Why do you break up for the same reason after a breakup?

When they broke up and got back together, they found that the original conflict was still there and could not be resolved. This is one of the main reasons why I've been in the business for so long and see breakups get back together and then break up so quickly.

After reuniting, the couple did not make any changes, and both parties just blindly maintained the image and state of the past when they were together, but did not do self-improvement. This is also very important, love needs freshness. If you blindly maintain the image and state of the past, you will only repeat the mistakes of the past and eventually break up.

In fact, in the final analysis, the reason why you will break up again is that in addition to really not loving you anymore, you are no longer the same person you used to be, and the other is that the problem has not been completely solved, or the symptoms are cured but the root cause is not cured.

Cao Jun and Lan Yingying used to be a fairy couple in the eyes of the public, they worked out together, learned ukulele together, traveled to other countries together, and because of love, they became better people together.

It's the relationship that's so wonderful, the love at the beginning was real, and it's true that I don't love now.

When couples start to fall in love, they are so sweet and happy, and they can't wait to stick together every day.

But as they spend more time together, the more contradictions and quarrels they have with each other, and they feel more and more incompatible.

Immediately after the breakup, he regretted trying to save his other half, and finally got back together with all his efforts, but faced a series of problems.

In fact, after getting back together, there are taboos for couples to get along with each other, if they still don't care, don't care, and don't cherish each other as before, they will repeat the same mistakes after getting back together.

After experiencing this breakup, you should cherish each other more, and if you can't understand each other and tolerate each other after getting back together, you are likely to face another crisis.

Reasons for breaking up again after getting back together:

1.The core issue is not solved:

There are many reasons for the end of the relationship, and each other gradually loses confidence in the relationship because of the accumulation of contradictions, and the core contradiction between the two people has never been resolved.

In the process of reconciling again, the two people did not concentrate on the contradictions accumulated before, and in the process of getting along, the same problems will jump out again, or they cannot be dealt with in an effective way, which will cause the repetition of the past after recombination.

If you want to maintain a good relationship, you must clean up the problems between two people in time and make corresponding changes for each other, otherwise you will lose your beloved again.

Because everyone's personality is difficult to change, or the original two people, if there was a conflict before that led to a breakup, it is impossible to completely change it in the future, and they will break up again because of the previous conflict, to put it bluntly, these two people are not suitable at all.

After the breakup, they will break up for the same reason, it may be that it is really inappropriate for two people to be together, and they can't feel happy, so breaking up is the best choice!

This hurdle is where each other's hearts lie, lingering, planting the seeds of sadness, and neither party will let go.

I don't cherish it, I think it's easy to recover, and the next time I encounter the same thing, I can coax it in the same way.

The core problem has not been solved, and the end of the relationship is caused by many reasons, and each other gradually loses confidence in the relationship because of the accumulation of contradictions, and the core contradiction between the two people has never been resolved.

There are many factors that affect how two people can go on together, when the other person behaves in a way that you can't accept, you will get bored, and when you are really separated, you will miss it. This is probably love.

Because the two of you are destined to never be together, you will break up for whatever reason.

You don't need a reason to break up, it's wrong for someone who doesn't love you to even breathe you, and the so-called reason is just an excuse.

Divide and merge, merge and divide, this is a fixed trend! Let's do things together! It might be better! You will get tired of being together all day long.

Because if the fundamental problem is not solved, it will be compounded and will only repeat the mistakes of the past.

Because the real problem has not been solved, there is already a gap when we break up and say it.

It's like driving a nail into a wooden board and pulling the nail out, but the wound still exists, and if you accidentally touch it, it hurts.

Divide and merge, repeat the mistakes of the past,

There is still a possibility of redemption after a breakup, but this possibility is very small.

Because it is an ex, everyone is likely to be the first love, and they are relatively simple, and because they are simple, they will feel precious. Since it is an ex, everyone is more familiar with and understands, since it can be an ex, it will have its own recognition and appreciation, and it has a certain emotional foundation, which is easy to recover. As the first of the former defeats, they have lived together, met, and have feelings, people are emotional animals, and they are very nostalgic.

After breaking up with your ex, you find out that it was caused by a misunderstanding, and as long as the misunderstanding is made clear, it will generally be understood and tolerated. It is not easy for a person to get to know each other. The reason for the breakup is caused by misunderstanding, not mutual lack of affection, nor incompatibility, why not redeem it.

Redeeming with your ex is not a thing that will not see the light, it is a glorious and natural thing, like a family reunion.

After breaking up with my ex, I found out that it was caused by a misunderstanding, and as a man, you must have a tolerant and generous heart. To take the initiative in the recovery, take the initiative, if you do not do well, there is something wrong, you must recognize your own shortcomings, but also to express your apologies to the other party. Gain the trust of the other party.

After breaking up with your ex, you find out that it is because of a misunderstanding, if your ex has not found the person you like, he is single like himself, and he has not found the right person. It is necessary to pursue boldly, have the courage to express, and tell each other your thoughts and intentions. Let everyone understand and tolerate each other, and put it back together.

Maybe after experiencing misunderstandings and experiencing twists and turns, the feelings will be deeper and longer.

Of course, in life, after breaking up with your ex, you find out that it is caused by a misunderstanding, and there are other reasons, such as your ex's behavior habits, or problems with your way of behaving, and there are also feelings that do not get along, so that you are not satisfied, and you think that there is no need to be together, and you can not redeem it.

After the breakup, if there is still a very friendly communication with each other, and sometimes there will even be a date, then the possibility of two people being able to recover is very high.

If the reason for the breakup is that there is a misunderstanding between the two parties, when both parties talk about it, the possibility of redemption is the greatest, and they will have deeper feelings for each other.

Whether it is for people who have come over or young men and women who are just beginning to fall in love, love is really crazy, it makes people bang against the wall, and in the end it still makes people want to stop and fall into the whirlpool of love. Falling in love is like a cold, those who have been having a high fever get married, and those who have a fever that go away in advance break up. In the end, if you can bring a hand and end your life, it will be complete.

We always emphasize that if you love them, you will get them back, but you know what? Some loves, after they are lost, they no longer need to be recovered, but on the contrary, some loves are indeed worth loving again.

So what kind of love is worth saving? Let's enumerate a few of the features.

1. Two people don't really give up on each other, they both have each other's existence in their hearts

Sometimes, two people will quarrel over some things and eventually lead to a breakup, but two people don't really want to separate in their hearts, just because they are angry and angry or want the other party to compromise, so we are always impulsive and immature to deal with feelings. Even if two people break up in such a relationship, they still expect to continue in their hearts, so to treat such two people, it is completely possible to get rid of face, let go of self-esteem, and communicate well, so that the love of both parties can be saved.

Second, there are common interests and common values

Third, both parties approved by the parents can also be redeemed

Many couples in the process of contact, will let their parents give reference, then the parents' vision is very long-term, and parents can play a very important role in the process of feelings, so if the couple quarrels because of some things, if the parents can play a good role as a bridge, then this kind of emotional two people are extremely easy to save the relationship. Because under the matchmaking of parents, both parties have steps down, and at the same time, the parents of both parties are very recognizant of the couple's feelings, so they will develop better in the process of getting along in the future.

Fourth, the breakup caused by a misunderstanding can be reversed

There are many couples in the process of getting along, a lot of things will happen, sometimes poor communication will also make two people have misunderstandings, so if this situation can be eliminated in time, it can be recovered, because such a relationship itself is not a big problem, but because the communication between the two people is not handled well and there is a breakup. Then, I think that such a couple must think more about the good of the other party, put the problem in lay, and eliminate misunderstandings.

It is a small probability for two people to meet, and it is the most beautiful thing for two people to fall in love. What you meet is providence, and what you have is lucky. Love is a practice, and each love is getting different things or experiences, and finally helping you grow.

Redemption is also about making us a better version of ourselves. At this moment, at the moment, if you are very painful and sad, then be brave enough to redeem her, and if you succeed, then the merit is complete, cherish it.

In short, if your love is any of the above situations, you must be brave enough to redeem it after breaking up, because it is worth it.

Unless the other person still loves you. You can change yourself to be what he wants to be. If you can't solve your core contradictions, such as the gap in values and incompatibility in living habits, the recovery is only temporary, and sooner or later you will be separated again.

After a breakup, review the relationship, every love is a life experience, constantly review to become a better version of yourself, and knowing what kind of life you want is the most important thing.

There may be thousands of reasons for breaking up and redeeming, and the most important thing is whether you still want something in the other person's heart!

Two people break up because of impulsiveness and anger, there is a possibility of redemption, because two people are more impulsive when they quarrel, the decision to break up may not be from the heart, two people still love each other, so there is a possibility of redemption.

Break up because of madness, or because of a misunderstanding. Both parties actually have good feelings for each other, and everyone has not torn their faces. If you don't do anything that hurts each other and makes each other unforgivable, you can get back together.

If you propose to break up after careful consideration, the possibility of redemption is relatively small, and if you propose to break up because of a quarrel and get angry, after calming down, you feel wrong and want to redeem the other party, this possibility is relatively large.

As the saying goes, it is difficult to reunite after a broken mirror, so after a breakup, even if it is redeemed, the relationship may be affected, but if the two parties still have feelings, and both parties are still single, there is also a possibility of redemption.

The lovers said radical things because of the quarrel, which led to the breakup of the two people. In this case, when the two parties are calm, they can still communicate normally. In this case, there is a high possibility that two people will save their love.

If two people fall in love, if they break up because of their own subjective reasons, that is, between two people, there is something dissatisfied and they break up, in this case, it is basically irreparable. If the breakup is due to external reasons, such as the interference of both parents, etc., the situation can be reversed.

If you want to get back together, then you can rationalize all the behaviors of the other party and prescribe the right medicine to promote the recombination. If you don't want to get back together anymore, then there's no need to read too much, isn't it good to give him a period of self-healing, and then welcome each other's new feelings? Breaking up doesn't mean you're not in love.

The first way is to post some sad quotations in the circle of friends every day to express your emotions about the moment, the second is to secretly inquire about your news with mutual friends, indicating that they have a good impression of you, and the third is to look for opportunities to meet you. If there is one of these instructions, it is possible for the two of you to get back together.

After the breakup, if two people have each other in their hearts or there is still a certain connection between the two people, it indicates that there is still a possibility of reunion between the two people, if no one contacts anyone after the breakup, or does not have any feelings for each other, then it is irretrievable.

If after the breakup, both people have a feeling of regret and want to get back together, then in this case, it is completely possible to recover, as long as one person takes the initiative, then it will be much better and smoother.

Since two people have broken up, they may leave because some tempers and real problems cannot be reconciled, or they are separated only because of their tempers, if they are angry, then the temper can be reversed, if it is other problems, even if you want to get it back together day and night, you may not have the feeling you had before.