Should I divorce someone I feel is the love of my life after I get married?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I don't think you should get divorced, because what you think is the love of your life is nothing more than the absurdity of your wishful thinking.

    When two people enter a marriage, whether it is because of love or because of suitability, both people have embarked on the fastest road to embrace happiness. Learning to manage your marriage and having a happy life at your fingertips, while choosing another relationship can make your life a mess.

    Love under the backdrop of marriage will always make people mistakenly think that this is the love of this life. After entering the marriage, the two people who get along day and night need enough time to find a way to get along with the two people, and conflicts and differences are inevitable in this process. This can cause distress and annoyance to two people, giving the illusion that marriage is a mistake.

    If, at such a moment, you happen to meet someone of the opposite sex who makes you feel differently. You will feel that this opposite sex is your favorite type, and that true love is between you. But this is just an illusion under the backdrop of marriage, you don't really love him, and he may not love you.

    I don't think you should rush to divorce, but learn to face your heart. When you enter into marriage, you meet someone who you think is the love of your life, and I think this is something that many people have experienced in their lives. But this self-righteous love may be just an illusion, and your marriage may be your true path to happiness.

    In this situation, I don't think you should rush into a divorce and then pursue what you think is love, but first ask yourself yourself: Is this marriage to the point where it is untenable? Does a new relationship really bring happiness to oneself?

    No one can give you the answers to these questions, only you can give yourself an answer, and when you give yourself an accurate answer, the next decision you make will not make you regret it for the rest of your life.

    Human beings are actually a creature that is easily influenced by the surrounding environment, and the love we think of as love may not be true love, and the life we hate may not be true disgust, perhaps these are just temporary illusions caused by environmental influences.

    Time will give you the final answer, but once you have made your choice, nothing can be repeated.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think I should get divorced because it's a sign of respect for marriage and an attitude toward my own marriage.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I don't think you should get divorced, because you already have a family, you must be responsible for your family, and when you marry your husband, you will think that your husband is the best, so you must not forget your original intention.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think that if you face this situation, you should not choose divorce, I think that since you have chosen to get married, you should take responsibility for your marriage, instead of doing what you want.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you should give up your married life and choose the love of your life, after all, it is not easy for people to meet a person they really love in this life, and they should cherish it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give up on your loved ones. Because you are married, you should cherish your family, so I think you should give up your beloved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should choose the existing marriage and put the love in your heart, because you are already married, then you are responsible for the current family, you can't see one and love the other, otherwise even if you are with the so-called love, then you will only repeat the mistakes of the past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think even if you meet the love of your life after marriage, you have to choose your lover, I think the relationship must be from the beginning to the end, from now on the contract.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should like it silently in your heart, because you are married, you must be responsible for your wife and children, you can't abandon the family at will, and you have not lived with each other, and it is very one-sided to think that the other party is love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Even if you meet the love of your life after you get married, then you should not betray your family, because you are responsible for your wife, and you have to be responsible for your family, which is a human morality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to keep your bottom line, if you can't keep your bottom line, you will meet a lot of beloved, if you keep the bottom line, the current person is your beloved.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this case, if you really don't feel happy in the original family, and if the damage to the children can be minimized after the divorce, and the other beloved party has no family, then you can choose to divorce and marry the love of this life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Now that I am married, I have met the love of my life. You have to bury him silently in your heart. The existing family should not be in the middle of nowhere.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you encounter this kind of problem, if you did not feel happy in your previous marriage, you can minimize the damage to your children after divorce, or you can try to pursue it, but you will have to bear the consequences if you choose to pursue it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Even if you meet someone you like very much after marriage, but out of responsibility for the marriage, you should no longer have entanglement with her, unless you can find her after the divorce.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After getting married, you should still choose your other half, you should keep a certain distance from this person, and don't contact for a long time, which is not really a relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Bear with the pain and cut your love.

    Because, as long as you live, you will meet a better one, and you can't always get divorced, right? Only what is suitable for each other will last.

    So, smart people know which is important!

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