His family is against it, but I want to change his family s mind! 10

When you go, first understand the preferences of his family, give them what they like, or gifts that they have loved for a long time, just say a little polite words, try to talk less, do more things, help your mother-in-law do housework, wash dishes, etc., you are friendly to them, they can't drive you away.

Are you a girl? It doesn't matter if his family doesn't like you, only if he likes you, and slowly his family will accept you.

If you're a boy, it's a bit hard, and it's hard for the average girl's parents to convince them.

But as long as two people truly love each other, all problems will be solved.

Go to his house and have desserts, just be diligent, and show respect for his parents when you talk, and let them know that you are a filial person.

Use your own love to influence them, I think it will be effective, a friend's girlfriend of mine, at that time the family was a hundred opposed, but later after the woman's efforts, the man's family finally agreed, and now they get along very well, show their own excellent side, and sincerely do something for them. You can start with their hobbies and make them happy, which is the first step.

The most important thing for you to know what your significant other thinks, which side he or she is on, and if he or she is on your side, then what are you afraid of?

No matter what pressure you encounter, be yourself!

Things haven't been done yet.

Just thinking about it here.

I advise you to save some effort to use your brains.

This is not something that can be solved overnight, give him the motivation to be with him well, to be good to his mother, even if his mother does not accept it, after a long time, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and his mother will like you. Since you have chosen him, you must be attentive to him, and if you get along well with his family, he will have no worries.

To understand why his family is against reflecting on whether it is your own reason, correct it and let his family see your improvement. No, just learn about her family's personality and hobbies Be good to them, such as buying small things to make the elderly happy, and buying gifts that everyone likes during the holidays Step by step to shorten the distance between your hearts.

It seems that you are a dutiful son;

Do you know the main reason why his mom doesn't accept you

Find the reason, sit down and talk about it

Isn't the love of the past ten years deep enough to be today, I think you still like his family!

As long as you and your boyfriend persevere, that happy day is not far away...

I wish you happiness...

Try to sit down with his family and talk,,, if it doesn't work, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will be with you regardless of the family's objections.

My situation is similar to yours, his family always finds trouble with me three times and twice, finds fault with me, I am always very attentive, and sincerely get along with his family, he also said that he only loves me alone, but I feel that I am too wronged by myself, although I love him very much, but this kind of life, I may not be able to accept it, and my family can not accept it.

At first, I thought it would be good as long as the two of us were happy, but marriage is life, not a movie, no matter how bad his family is to me, I never remember it, but the effect is not good.

Your situation is just cold to you, and mine is even more painful, I hope we can all consider this rationally.

Please his family, wash the dishes when I go to his house to play, have a sweet mouth, buy some gifts or something, and see people's hearts for a long time, I will always be moved.

Don't be influenced by the people around you, having your own independent ideas will slowly change the views of others more than you.

For example, when it comes to changing the charger, don't compromise because of your mother's opinion, and have sufficient reasons to support your behavior.

With your own subjective will, you will be more confident in doing things.

Another point is that facts speak louder than words, and doing more practical things to train yourself is the most realistic.

Don't unilaterally try to change yourself, because you are only 16 years old, you have to communicate with your parents, I personally think that your personality may be a little introverted, you try to get along with your parents more, go out and walk more, in fact, the reason why your parents let you follow your father out is also to consciously cultivate your independent character, which is very important for stepping into society in the future. Come on, lad!

Shyness isn't necessarily bad - -

Give some examples of high-flying but unflattering ......

I think you need to enrich yourself. First of all, give yourself a stable job so that his family does not think that you are greedy for something; Secondly, the last time you met, you did dress casually. You don't need to wear more fashionable and gorgeous, simple and generous is the best, but it should be newer clothes is the best.

Finally, during the holidays, you can send some gifts to his parents to make a good impression.

This is a tricky question. When you have a holiday, find an opportunity to visit his parents at his house, this time you should pay attention, don't be the same as last time, try to make a good impression on them; Greetings to his parents during holidays and the like; And be nice to your boyfriend, let your parents know that you are really good to their son, so maybe it's better.

Then you can change yourself, buy more good-looking clothes that suit you, and you can also learn makeup, decent clothing, and light makeup, which should be able to change his family's opinion of you, at least they can see that you are changing.

People are mutual, you learn to care about others, others will care about you, you learn to respect others, others will respect you, it's mainly a matter of the two of you.

This society is like this, and they are all masters who judge people by their appearance.

What do you want to fight for according to my character, although it will be painful, but it is better than being uncomfortable for the rest of my life.

Your boyfriend doesn't love you enough Why are you wronged so much It's really not worth it for you Half a year He's running away You know.

He's running away from the problem instead of solving the problem, and whether you change or not has nothing to do with that is not directly related to that, it's another thing for you to change.

His family, and his attitude, proves that they don't deserve to be bothered by them, and do your parents know about it, and they know that they have to die of grief.

I think your boyfriend will do his best. It's not easy for parents to live their lives, they can help if they can, and I don't blame you if you can't help them!

What should be lost is to look at the opening point.

There are always gains and losses in life.

Surely, it's wrong for you to blame your parents.

If your parents treat you badly, you won't be their son.

Right.

You are too young, you still have to listen to the advice of adults when you do anything now, they are all from the past, and since your boyfriend said so, this relationship will give up, in short, you are still too young.

There are several possibilities:

1.The cost of hitting ** is too fierce, and he can't stand it, just slowly.

2.His personality doesn't like you to stick to him a lot, and two people need space together.

3.Third, it may be that it is inconvenient for him to call you at home, and Dad is also against him falling in love.

Love, isn't love just about taking on the pressure for someone?

How old are you, like little children?