What is the psychology of parents who often post their children online?

Parents who post their children in the parent group have a mysterious love for their children, and want to get praise from other parents in order to seek a little sense of pitiful existence. The reason why I say this is because I think this kind of parents don't know whether the parent group is a show or not, and it is a convenient way for teachers and parents to communicate. If your child is really good, you don't need to brush up on the presence at all, everyone can see it.

This kind of disturbing behavior of yours seems to me to be showmanship, and the more you lack something, the more you show something.

Some people just have a flamboyant personality. What you eat today, everything you buy today has to be sunned, not to mention a cute little angel. It must be taken out to show off, and the subtext is:

You see if my baby is beautiful, you see how capable my children are, my children are the best, and so on. They use children as an add-on to their appreciation, to satisfy their vanity. Especially when someone praises their children for being so beautiful, so smart, and so sensible, their little tails have already risen to the sky.

At the invitation of family members and friends, they may be far away from each other, and some relatives who cannot see their children at any time. The couple will be asked to expose their children's every move to the space so that they can meet their inner emotional needs.

No one who thinks too much. They just think of what to send, maybe the main body of the child's life has become a child, then it is good to send a child. Anyway, posting on Moments seems to be a habit for them, and they want to post whatever they want.

People who live with a sense of ritual are good at recording the bits and pieces of life. They should take their circle of friends as a record of their children's growth, and when the children grow up in the future, they will look back and see how a small sapling grows into a towering tree. They are more often not exposed to others, but to themselves and their children when they grow up.

They don't want to miss every moment of their child's development, so they will carefully record what the child says or a new action.

I understand such parents, in the eyes of parents, their children are treasures, and they feel that he has some small achievements that he hopes to share with everyone; There don't seem to be parents in our parent group who show their children like this, they generally ask the teacher if the child is well-behaved today, and the head teacher will also tell parents in the group not to worry about the situation of their children in kindergarten.

Some parents are fully focused on their children, and their unmet needs to be paid attention to, or their unfulfilled wishes since childhood, are projected onto their children, and such parents are not so much showing off their children as they are showing themselves.

First time parents, surprised, curious, happy, documented. There are many first-time parents who face their children's every move as if they have discovered a new continent. For them, every smile of the child, every subtle change every day, is fresh and fun, and full of incomparable touching and joy.

This joy has overflowed their hearts, and they unconsciously want to share it, so that their relatives and friends can feel and enjoy this happiness together.

There are always some parents who are addicted to showing their babies and posting their friends, and some parents are swiping the screen? At first, looking at the baby's innocent smile, I will feel happy in my heart, and I will like and praise the funny little things in life, but after a long time, not only the child is uncomfortable, but the people in the circle of friends are also impatient to want to block it.

And some time ago, the little girl abroad complained about her parents' baby, and recorded it, uploaded it to the Internet, and was immediately browsed by everyone.

1.Why are you addicted to drying babies?

Parents like to have children, on all kinds of social software avatars are set as children, seven or eight times a day, this psychology is understandable, and a professional research team found that the baby's "cuteness" is not only in appearance, sound and smell are lovely. Parents' brains can always respond positively and quickly to their children's cuteness, and studies have found that cute children's ** can make the human body release dopamine, that is to say, parents can't control their joy when they show their babies.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, and the mother has no way to get spiritual comfort from her husband, and her role as a wife has not been valued and played. Then the mother can only maximize the identity of the child's mother, transfer all the attention and emotional identity to the child, treat the child as her own, and get recognition and attention from the child. So I only see the bits and pieces of the child in my life, regard everything about the child as my own achievements, and show my value in the family by constantly showing the baby.

Because such parents want to record their children's childhood as a souvenir.

"Baby-tanning" is indeed very common around us. The reasons for showing your children's **, **, etc. to relatives, friends or strangers are also more complicated, and may be mixed with various factors such as sharing, showing off, and showing happiness. Especially for their children to participate in some cultural and sports activities, or to get some awards and honors, and to get the blessings and likes of relatives and friends, it can be described as a sense of accomplishment for parents.

On the surface, it is mainly a matter of the private sphere of a family, and it is a question of whether and how the parents of a child are willing to show their family's private life, following the principle of "freedom if the law does not prohibit it". However, if we can stand from the perspective of children, especially from the perspective of protecting the legitimate rights and interests of minors, we will find that things may not be as simple as imagined.

First of all, the safety issue behind the "baby addiction" is the most noteworthy issue. Many parents post their children's **, including the child's name, appearance, kindergarten or school class, home address and other information, and once this information is connected by people with ulterior motives, it can be combined into a complete chain of children's personal information, which brings information leakage at the same time, but also produces personal security risks.

Secondly, excessive exposure to the baby may bring unexpected troubles and troubles to the child in reality. Some minors said that because their parents often posted their own ** and various life information on social platforms, this information was seen by their classmates, resulting in them being ridiculed by their classmates at school, and even suffering from campus bullying and school violence. This is probably something that many parents do not think of, and it should be avoided.

Thirdly, the baby should respect the child's own wishes, especially when the child can make his own choice. Now there are some junior high school and high school children who said that when they were young, ** was posted to their parents' circle of friends or self-**, as long as this information is not actively deleted, it will be permanently retained, but now it seems to me that I feel very embarrassed and embarrassed. So when the child is already sensible and can make his own choice, parents may wish to ask for their children's opinions and respect their wishes before showing their babies.

The baby is not guilty, but the drawbacks and harms behind the "baby addiction" have to be prevented. From the perspective of strengthening the protection of children's rights and interests, whether it is a baby or something else, parents' behavior should be based on the "best interests of the child" as the primary starting point, and avoiding harm to children as the biggest bottom line.

often shows the psychological state of the baby, that is, it proves that he is an adult, and he is more concerned and loving to children.

1. Nowadays, parents do not pay enough attention to the privacy protection of their children. Posting children** on the Internet not only violates the privacy of children, but also can be used by criminals.

2. Moms and dads change their avatars to their babies at will, intentionally or unintentionally mentioning their baby's name, kindergarten, school name, ** in the community where they live, and even the house number - according to this information, it is easy to summarize the child's nickname full name, home address, school address, etc. These may also be stolen by online databases for profit, or used by others for online bullying.

3. Children are not the rotten appendages of their parents, they are given life by their parents, they come to this world alone, they have their own independent personality and psychology, and they should be respected and protected to the greatest extent. Sinadan.

Such people are generally first-time mothers and fathers, and the excitement has not passed, and there are not many babies after the child is ten years old.

Because some parents just say that they have no other ability but to have a child, they will be obsessed with drying babies, and there is nothing else but sunning every day.

Let's see what others have to say.

There are many parents who are obsessed with obsession and show their babies, because their children are really good and worthy of showing off, and their children are also very competitive, so they are addicted.

He just loves his children so much! Loved letting others see how good my kids were. Showing off the baby is actually showing off his child.