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The biggest thing after a breakup is tidying up yourself.
First of all, it takes a while to sort out your mood and come out of the shadow of the past. The specific way to do it varies from person to person, but the core is to divert your attention, ignore your small emotions, and then think about memories, don't indulge in memories, and devote all your time to what you are interested in. Stick to 3 days, 7 days, 10 days, and about 15 days.
Secondly, after walking away from the haze, we should reflect on our own shortcomings. Both internally and externally, should be improved by this experience. While improving both internally and externally, do your own job well.
If you are a student, devote yourself to your studies, if you are an office worker, devote yourself to work, and do not underestimate the charm of serious people. Only the improvement of charm is the prerequisite for meeting true love.
How to enhance the charm, please ask
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Many of the criteria for choosing a mate are accumulated from the ex, and there was no clear requirement for it, and then it gradually became clear.
It mainly depends on what is the reason for the separation from the first love, if it is affected by other external factors, rather than the problem between the two, the potential consciousness is influencing, what the first love gives is very beautiful, according to the instinct of human nature, the more beautiful it is, the more you want to get the subconscious mind to dominate, and the view of mate selection will be affected in the future. On the contrary, because there is a problem between the two, the personality, values, outlook on life and their own reasons lead to a breakup, the heart is very hurt, but if you have a brain, as you grow older, your heart matures, and when you reflect on this relationship, it is not a good feeling, you will re-understand yourself, adjust yourself, and choose the other half that suits you.
You will find that most of the people you pay attention to in the future are the same type of people, and you will involuntarily have a good impression of them. In the process of building a relationship, each other is like a mirror of each other, it will allow you to see him and it will also allow you to see yourself. After going through the ex, you will know better what kind of people you need, or what you can avoid.
But you will also find that many people's later boyfriends or husbands may be completely different from the person they first liked. So the standard can be changed, as long as you like it enough....Love is like that, there is no way.
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I was lucky enough to meet and recognize the right person.
There are so many people in the world, and there will indeed be such a person, or a type of person, just suitable for each one.
However, if you want to really meet such a person and keep the other person in your life, it requires us to expand our social circle, and we also need a little luck.
It's the luck of just met, and it's also the luck that after the meeting, I just had the opportunity to recognize the other party.
There is no luck to meet, even if you meet many people, you will still feel that you are always unsatisfactory, and there is no one you want, and there is no luck to recognize each other, even if you meet each other, you will only pass by quickly, leaving no trace.
Luck, that is really very important, but also very rare, and it is precisely for this reason that there is a saying that when you meet someone, you spend all your luck.
In fact, it is precisely because many people are not so lucky, so they have never experienced a heartbeat in their lives, and they never know what it feels like to be moved by a person's heart, and how happy they are.
True love, with someone who loves each other and comes together, is never so easy.
Of course, this does not mean that we just have to be negative, and we don't have to be too careful on the road to love.
In any case, love is always a beautiful thing and an important part of life, so in this journey of life, no matter what age, we should only be optimistic, although we always believe that we can meet it.
Just like that person will come tomorrow, get ready for it, and like that person will never come, live well.
When we can do that, if one day we bump into each other, then it's good, we just have to cherish it.
And even if we've done enough, we haven't met yet, at least, we don't feel much regret.
In this life, we don't want to meet us, but we never give up and are always working hard.
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This should be done slowly, the heart should not be in a hurry, and meeting the right person is true love, but it also needs to be managed by both parties.
Ask her out, break up or be friends, one more friend is better than one more stranger, make it clear to her, just be a very ordinary friend, it's rare to come out to meet, then you can still secretly watch her, silently protect her, she is still by your side, just in a different way, as long as he is happy, it doesn't matter, as long as he is in a place where you can see it,
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