I remarried after a divorce for the sake of my children, but I always feel estranged, how to improve

Generally speaking, people who have reunited are usually able to solve the first level of problems, which are the superficial problems that lead to divorce. For example, if two people divorce because of many trivial things, such as the husband thinks his wife treats him harshly, the wife thinks the husband is sloppy, etc., the two people may compromise and remarry for the sake of their children, but this only solves the superficial problem. The deeper problem is that the concepts and lifestyles of two people are different, which is difficult to change, (of course, it is not impossible, but it is necessary to fully understand oneself and learn systematically to do it), so even if they are compounded, the same problems will appear in different places, and most couples who compound will basically have problems in 80%.

So I don't want to be estranged, so I should do it:

1. Don't be busy remarrying first, and clarify whether the problems between you are permanent problems (three views, behavior patterns, etc.) or solvable problems (parenting concepts, economic problems, etc.).

2. If it is the former, it is necessary to think about how far it can be solved, how to do it, whether this degree is acceptable to both parties, and think clearly before deciding; If it's the latter, come up with a mutually acceptable solution and try to do it, and don't cross the other party's bottom line in the end.

3. Persistently learn the methods and skills of getting along with the sexes, be prepared for danger in times of peace, and understand that only if you do a good job can you influence each other. Running a marriage is a joint effort.

In short, there is no need to consider whether the relationship can return to the beginning, because people's feelings change over time, and they may be different at every moment, and the feelings after remarriage are definitely different from those when they got married for the first time. After experiencing the divorce, the two people have matured their minds a little, and they can choose to be together again, which means that the two people still feel that the other party and themselves are more suitable. After remarriage, you can know how to be considerate and tolerate each other, but you should also mainly hurt people with words.

The relationship has gradually developed from the passionate love when they first got married to the direction of warmth. In short, the relationship will never return to the beginning.

First of all, you must let go of those estrangements in your heart, and if you decide to remarry, don't think about the other party's badness, care more about each other, and get along with each other like when you first got married, and you will be much better.

The two sides must first have a deep communication, and then both sides should understand each other and face each other in the most comfortable way.

Two people can go out to travel more, and establish the emotional foundation between two people through children, and you can slowly cultivate the feeling between two people.

The way to improve is to change the way you get along, you can do something interesting, travel to relax, get back to the feeling between the previous couples, and then get along.

At this time, the two of them should have a good conversation about their previous behavior. Communicate well and find topics to improve your relationship.

For the sake of the child to remarry, the contradiction between the two people still exists, and the damage caused cannot be completely healed, if the remarriage can not completely change themselves, then the two people will continue to quarrel, which will cause greater harm to the child.

There is no need to deliberately change anything, after all, two people have lived together before, have a certain understanding, and increase the chances of getting along. For example, when you go out to travel, you can go out to eat and watch a movie.

A real marriage may be unhappy due to various factors, so the parties may choose to divorce. For families with children, divorce can have a very serious impact on the children, so some couples will choose to remarry because of the children after the divorce. ......For this kind of question, what kind of choices will the parties make, including the three types of rock promotion situations in which the parties will not divorce even if the relationship between the husband and wife is not in harmony for the sake of the children, although the divorce will affect the children, they will still choose to divorce, and after the divorce, they will choose to regain the date for the sake of the children.

1. Although the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, but for the sake of the child and no child, the two people choose not to divorce. In real life, there are many couples who do not have a good relationship with each other. It can even be said that they are almost on the verge of divorce.

However, because of having children, everything has changed. ......Both husband and wife understand that divorce can have very serious consequences for their children, so they make the choice not to divorce. The sense of responsibility of these couples is very strong, and the relationship between them may gradually improve over time.

2. Divorce does have an impact on the children. But for the sake of his own happiness, he will still choose to divorce. For some couples, they know that divorce will have a very serious impact on their children, but they will still make the choice of divorce.

These couples are like this because their relationship has reached an irreparable level, or because they want to pursue their own happiness, so they pay less attention to their children. ......This situation has a very big impact on the child.

3. After the divorce, I found that the children were greatly affected, so I chose to remarry. Among the various circumstances, the situation in which a couple finds that their children are affected by this after divorce and finally chooses to remarry is the most satisfying. ......Although the previous divorce had a great impact on the couple and their children, from the moment they chose to remarry, the relationship between the husband and wife was repaired, the impact on the children was also compensated, everything was back on the normal track, and the family would be happy again.

This is clearly the most desirable outcome.

The relationship between people is very wonderful, sometimes you will feel that two people have nothing to say, and if you continue to continue to quarrel, you will only keep quarreling, it is better to divorce, but after a period of time, you will miss the good days that you have spent with each other, which is very likely, after all, we always have the weakest side in our hearts, so what about the relationship between husband and wife who remarry after divorce? Is there a gap between remarriage after divorce? Let's take a look.

The relationship between husband and wife who remarry after divorce is actually inaccurate, and there is no exact statement, after all, everyone's personality and ideas are different. Some couples will have a better relationship than before after remarriage, as if they have re-acquainted with each other, they can be more considerate and tolerant of each other, and both of them are willing to manage their relationship well. But some people will have a more difficult life than before after remarrying, and will regret why they remarried, and even divorce again in the end.

In fact, different people do different things, and the results will be different, and the most important thing about the relationship between husband and wife after remarriage is to see the actions of both parties.

Some parties may feel that it is not easy to remarry, and will cherish the opportunity to be together again, and the husband and wife will also get rid of their own problems, but some couples still do not let go of the previous mustard after the remarriage of Yanque, and they will always think of the past, and every time they quarrel, they will bring up the old things again, so this kind of estrangement is very serious.