Does he only have standards and no feelings for me?

The red flag does not fall at home, and the colorful flags flutter outside.

For this type of man, it is best for you to recognize what your principles are? What you can tolerate and what you can't tolerate, think about it, and I think you can know how you choose.

Don't think that you can tie up a person in 4 years, people will change, my own relationship has been more than 4 years, and in the end it is not separated, while you look at him, you also look at yourself I hope you can find your answer.

If you don't want to give up this relationship, it is recommended that you try to change yourself, such as paying attention to dressing up, paying attention to the attitude of talking to him, etc., to make him feel that you are the best and most helpful backing around him, so that he can feel your goodness. Try not to blame him, but bring him a cup of tea when he comes home from work and don't ask anything. Tidy up your home carefully, and then give yourself some space, such as shopping with friends and practicing yoga.

Remember that you don't just have him in your life, but yourself as well. Recommend a book called Men from Mars and Women from Venus. Bless you.

Isn't there a cat that doesn't steal? If you think so, you are destined to find a man who always steals.

You're wrong, you shouldn't try to change him, you can change his time and pass, all you're waiting for now is who will propose to break up, he doesn't feel for you anymore, but you are the most stable. You must be good-looking, so that he will not be willing to leave you. But his heart is no longer with you.

Your love is over. You should think more about yourself. No matter how much you love him, it's also your one-sidedness, I'm a bit straight.

Find a chance to finish, what awaits you is the happiness of the next stop.

First of all, have you two really been in a relationship for four years? If you are really in love, why do you feel that there is no emotional foundation? Are you really sure he loves you?

After all, according to you, you've been together for four years. If he really has a woman outside, and you are not married, why should he rely on you? You have to think about whether you are thinking too much or if he has some intentions, and I say this to you don't get angry.

If you love him, you should know him! However, it cannot be denied that he has caused you trouble! Suppose he really did something sorry for you, why would you die on a tree?

Of course, if it's really that you're thinking too much, he should have his unspeakable secrets. And you can also be sure that he loves you, so what he does is his idea, as long as he has you in his heart, isn't it?

Get used to it. He's used to your kindness to him. It's going to be better if you're separated for a while.

You should change yourself slowly and forget about him!

People are the most vulnerable, the least discerning, and the most vulnerable to being taken advantage of, easy to re-enter a relationship, and then end in failure, which is a vicious circle. If you want to be responsible for yourself, try to keep yourself calm and restrained first. It's not time to fall in love right away!

Besides, he is just in a bad relationship, and he has not broken up completely. He also can't let go of his girlfriend, and he said that "he won't forget her girlfriend", which shows that he still has a strong sense of responsibility for her.

Some people like to keep an ambiguous relationship outside of their feelings, of course, I don't mean to criticize him. But there are indeed such people, because of some unhappiness with their girlfriends, and then they are easy to get close to and sympathize with other girls who have the right taste, and it is easy to create illusions between themselves and each other. And when he really wants to make a choice, he will hesitate, can't make up his mind, can't let go of both sides because it is rare to die, and uses his feelings as an excuse.

Therefore, it is recommended that you stay away from him for a while and stop having an affair with him until he breaks up with his girlfriend. Even if you need him very much, you have to wait, wait for him to break up with his girlfriend (if he wants you, he should take the initiative to break up with his girlfriend, you don't force him), wait until his heart is completely free of the shadow of his ex-girlfriend, and at this time you are almost adjusted, and you can objectively judge whether he is your favorite object, and then have an honest relationship with you.

Otherwise, the feelings of three people entangled together are the most painful and irresponsible for everyone. If you don't want to put him in such a situation, just take a high-profile, high-profile, and great exit for a while.

Although feelings are emotional, we must also maintain a rationality, not too much by nature, everyone is an adult. You may feel a little uncomfortable for a while, but you are not sorry for anyone, and you have made a wise move in your upbringing. For him, he will feel your personality charm afterwards, and if you are destined to fall in love later, he will cherish you more.

I hope you can calm down.

I think girls should not be so proactive, and look at the boys' performance first, so as not to fall one-sided.

But it's still very sincere by acting, ten fingers are clasped tightly, and put it in your pocket, which can only be like this to the people you care about.