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In the past two days, my friends have often complained to me: What do you do in love, it's not tired enough, it's good, it's good. It's the same experience as a roller coaster, and I sometimes get in a trance:
What the hell do I want, what the hell does she want. I also wanted to have a good talk about love, but the end result was either a quarrel or a breakup. The three views are inconsistent.
When two people are together, the outlook on consumption, world view, etc., including interests, is completely different, and it is easy to break up, but the other party has a completely different life from you, and you are more or less interested, so the state of separation and integration is also easy to appear. I thought I loved it a lot, but I didn't love it much. I thought I loved you very much, but I was just used to you being around.
I broke up and was reluctant, and I didn't feel very much love when I reconciled.
<> I don't think so. When two people get along, they must be genuinely engaged. At the beginning, the relationship has just sparked, you love me, there will not be too many contradictions.
After getting along for a period of time, the true character and characteristics of the two people will be expressed, and there may be inconsistencies in the three views. Contradictions will continue to arise, and there will be problems of separation and merger. The key is to see whether the two people get along sincerely, if they really get along, they should be more tolerant, run in as much as possible, and let the two people look at problems and deal with things more and more together, which will definitely reduce contradictions, and there will be no more state of separation and integration.
Feelings are a very subtle feeling, real feelings will not be divided and combined, and small quarrels are inevitable in the process of getting along, but recognize their own shortcomings from small quarrels, and mutual tolerance will get better and better. The relationship that is often divided and combined is not a strong relationship, because they don't want to tolerate each other, they feel uncomfortable being alone and want to get back together after separation, and they don't want to tolerate after they get back together.
If you are serious, you will lose, that is, you don't need to be too serious, you don't need to be too aggressive. It can also be regarded as a warning to life, always pay attention to your attitude towards people and things, and sometimes you don't need to be too serious, which is not good for yourself. So whoever is serious loses.
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Not necessarily. This shows that there are more run-ins between two people in the relationship, and there are more contradictions, so there will be separation and integration, and such feelings will not last. Only when two people work together, tolerate each other, and communicate with each other can the relationship last longer.
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In love, such feelings are very long-lasting, because in love, the so-called separation is just that the love that people represent is not long-term enough, if you want to be long-term, you can represent life A person's life will be very long, far away Divide and merge, I look down, as long as I give my sincerity.
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This kind of emotion can't last long, because in love, you should cherish each other and love each other, so that's okay.
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Whether a relationship will last long is actually to see the joint efforts of two people, one person's efforts are useless, feelings are the result of two people's joint efforts, the less cherished each other can last.
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In love, such a relationship will not last long. Because every breakup there will be a rift, and over time there will be no going back.
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It's hard to have a long-lasting relationship, because you're used to it, so there's always a time when you're going to end it. Either communicate well, or give up both.
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If you are in love. If you don't know how to communicate, and you have such a maintenance emotion, then this kind of relationship will definitely not last long. The most important thing in love is stability. Have a tacit understanding and know how to maintain.
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Personally, I think this kind of relationship can't last long.
Because two people are always separated when they fall in love together, it means that the two of them are not suitable for being together at all.
Really two suitable people together will not easily say that they will break up.
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If you are in love, you can still persevere, you can also promote each other's emotions, and you don't mind that the other party has so many setbacks, I think this kind of relationship can go through ups and downs more and last.
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Feelings are originally divided and combined, and only inseparable is true love. So cherish the feelings you have, and try not to divide and merge.
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Hello friends, generally speaking, two people have too many separations and mergers in the process of love, which will definitely affect the stability of their marriage in the future. Because when they are in love, two people are not convinced by each other.
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It's still more dangerous to divide and merge in love, and it may be that one day you won't be able to hold on, and it will make people feel tired!
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What kind of relationship lasts? I don't think it will last long. Because of this love, they always quarrel and break up because of various things.
After a quarrel and breakup, they need to find various reasons to make up for their mistakes. Maybe there was some patience at first, but in the end there was no patience at all, so that you couldn't even be friends. For different people, the effect is different.
If you can feel your disappointment and heartache after breaking up, and both parties can cherish and tolerate each other more after reconciliation, then such a relationship can last for a long time, and intermittent is just a spice in love. On the contrary, in the process of splitting and reuniting, you will complain about him or her after the breakup, but after reconciliation, you will still quarrel about each other's shortcomings, so this kind of love cannot last. Love and marriage are two different things.
Since you can be separated, you can be together, I think you must be in love. And love is very deep, but why are you separated and combined, because you still can't tolerate each other and face each other's shortcomings. In a world of love, I think you will remember each other for the rest of your life.
But in the world of marriage, it is not easy for you to be happy, either change yourself completely or find a suitable partner. Splitting and merging is not good for the relationship, because it will cause emotional rifts, and sometimes there is no way to repair these rifts. Although some injuries can heal quickly, people who always heal slowly with emotional wounds will remember the pain they have suffered whenever they are in pain.
Although he says forgiveness, he can't let go of it in his heart, so it's best not to be so intermittent when falling in love.
I don't think it will last long. Because of this love, they always quarrel and break up because of various things. After a quarrel and breakup, they need to find various reasons to make up for their mistakes.
Maybe there was some patience at first, but in the end there was no patience at all, so that you couldn't even be friends. For different people, the effect is different. If you can feel your disappointment and heartache after breaking up, and both parties can cherish and tolerate each other more after reconciliation, then such a relationship can last for a long time, and intermittent is just a spice in love.
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It is impossible to have a long-lasting relationship, because this method will bring great damage to two people, and it will break the relationship between two people.
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There are problems in the relationship itself, which means that the relationship is very easy to break down and cannot last long, and if you are reluctant to be together, it may eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
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I don't think this kind of relationship can last long, they are always separated and combined, there is a lot of dislike between the two people, they always quarrel, and it will not last long.
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That's not good. Because this is likely to affect the relationship between two people, it will lead to the consumption of feelings for each other, and it will also make two people estranged.
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This is very bad, and the separation and union will affect the relationship between two people, and there will be some estrangement between two people even after they are together.
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Separation and union in love are inevitable, and no one can guarantee that the person they meet will be able to hold hands for a lifetime, and if they are reluctant to be together, there will be many problems in the future.
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Divided and united love will not last long. The reasons are as follows, first of all, Hui shouted and disturbed the two people, and broke up as soon as there was a conflict. Then after getting married in the future, if there is a conflict, there will be a divorce. Such feelings cannot last.
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The love of separation and union will not last long, because it has been divided and combined like this, which is very internal friction and consumes the feelings of both parties, so there is no way to last long.
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Hello, whether the separation and merger of Sun Zhongqiao will last depends on whether the two people meet a good choice.
First of all, normal love does not divide and merge.
Secondly, the fact that two people are divided and combined also shows that they cannot meet suitable for cultivating themselves. Or a state in which one side has been trying to pull.
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If two stools and answer people get along temporarily, there are often contradictions. Break up as soon as there is a conflict, so that people who are divided and combined are not suitable for being together, and they will not last long, indicating that the personalities of the two people are not compatible. Don't torture each other anymore.
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Couples who often split up and get together should take a look at this.
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What kind of relationship lasts?
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Why do feelings divide and merge? The question of the relationship between the split and the union is here.
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You are all self-centered in your communication, you can't hear your own voice, you say your own words, if you communicate, just to clarify your own point of view, that's preaching.
You should express what you want, not what you don't. Let the other person know what to do to be satisfied, not just complain about the other person's badness. Finally, express your needs, not cranky, so that the other person will value your needs.
Some people say that after a breakup, there is a high probability that they will get back together again, but after they get back together, there is a high probability that they will still break up. The reason is the same as before.
The answer is simple, you don't delete someone you love deeply and are deeply sure that the other person loves you. People, often only when they are not favored, will they become both gains and losses.
Some things are like internal wounds, spreading from the inside out. It was painful at first, but slowly, over time, the wound healed. In the eyes of others, you are still the strong, all-powerful "adult", but only you know that those wounds rooted in your heart have never healed, they have always been there.
Before I met you, I didn't think about getting married, and after I met you, I didn't think about anyone else. "This is probably the most beautiful love!
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The relationship between the two is true love.
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Why do feelings divide and merge? The question of the relationship between the split and the union is here.
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Couples who often split up and get together should take a look at this.
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Yes, you actually love each other very much.
But there are things that divide and unite you.
In fact, this also means that you can't let go of this relationship.
Cherish it.
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It's not divided and combined to be called true love.
It's two people together.
A subtle sensation is generated.
And this feeling is that two people are reluctant to leave.
It's impossible to leave.
No matter what shortcomings they have, they can tolerate each other.
Walk with each other for a lifetime.
There is a kind of song"The most romantic thing"That feeling.
I think that's true love in the world.
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It's hard to say, it depends on your separation and integration, which is a kind of tempering for you, grinding your feelings more and more hard or grinding your feelings to the point that you don't even have the most basic trust.
If it's not the two of you who are separated, but someone is blocking it, if the two of you can persevere, you will get a relationship you want.
A relationship that is not noisy or noisy will not last long.
Taurus, Leo, Libra, Capricorn, Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces, these signs are separated from their lovers in the relationship, and they can't be separated in the end, they value this relationship very much, even if the other party says something very excessive, they are willing to be by each other's side.
It can only be said that the relationship between two people who are in love is very unstable, maybe after the passage of time, two people can live well, but most of these two people will go to the point of breaking up.
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