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I understood it, and it was quite profound, because Mama Kong was more authoritative in it, so what she said was still more prestigious.
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Got it. To be a child is to be filial, and to listen well to the teachings of your grandmother.
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I understand, I think this Mama Kong really knows a lot, in fact, if the three daughters can listen to what she said, it will definitely be beneficial for their future lives.
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The old lady of the Sheng family has paid for the Sheng family all her life, and even her own children have been sacrificed in the battle of the inner house. After the death of Old Lady Sheng, she couldn't bear to watch the young Sheng Hong face all this alone, so she stayed in the Sheng family to preside over the overall situation until the situation stabilized.
It's a pity that Sheng Hong is a selfish person, although he is grateful for the nurturing grace of the old lady of the Sheng family, but he is not as filial as his biological mother. The old lady of the Sheng family saw Sheng Hong's nature clearly, was very disappointed in him, and had no hope, so she wanted to spend the rest of her life like this.
But Mama Kong reminded her not to take those "disgusting things" to heart, eat when you should eat, and enjoy when you should enjoy it. This made Mrs. Sheng understand that in fact, she has the ability to change some things, and she still has her beloved Minglan and has to plan for Minglan in the future.
Although the three sisters Mo Lan, Rulan and Minglan are of the same age, the three sisters are not close. Mo Lan grew up next to Lin Xiaoniang with the shouting family, Rulan followed the eldest lady, and Minglan followed the old lady, and they didn't deal with each other.
Mama Kong punished the three sisters together in a trivial matter, the purpose was to tell them that the three of them were all girls from the Sheng family, and they were both prosperous and lossy. A sister made a mistake with Zheng Zao, if others don't know the persuasion, then they also make a mistake, and the decline of the big family starts from family discord.
Before Mama Kong came, Lin Xiaoniang had been at home for a long time. Mama Kong disciplined Lin Xiaoniang fiercely, so that Lin Xiaoniang knew what her identity was, what to say and what not to say, and to be measured.
Mama Kong's discipline also woke up Sheng Hong and the eldest lady, making Sheng Hong understand that her protection over the years was not the behavior of the head of the family, and also made the eldest lady regain the majesty of being the head of the house.
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It did make the Sheng Qi-type family change, because Mama Kong interfered with the life of the Sheng family, interfered with the interests of the Sheng family, and also brought a bad influence to the Sheng family, interfered with the Sheng family's model of managing rent and prudent family, interfered with Minglan work, interfered with the family's living conditions, and interfered with the family's feelings.
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Yes, Mama Kong made the daughter of the Sheng family more aware of the rules, and also let them know the truth that Yirong manuscript takes Jurong and loses both losses, their family has changed a lot because of Mama Kong, Master Sheng has changed a lot of ideas, and several girls are more sensible, and then Master Sheng will also listen to the opinions of the eldest lady, not a special favorite wife and concubine, the pin respect has changed a lot, and the relationship with the old lady is also a lot closer.
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This family has indeed undergone a very big change, and the old lady is also living a very peaceful and comfortable life, she knows what she should do, and will not do some useless work. and also came forward to call Lin Xiaoniang, and told the three sisters that they are all girls from their own family, so they must not fight infighting. And everyone in the family also recognized their position, and then tried to do what they should do in the front hall.
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Mrs. Sheng was born in a famous family, she is the only daughter of the famous Yongyi Marquis, she has also been in the palace, naturally knows all kinds of etiquette of women, she can teach her granddaughters in person, so why did she invite Mama Kong to teach etiquette at home? Regarding Mrs. Sheng's invitation to Mama Kong to come to the house to teach her granddaughters etiquette, I think there are several reasons.
First, Mrs. Sheng is Sheng Hong's mother-in-law, not her biological mother, after all, there is no blood relationship, and the relationship between the two is not so good, many times it is just polite on the surface. The three granddaughters of Rulan, Mo Lan and Minglan are not Mrs. Sheng's own granddaughters, and it is inconvenient for Mrs. Sheng to teach them etiquette in person. Moreover, Minglan was raised by Mrs. Sheng since she was a child, and if there was a dispute between the three granddaughters in the teaching etiquette, Mrs. Sheng would not be easy to deal with, and she would probably be questioned for favoring Minglan , although she was not such a person.
And inviting Mama Kong, an outsider, to teach her granddaughters etiquette will be relatively fairer, and it is inconvenient for others to question it.
Second, before Mrs. Sheng invited Mama Kong to come to her home to teach etiquette, a disgraceful thing happened in the Sheng family. Rulan and Minglan were framed by Mo Lan and had a bad reputation for stealing a foreign man, and they made a fool of themselves in front of the Liang family, and it was inevitable that they would be laughed at when this matter was spread. In ancient times, a woman's reputation was very important, and if she had a bad reputation, she was likely not to marry a good family.
Therefore, Mrs. Sheng invited Mama Kong to teach the girls etiquette, and it appeared to the outside world that the Sheng family still paid great attention to the etiquette teaching of the girls, so that others would not look down on the Sheng family and the girls of the Sheng family.
Third, Mama Kong is a famous person in the palace, she has been in the palace for decades, she has her own ability, many famous families will invite Mama Kong to teach the girls in the family various etiquette. Mrs. Sheng invited Mama Kong to teach her three granddaughters etiquette, which will undoubtedly gild the granddaughters, which is very beneficial for the granddaughters to marry in the future.
Fourth, Mrs. Sheng realized that her eldest granddaughter Hua Lan had suffered a loss because she had not learned flower art and tea ceremony, so she hoped that the other three granddaughters would not be lacking in this. That's one of the reasons.
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Because this old man's ability is relatively strong, and she has been in the palace for a long time, she also understands the rules and regulations of the wedding.
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This is because Mama Sun has been in the palace for a long time, so she understands a lot of rules and principles, and she is a very reliable person, so she asked Mama Sun to teach her granddaughter.
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She grasped their weaknesses and was caught by Mama Kong, and she handled things very fairly and strictly, and also taught them some lessons.
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punished the three of them, and said Lin Xiaoniang speechless according to the etiquette she knew, Mama Kong is really powerful.
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In the know, Mama Kong's body is the old friend of the old lady of the Sheng Liang family. She is the only woman in this drama who is scumbag and dares to act. The hand-torn green tea Lin Xiaoniang is really happy.
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Because Mama Kong is a full-time teacher of etiquette and rules, she is very professional, and Mama Kong has a good personal relationship with Mrs. Sheng.
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Because although Mama Kong is just a grandmother, she has also seen the world, and she can tell who is good and who is bad, she can see Mo Lan's bad intentions, and knows that Mo Lan's character is not good, and she is not very slow, so she wants to teach Mo Lan to learn the rules and teach her how to behave.
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The reason why Mama Kong agreed was because she took care of the old lady's face, and of course because she had a good relationship with the old lady.
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Mrs. Sheng is the daughter of the Marquis of Yiyong, who grew up in the palace since she was a child, and met Mama Kong, Mama Kong's open-mindedness, and Mrs. Sheng's daring to love and hate made the two become friends. In Mama Kong's heart, she naturally understood Mrs. Sheng.
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It is because Mama Kong and Mrs. Sheng are very good best friends, so Mama Kong knows such a private matter.
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Because Mrs. Sheng and Mama Kong were close friends in the palace in the early days, they played very well, and they kept in touch all the time, so Mrs. Sheng told Mama Kong about this matter.
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Because she is Mrs. Sheng's confidant. She was by the old lady's side and went through a lot of things with the old lady.
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Yes, it points out the way for the woman who is lost in marriage, in marriage, women should have other things to do, not just around the husband of the slippery orange, do some calculating missionary things, women also have to live their own way.
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Mama Kong's words are very reasonable, and it is a wise path for those who are struggling with marriage.
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Life is very short, a woman's life is not only as simple as love, women in the struggle to be friends also have to be responsible for their own life, I hope to recognize myself in the process of struggling.
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In the performance of the hit drama "Do You Know", there is a plot that after the sisters of the Sheng family grew up to a certain age, their grandmother called the old grandmother in the palace, Mama Kong, to teach the girls of their family how to obey etiquette. In fact, these etiquettes came from the palace, representing a kind of standard of judgment for the time. More etiquette is actually about how to serve one's own man, and some etiquette rules, I think are all superficial things.
In ancient society, there are actually many requirements for women, and there are very obvious manifestations in the development process of various eras, which is actually inseparable from people's stubborn views on women, until the current era of economic development to maintain a certain degree of stability, the idea of equality between men and women is gradually accepted by the society. However, in the process of modern development, we can also find a lot of discriminatory attitudes towards women, which actually leads us to pay attention to our rights in life.
From ancient times to the present, in fact, people's judgment of women is largely limited to men's vassals, and they are the auxiliary force of men when they struggle outside, but most of their views are also limited to not being able to really do something of their own. In fact, this fundamentally restricts the development of women, and it also plays a fundamental role in restricting people's ideological understanding. It has influenced the thinking and perception of people for generations, and it is more of a convenience that can be obtained in society.
Therefore, women's social status has always been at a disadvantage, and there are many bad habits in the development process, such as some bad habits, foot binding, etc., which also seriously affect people's physical and mental development. The most influential for each era is actually the mind, and the pain of one generation will also rely on this way to affect the people of the next generation, which directly leads to the emergence of this vicious circle.
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Mama Kong's 3 sentences are 1, as mothers, we must be strong for our children. 2. Even if your background is big and you don't work hard, it is difficult to be happy. 3. Women should protect themselves.
The emaciated camel is bigger than the horse, although the Sheng family has begun to show signs of decline, but the official position is still there, and Grandma Minglan is the eldest lady of the Hou Mansion, and it is also very glorious to have a mother-in-law of Miss Marquis, is the father of the Wang family a university scholar, but the marquis is hereditary, so although the real strength of the Sheng family can't fight the Wang family, it is still a good family that can be married.
Sheng Hong's self-motivation did let the Wang family see him, Mrs. Sheng has a good family background, treats people well, and also meets the standards of the Wang family to choose her own family, Wang Ruofu married at the peak, the fundamental reason is that Mrs. Wang is eccentric and does not love her.
Mo Lan, like her mother, likes to pretend to be weak in front of outsiders, and knows how to read and learn. Even if she makes a mistake, Lin Xiaoniang will carry her around, and in the eyes of Master Sheng, she is almost the image of a perfect daughter. Unlike Rulan and Minglan, they can't read and write, poetry and songs. >>>More
Because she is really very set, crying, making trouble and pretending to be dizzy, she is really very good at pondering people's psychology and knowing that officials like their weak appearance.
For the little grandfather's overtures, Minglan has always refused. Because Minglan knows that even if two people like each other, it is impossible to be together because of their family background. So it's better to break it off as soon as possible, but the little grandfather doesn't think so, the little grandfather has always felt that he likes Minglan , so they can be together. >>>More