Ni Ping may have joked at the time that she didn't know Song Dandan, and the two people had a 20-year grudge because of this incident.

The two used to be good girlfriends, and there were some conflicts because of some small things, and when they met again, they solved this contradiction.

Because they said inappropriate things when they were joking, Song Dandan was very sad, but later the two reconciled.

Song Dandan claimed to be good friends with Ni Ping at a party before, but Ni Ping said that she didn't know Song Dandan, and Song Dandan minded this matter very much, so the two never crossed paths since, and it was not until recently that they untied the knot.

It's not that I don't dare to ignore Ni Ping, because the two of them had a very good relationship with girlfriends at that time, but because of a misunderstanding over a trivial matter, the relationship between the two people also became stiff.

Because once Song Dandan said to others that Ni Ping was her best friend, and Ni Ping made a joke and said I know you. In the end, Song Dandan was very angry.

At that time, I was betrayed by the other party, and it was because the relationship between the two people was very good, but I didn't expect such a thing to happen, so I have been reluctant to contact each other for so many years.

Song Dandan and Ni Ping had some conflicts more than ten years ago, and they have only begun to get in touch again in recent years, which is the reason for this incident.