In reality, who can t have deep friendships, and what kind of people can t have deep friendships?

When people are young, they naturally don't know what is a good person and what is a bad person. It is only with age that people grow up and mature, learning to distinguish between good and bad. When people really grow up, they will find that there are these kinds of people around them who can't be deeply acquainted.

If you have a deep relationship, it will not be good for yourself.

1. Don't get too close to people who are too simple.

There is always a kind of person in life who thinks the other person is very good and unwary when he sees everyone. It's all right to be relaxed with them, but be wary that they may often do bad things with good intentions and expose your private information and secrets. So such a person, just be an ordinary friend, just make a deep friend!

2. People who are not kind.

Another person who is not worthy of association is the person who is not kind. Kindness is the basic of human beings. A person who is not kind, no matter how good he is, it is in vain. From ancient times to the present, kindness has always been a quality admired by people.

You've seen multiple people say a quote about kindness. For example, Hugo said that the quarrel: a good heart is the sun.

Therefore, if you are not a kind person, it is best not to associate with him, and it is not worth having a deep friendship.

3. People who can't keep secrets can't have deep friendships.

Some people's mouths can not only eat, but also say a lot of things that should not be said in the first place. Such people are very annoying. You just tell him a little thing, and he might spread it to the well-known.

There is a word to describe such a person, called "Eight Po". When we say that a person talks a lot and can't keep secrets, we will call him "Ba Po", regardless of whether he is male or female.

For those who can keep secrets, it is worth associating, and he will not give away your ancestors for eighteen generations. Really, when it comes to choosing people with deep friendships, people who can't keep secrets will only hurt you, not be friendly. So such a person is not worthy of deep friendship.

Fourth, people who are not trustworthy naturally cannot have deep friendships.

Borrowing money can judge a person's character. There is borrowing and repaying, it is not difficult to borrow again, some people really forget, you remind you to pay you back; But some people try to find a reason, and they want to say that you are calculating. Such a person will definitely drop the chain on important things in the future and drag you down!

Fifth, people who are reasonable and don't let people know, don't have deep friendships.

Everything likes to compete for high and low, leaving no room for others, this kind of unmeasured person must have offended many people, once he walked in with him, he would inevitably be implicated.

In a sea of thousands of people, we will meet many people, but there are always some people who cannot be deeply acquainted, and can only be regarded as nodding friends. When we meet people who are not genuine to us and just want to get some benefit from us, stay away early.

In fact, when interacting with others, only by understanding and tolerating each other, can the two go longer and farther.

When people really grow up, they will find that they can't have deep friendships with these kinds of people around them. If you have a deep relationship, it will not be good for yourself.

1. People who often have disputes in public cannot have deep friendships. Because these people's emotional intelligence is too low, they are very likely to have conflicts if they have too deep a relationship.

2. People who always like to pretend to be stupid and use an attitude that they don't understand to obtain benefits are often thoughtful. When encountering this kind of person, you must keep your distance, otherwise you will be pitted very miserably.

3. No matter what a person sees, he will sour two sentences first, which proves that his life has been unsatisfactory.

4. Be wary of people who are very enthusiastic about you when you meet for the first time, such people either have ulterior motives or are particularly lonely.

The former is to quickly gain your trust and set out valuable information; The latter is to get new friends, satisfy his desire to confide, and use it as a trash can for his emotions.

5. People with too sweet mouths can't have deep friendships. Because they are too familiar with human nature, they know too well how to use human nature.

6. People with different views can't have deep friendships.

When you feel that there are all kinds of conflicts with the people around you, the problem is not necessarily you, but that you have different views from them.

I had a graduate student who went to a factory after graduation and had all kinds of disagreements with his colleagues, but since he switched jobs to a listed company, nothing like this has happened.

7. People who say that good brothers don't talk about money, and that talking about money hurts their feelings actually cares about money the most;

Saying that I will never let my good brother suffer is that he likes to take advantage of him the most.

People who settle accounts clearly at the beginning are most comfortable working together.

8. The worse the mix, the more they like to hurt their loved ones. Incompetent parents blame their children, and incompetent husbands hurt their wives. Because they don't have the strength to stand up to their superiors.

In fact, a person does not need to grow up, and in the future, even when we are teenagers, we can find out what kind of people are not allowed to socialize, especially not to have particularly close contacts, just get by on the surface.

I'm about to get old now. Based on my experience over the years, I don't think the following people should be deeply acquainted.

First, there are those who tell lies. This kind of person is a set in front of him, behind a good auspicious set, laughing with you in person, but scolding you behind his back, in fact, he has no truth, this kind of person if you sincerely associate with him, he will sell you, and even pit you behind your back to harm you, so, in real life, meet those who often tell lies, must stay away from them, try not to have any contact with them.

The second type of people are those who are less powerful. These people are often close to whoever is useful, and who is useless, he will turn you away. It is a kind of egoist who harms others and benefits himself.

The principle of their conduct in the world is to benefit themselves. You are useful, he slaps horses with you, greedy words and flattery, you use it, he is nothing you said before the fiber. Therefore, we must stay away from these villains and get close to those who are honest and kind.

The third type of people, that is, those who love to be greedy for small gains, cannot have deep friendships. We often say that greedy for small and cheap suffer big losses, and what we say is not false at all. People who are greedy for small and cheap people often value money very seriously and take love very lightly, so once it comes to the issue of interests, he will damage the interests of others in order to get more benefits for himself.

The fourth type of person is those who do not honor their parents. Our parents have given us life, and each of us should first honor our parents, and filial piety is the first principle. If he doesn't even honor the parents who gave birth to him and raised him, who will he be good to? Therefore, such a person is even more incompatible.

So in our real life, we should recognize everyone around us and don't make the wrong friends.

Be sure to read it, and by the way you can also avoid lightning.

1. Fine. We ordinary people chat and communicate, and this kind of person chats to death as soon as they come up, and you are speechless. He was so angry that he didn't want to argue, and he didn't realize that what he said was wrong, did he think that communicating with such a person would really save ten years.

2. People who don't stop reasoning.

Obviously it is you who confides, but you haven't finished speaking, but it has become his small class, and the terrible thing about him is that the other party is doing good for you, but ignoring the other party's desire to express the emotions and feelings of the moment.

3. People who subconsciously deny others.

Always accusing others of their mistakes, and you are always the right person, you must stay away, this kind of person must be better than you in words, and you are not willing to admit that others have done better than him.

4. People who keep complaining.

The way of thinking is single, the negative emotions are great, and he is always entangled in some worthless and trivial things.

5. People who lack long-term self-control.

If you want to succeed, you have to put in a lot of effort.

6. People who satisfy their desire for control.

Everything is good for you, as long as you don't listen to me, it's your bad.

7. People who are overly sensitive.

This kind of person is an emotional consumable, a glass heart, and it is not easy to stay together for a long time.

8. Always self-acquainted.

In the process of getting along with people, it is inevitable that there will be a collision of interests, this collision of interests is very normal, but it is precisely at this time that a bend of personal character will be easily exposed, as long as it is a person who takes interests as the first, the first thing they will think about when they encounter something is whether this matter is worth his such a pay, and whether they can obtain benefits in this matter.

Anyone who only thinks about himself, such a person may part ways with you when you stand opposite his interests, and such a friend staying by his side will only be a hidden disaster. Therefore, such people cannot be deeply acquainted.

Between friends, you must be sincere, make friends must understand what kind of person the other party is, when you grow up, you will find that people with incompatible personalities and people with different appearances are not able to make deep friends.

Clause. 1. People with incompatible personalities.

There is a saying called "like-mindedness" or "seeing each other late", in fact, it means that there must be certain commonalities between people, and these commonalities are the things that can really glue everyone together. There may not be a common hobby between two people.

There may not be a common pursuit, but if two people have similar personalities, they may be able to become good friends.

Because people are always willing to be friends with people who are similar to themselves.

Clause. Second, people who are different from the outside.

Although we often say that we don't stretch out our hands and don't hit smiling people, we still have to be cautious when we really meet people who smile when we see everyone in life. Many people think that people who love to laugh must have a good personality......But everyone has their own preferences.

If a person greets anyone with a smile when he sees anything, it means that he doesn't take anyone to heart, so he can treat everyone politely. Usually it's okay, but if you ask this kind of person for help in a situation, they will politely refuse. What's even more terrifying is that many people like this can't see their thoughts clearly, so there are quite a few people who are stabbed in the back by such people.

Clause. 3. Persons with conflicts of interest.

The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. Many people have ...... friends as adultsThere is a certain exchange of interests buried in it.

Sometimes, when there is a common interest, everyone is a good friend, but when there is a conflict of interest, all the relationships established because of interests will fall apart.