Will you tell your children that boys are white and like skin care, and they are mothers?

No, and shouldn't.

First of all, the word "mother" is an insult to both women and men. What is a "mother"?In the eyes of most people, "Niang" refers to a man with feminine qualities, such as "white" and "like skin care", etc., in addition to "like cute things", "gentle personality" and so on.

However, whether it is a man or a woman, it must be influenced by the social environment to become "male" and "female", which is a vicious circle process. Because you're a girl, how should you be, so many girls really become what they are described, and that stereotype is further deepened, and so many more girls become like this, ......The same goes for boys. No one is born to be what they should be, and they shouldn't be.

It is very likely that liking skin care is just a love of beauty, a love of beauty, everyone has it, and everyone is qualified to live a more exquisite life, which is not a girl's privilege, but the right to be a human being. Of course, if you don't like to dress up, there is no need to blame, because it is only a personal choice. As for whiteness, it's even more bizarre, most of the skin color is given by parents, and it is not something you can decide, and I think it may be a kind of stupidity to deliberately tan yourself for the sake of so-called "manhood".

But again, it's a personal choice.

As a parent, you should help your child to develop a correct view of the sexes. It is true that there are differences between the sexes in some places, but differences do not mean differences. Acknowledging overall differences, but respecting individual characteristics.

Just as girls can learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, and boys can be very good at embroidery, it is not advisable to stifle the possibility of the individual at any time. It is even more undesirable to laugh at others because they are different, or even to educate children in such a prejudiced way. Teaching children what respect and tolerance are is what parents should really do.

Just care about the child's food, clothing, housing and transportation, to say that it is ugly, and it can be done with pets, so what is the difference between raising a child?

Probably in ordinary language.

But in general, this kind of thing is not put on the table, and it is very serious.

It's just that in the process of educating his children, he will definitely input some values that he thinks are more correct.

No, after all, the mother is not only looking at the appearance, and skin care can't say anything, at least paying attention to your appearance is also a kind of respect for people.

There will be a lot of definitions for mothers, and if you just apply a little skin care product, it shouldn't be counted. Behavior is the mother's thing.