Why is it that men are only good to you when they chase you, and when they chase you, they change th

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    100% of boys will give 200% when chasing girls, they will meet all the requirements of girls, and they will cover up their own shortcomings, in fact, this original intention is easy to understand, in order to be able to make girls accept themselves, but the shortcomings of this disguise,After a long time together, it will slowly show its feet, so the girl feels that after the boy chases herself, her attitude has completely changed, but in fact, the attitude has not changed, but it has returned to normal.

    So I think boys should grasp a good degree when they get along with girls' ex-wives. Don't pay blindly, otherwise even if you get this love, it will be very hard, because you set your starting point too high, this is not your true self, you can properly hide your shortcomings in love, but don't be too qualified, otherwise it will not be good.

    For the love thing, sometimes I think that since a person likes you, even all your shortcomings will be accepted, as the so-called love house and Wu is this truth, whether it is a boy or a girl, when getting along, it should be more real.

    If you give the girl the feeling that you have changed your mind, naturally his attitude towards you will also change, so the relationship between the two people will only slowly fade, maybe the reason for the breakup is not some principled mistakes, but because such small frictions always occur.

    In the girl's heart, she feels that you don't care about her anymore, so she breaks up with others. Girls always like to test her place in your heart in a variety of ways, and sometimes this coquettishness is also a manifestation of love, so boys should also have a tolerant heart and understand the starting point of girls, so as to maintain a long-term relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's very simple, because men have a purpose when they pursue you, and they don't really like you or love you, so when they catch up, they start to change.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The reason is that you will only want to be with him if he is good to you when he chases you. In other words, people may be good to you when they don't get it, and they will change when they get it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After the male god chased the girl, he felt gradually indifferent, and the previous intentions were cared for, and the cold and warmth were gone, but not all men are like this, some men are due to the loss of novelty, just like a man who can't see a woman will have more taste is a truth, and after such a man gets everything he wants, they lose their desire to surrender, so they feel gradually indifferent.

    People in this period, who were open-minded and generous in their behavior, were rarely constrained by traditional moral concepts. Especially girls, they break through the shackles and summon all kinds of reciprocal rights! But what kind of mind is actually opened?

    What are the reciprocal rights that women want? I guess they all know it, right?

    If a man and a woman have been together for a long time, and still haven't separated the woman, and gradually indifferent to you at this time, one situation is that he and you are just his temporary plan, he will definitely not be as attentive to you as before chasing you, he will only do some outward work, try to maintain the relationship, and when he finds a better one or feels that he doesn't want to continue, he will give up the relationship!

    When a boy chases a girl, he is fully dedicated, showing his best side, and when he chases, he will not be so devoted, not indifferent, it should be said that his nature has been restored, of course, everyone is different, and it can't be completely mixed up, it depends on the state of practice.

    If a man is sincere to a woman, that is, he wants to marry and live with this woman for a lifetime, and when he starts to chase this woman, he will definitely be very attentive, and then he gradually does not have the same intentions as before, this is not that he is indifferent to you, but he wants to work hard for your future life, and the burden on his body is heavier, at this time, if he still lets you everywhere and spoils you, women should support their men and strive to make your life better. Sometimes caring for you does not necessarily mention which commemorative days are now, and the person who really loves you will feel that his love is everywhere.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because after the boy gets it, he feels that she is already with him, and he may change psychologically, and he thinks that the girl will always follow him, so he will change. That's not what my boyfriend looks like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because the boy doesn't know how to cherish it after chasing him, his girlfriend won't leave him, and my boyfriend is like this, so I want to beat him now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because boys generally have a penchant of liking the new and hating the old, it is also possible that the relationship between the two is not strong in itself, and it is easy for others to break their defenses. My boyfriend doesn't do that, he loves me very much.

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