If a person really cares about you, he won t do anything to you, don t deceive yourself

If a person really cares about you, he will not ignore you, not contact you, bully you, disrespect you, and belittle you.

Just don't deceive yourself, we must first learn to love ourselves, and believe that if you are a flower and a butterfly will come.

Especially perfunctory to you, cold war with you, cold violence to you, don't give you a beating** don't send you a message, if this happens to you, it means that the other party doesn't like you.

The more you care about someone, the less people will take you seriously.

The better you are to a person, the less the other person will take you seriously! Why do you say that, because the other person can't see your own worth from you. Everyone has value, so they will be respected and valued by others.

When you always want to be nice to someone, or too good to someone, such goodness becomes flattering and stammering. What you have lost is your own personality and thoughts, so do you think you would value someone who does not have their own central idea and soul? Even if that person is very good to you, you will still dislike it!

If you want to get the attention of others, you can only get the recognition and appreciation of others. It's like a woman, because she loves and feels sorry for a man too much, and she is reluctant to let him do a little housework, but he never does it, how can she appreciate your hard work? And in the face of principled mistakes, your easy forgiveness.

If you can't even keep your own bottom line, how can you get the respect of others. Not only will they not be moved by your forgiveness, but they will feel that they have eaten you and have absolutely controlled you, so they are becoming more and more excessive. Don't be too nice to a person, unless you can always be good to a person, otherwise because one is bad, it will negate all the good you have before.

Also, when a person gets used to your goodness, he will forget what he was touched.

In the whole process of getting along with men and women, if the other party has feelings for you, he will often rely on you mentally, what things, he will want to tell you, such as he will share his own secrets with you, will want to tell you his personal privacy, in the case of his unhappy mood and distress, he will make you help him answer questions.

At the same time, what difficulties he has, he will often think of you at the first time, and will want to ask you for help, and the other party releases such a data signal, which is to have emotions for you, don't be unaware of it. On the contrary, when the other party is with you, if he does not trust you in his heart, does not tell you anything, and keeps hiding his own affairs from you, it will be a loss and he does not care about you.

If the other party has feelings for you and wants to associate with you, he will often pay attention to you sincerely, he will hope that you can respect him, put him in your heart, and attach great importance to his experience and converge for him.

For example, he hopes that you can talk to him, agree with him, you can be assured, you don't have to keep your word, he will want you to distance yourself from other friends of the opposite sex, hope that you can happen in front of him in the process of his needs, if you are not doing very well, he will often have suggestions for you, at this time, he may look unhappy, dissatisfied with your expression, the other party has you in his heart, has expectations for you, so there is such a main external performance.

On the other hand, when the other party is with you, he has little hope for you, feels cold to you, has advice for you, and is not willing to say it immediately, and the other party releases such a data signal, in fact, he has no feelings for you, does not take you seriously, and he does not care about you.

If the other party has feelings for you and cares about you deep down, he will pay attention to you in his heart, often admire you, maintain you very much, and often help you speak, even if you have any faults, he can forgive you.

However, in the whole process of living with you, if the other party doesn't care about you, doesn't take you to heart, always looks down on you, and often cares about you with some trivial matters, or he is always picky in the egg, can't go with you, often mentions the past, and finally prompts the daily life process between you to be a chicken feather; The other party has always had such an external main performance, and Youcha actually doesn't care about you, don't understand.

People who often hide things from you definitely don't care about you anymore, and this kind of person may have fallen in love with someone else.

will quarrel with you a lot, will often be unreasonable, will ignore you, will no longer like you, will become a frequent liar.

is very cold to you, yells at you, often dislikes you, doesn't care about your feelings, and is special to you.

(1) Self-centered, completely disregarding your feelings.

Between 2 people, wishful thinking, sooner or later you will be completely injured, you are sincerely devoted, if you have not been able to be understood by the other party, it can only mean that you are not so critical to him. He will always care about the things that are important to him, and he will not pay much attention to your joys and sorrows, and he will ignore you, as if he is a special person, so that you often feel that it seems unnecessary in front of their eyes. If the other half looks so non-existent in front of him, then why does he care about you?

Thinking about what others feel, and caring for each other for the other party, this kind of association can be regarded as a harmonious association.

(2) If you have something urgent, you can carry it yourself, and hide all your joys, sorrows, and sorrows in your heart.

If a person silently resists all, how outstanding it looks, in fact, it is helpless, if in the world of two people, from beginning to end, it is all one person who resists all of them without being known, so it shows that he doesn't care so much about you. What is Couple? Husbands and wives are lifelong lovers.

If all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows are hidden in the heart, then what is the name of husband and wife? People who seem to be tenacious actually have too many helplessness, and in the long run, they will get used to being alone, and they won't care about you like that. In the world of two people, if someone understands that a person is alone, then he doesn't care about you, and there will always be a lot of distrust behind a person alone, if it can't be solved immediately, maybe it will be separated.

(3) Leave a good temper to others, and a bad temper to the other half.

The person who is really good to you is the kind of person who wants to leave all the good things to you, rather than treating you as a person who is angry and cares about this small detail, which is enough to reflect deeply. The perfect love should be "When I see you, I smile; As soon as you see me, you will smile", two people together can make all the troubles come to naught, such a love is beautiful. If a person is accustomed to keeping his good temper for others and his temper for his other half, then it is enough to see your influence in his mind, and there is no doubt that this is just a kind of indifference to you, why should you defend yourself?

will communicate and communicate with you, often chat with some, often text **, often lose his temper with you, and will be particularly indifferent to you.

It should be that you don't care about your attitude in doing anything, and it hurts you, then you are very sad, and at the same time you will stay away from you.

1. Go with the flow and don't force it.

If a man cheats on a woman emotionally, and it is deliberate, then the woman will have an emotional impact, in fact, when the emotional fluctuations subside, the woman will go with the flow and not force it, because the man is lying and deceiving her, which means that the man does not care enough about her. And the man takes the initiative to have such a mind, so it is useless for a woman to force it, so slowly the woman does not take this deception to heart, so as to manage herself, if the man really cares about her, he will definitely take the initiative to contact her or coax her, and he will definitely have something enlightened.

Second, I will ask for a clear answer, whether I don't care about her.

A mature woman faces a man who cheats on her emotionally, so within the acceptable range of this mu skin's deception, the woman's emotions will not be too excited, but she will open up with the man to talk, and want to know why the man deceived her, because the woman wants a clear answer, and wants to know why the man is hiding something from her, whether he really doesn't care about her. In fact, a woman is very smart in this way, if a man says that he really cares about her, then a woman may forgive him this time, and pay attention to his relationship status and performance in the future, if the man cheats on her many times after that, then the man's care seems to be not credible, and when the woman questions him again, he will be weak-hearted, in fact, this experience also makes women see the man's personality clearly.

3. Don't care if you don't care about deception.

In fact, regardless of men or women, everyone has personal space, if a man cheats on a woman in a small matter, then the woman will not care, although a little mindful, but forgivable, and women are also tolerant and atmospheric. Some particularly small things may not be worth arguing with a man, even if the man is not very honest with her in this matter, the woman is understanding and considerate, after all, everyone has their own personality and habits of behaving in the world.

Choose to forgive her and let time dilute everything.

Treat the person who deceives me again and again, no matter what reason and excuse he has, I think he is a **, and he really regrets it very well, I will stay away, and I will not have any contact and dealings with him.

Give up caring and let yourself go.

No matter how much you care, people should also have your own bottom line and principles, and others may just see that you have no bottom line to forgive, so they will have no fear.

There is no too good way, the strong man breaks his wrist, give up, and the loss will be smaller.

When we are pouring out more attention and emotion, it is easy to lose ourselves, and we may have some expectations and requirements for the development of the relationship, which will eventually lead to less attention and affection from others. This may be because our attitudes and expectations about relationships exceed the expectations of others, or because we rely too much on and need the attention and emotions of others and neglect self and independence. In fact, in relationships, we must protect our independence and self-esteem so that we can earn the respect and trust of others.

When we put too much emphasis on our emotions and dependence on others, we may appear lacking in ego and independence. In such cases, others may feel that we need undue attention and care, which may make them feel uncomfortable and stressed. Also, if we care too much about someone, we may exhibit some excessive behaviors and words, which may make us seem like we need too much attention and care, which can lead to alienation from us by others.

Therefore, we should focus on balance in maintaining relationships. We can express our concern and concern for others, but at the same time maintain self and independence. This requires us to be mindful of our actions and words, to avoid relying too much on the attention of others, and to protect our independence and self-esteem as much as possible.

In fact, when we have ego and independence, we are more confident and attractive, which may lead to more respect and attention from others.

In addition, we should also pay attention to our hearts and control our emotions. We may show some emotional loss of control by worrying too much or caring too much about someone. At this time, we need to restrain our emotions, calm down with a cold grip, and get some psychological support.

Because when we are less emotional and calm down, we are more able to face a certain person and relationship rationally.

In conclusion, when we care too much about someone, others may feel alienated from us, due to our attention and emotions exceeding their expectations. Therefore, we should maintain our self and independence, focus on balance, and control our emotions in order to earn the respect and trust of others. <>

A person who really cares about you will definitely be willing to think about you, will not let you be wronged, be special to you, and care about your affairs.

Care about a person's eyes full of each other, no matter the other party goes, then this person's eyes will follow** will meet all the requirements of the other party, and they will be extremely happy to see each other.

As long as the other party appears, they will look at each other intently, and their eyes will not shift to each other at all. They will even look at each other and smile directly.

Hi, I'm Liang Xiaobao.

Someone said, "Be proactive and we'll have a chance." "For special people, we always care. It's just that I don't care about you, in fact, you know better than anyone else.

You've probably experienced the feeling of caring about people, right? In fact, I am very sleepy, and I am still reluctant to say good night, in fact, the road is very long, but I still want to see each other. For the people we care about, we always give it all.

We all know that we care about a person's performance, but many times, we are deceiving ourselves and giving each other reasons. If you care, how can there be a reason to exist?

He never takes the initiative to contact you, in fact, there are no various reasons, just because he doesn't care about you. Because I don't care about you, I can not contact you for a long time; Because he doesn't care about you, maybe your overtures to him are just an interruption.

In fact, two people love each other, and it doesn't matter which one takes the initiative, but if it's not a consensual relationship, then you, who have been taking the initiative, have to bear too much price. The more grievances you have. But all that you endured because you liked him was fruitless.

Once, I also tried to like someone unilaterally, and I would save my money and buy them something they liked. I also used to dry my fingers in the shower and reply to his WeChat message on the blurry screen; Even though at that time, he just replied "um", and I was able to continue to create conversations. I've been trying to get close to them and cater to them, but in the end we didn't get together.

Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear, "You pretend that they care, and in the end it's just self-deception." Because I care about you, I don't like to do things, but I will still do them. People who don't care about you, no matter how much you give, they will only be moved, but they will not love you.

Care, no reason. Those who say they are busy and forget may not actually take you to heart. People who care about you will take the initiative to find you.

We will always be vague, where is the distance between the good people who don't reject you and the people who take the initiative to be good to you? Just because he doesn't reject you doesn't mean he likes you, and if he doesn't take the initiative to contact you, then he doesn't care about you at all. If you care, you won't be able to take the initiative all the time.

It's just that after falling in love with someone, many people will automatically close their ears and don't listen to the advice of others. They think that as long as they work hard, they will be rewarded, and they will be seen by the other party if they continue to pay in the future, but in fact, they are just hurting themselves again and again.

But there are a lot of love in this world, but the love thrown out can't get people back. It is you who take the initiative to pursue, but it does not mean that you are more humble, and feelings need to be treated equally.

If you're already so proactive and he still doesn't like you, then you should give up. You will meet someone who is good to you, all the efforts will be meaningful, and you will make your love precious.

Good night and good dreams.

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