Why is it so hard for rich and poor people to be friends, even relatives?

In fact, many people have their own social circles, not only because they can talk, but also because of work needs. Generally speaking, the social circle belongs to a kind of casual circle of friends, but in the eyes of most people, work accounts for most of their daily life, and there is no more energy to participate in other social activities**. For many people, the rich are all about leisure and entertainment, and they don't need to work, in fact, people who really work from the bottom, and get rich overnight, will not let themselves go, usually only busier, only the way and social circle change.

However, some people's thoughts and cognition have always stopped, and in their opinion, even if a person has money, as long as his personality and personality remain the same, he is still a person in their social circle, and he will still get together from time to time. In today's society, if a person wants to manage his career and life well, he usually can't do without interpersonal communication. Whether it is like-minded or a conflict of interest, it is indispensable to have an impact in the social circle, although it is necessary to strike iron and its own hardness, but if you want to make a thing, it is inseparable from the boost of personal relationships.

But there must also be nodes in the middle of the social circle to create efficient effects, such as contact at work, in other words, like-minded interests, and some relatives, usually neither of the two, some are just nodes between relatives. Although the kinship is not a passerby, in fact, in addition to the true blood relationship, other connections are not considered intimate relationships, and blood relatives have their own rights and interests, not to mention between relatives.

If people want to live well, they must first rely on themselves, and then they must be close to these people who can help themselves, and the assistance they say is not only the interest association that can bring to themselves, but also the like-minded association, which is not snobbery, but reality. And a person's willpower is very limited, and kinship can only be put to the end, which is inevitably ignored. Of course, if you have a rich family member or friend who is alienating you, it is because all you have to do now is to improve yourself and become a meaningful person, instead of blaming the other party for being snobbish.

No matter how rich you are, you can't help people who are poor (the three views are inconsistent) There is a saying that says: "When people are poor, they stay up for a while, and their lives are ruined when they are poor." Many people think that if a person has no money, he can't do anything, and he attributes his lack of success to the poor.

But most of the rich people also come from poverty, and most of the materially poor people will make achievements elsewhere, and then walk out of their own way, it is not difficult to see that poverty is not terrible, and it is even more terrible to attribute their unhappiness to poverty.

When a person feels that he is poor, this is the original sin of all unsatisfactory things, and then he will be content to be in the situation. People with poor hearts usually feel that "I am weak and I am reasonable", and they often assess that their poverty is due to the fact that they are competing for online resources by rich people, and they have a widespread mentality of hating the rich, so they feel that their rich relatives and friends should give him assistance. People with poor hearts have always been lenient to themselves and strict with others, they feel that they are poor, so even if they do something wrong, it is forgivable, but they can't tolerate others to be incorrect, such people are usually narrow-minded, have no gratitude, and have no enterprising spirit.

This is because they don't want their poor relatives to climb on top of them, and they don't want to be affected by their poor relatives, so they will alienate these relatives. Because many people will seek your help when they know that you are rich, and they will also climb relatives with you.

It's not that rich people will alienate each other, but they will feel that the other party's cognition and level are different from their own, and there is no need to communicate anymore.

If the circle is different, they will have their own work, and they will be very busy, there is no way to get together, and they are afraid that others will come to climb relatives.