After 7 years of marriage, my savings have been squeezed out by my husband, but he still blindly ask

It is said that what kind of man you are with will have what kind of life. It is important to choose a person in life, and he will directly affect your happiness for the rest of your life. In the matter of feelings, we should be cautious, learn to distinguish a person, see the essence of a person, so as not to be hurt.

Getting along with people may start with appearance and talent, but in the end it is loyal to character. If a person's character is not good, no matter how much he loves, he must learn to give up, otherwise he will only be hurt. Therefore, when you get along with a man and he has this desire for you, the character is not good, and you must learn to stay away.

1.Write a statement.

Make it clear that all the loans he borrowed outside have nothing to do with your family, his money is not used for your family expenses, and his credit card has nothing to do with you. These things must be made clear in this statement. Otherwise, even if you get divorced, these loans will have to find you.

If you count these loans of his into your past marital debts.

Among them, that's bad for you and your child.

2.Refuse to forbear.

Forbearance may make the problem worse, there is no love for no reason in the world, there is no hate for no reason, if a person always treats his lover's contribution with such an unfair attitude, his lover will one day burn all his love, will lose all his patience, and will leave him without nostalgia, then what awaits him will be a very sad ending. However, we should also note that the reason why this husband has become what he is now has a lot to do with his wife's blind forbearance. Because she is unable to go out to work and cannot create financial benefits for the family, the wife naturally puts herself in a lower position and even accepts many unreasonable demands from her husband unconditionally.

This invisibly magnifies the husband's "appetite", fuels his temper, and makes the marital relationship develop in the direction of becoming more and more unequal.

3.Explain the stakes to your husband.

There was once a young couple, and after marriage, the two quarreled a lot over the issue of economic power. After a long time, the husband had no choice but to hand over all the economic power to his wife. But the husband himself was not convinced, so he secretly bought a car behind his wife's back.

When the wife found out, she had a big fight with her husband. thinks that it is disrespectful to her husband to buy a car and not tell her, so she wants to divorce. The husband is also angry and hateful about this, but he feels that it is impossible to divorce because of this matter.

Later, the wife calmed down and took her husband to the café where they used to go on a date when they used to be in love, and talked there every day for a month. The husband was very moved and understood that his wife was in charge of money for her own good.

I think you can divorce your husband and ask him to repay all his losses, and if it really can't be done, then you can sue the other party directly.

I think you should choose divorce, because you have lost enough, and there is no use in being together, and divorce is also the best option.

At this time, you should tell your husband that the two of them are married, so they should pay together when facing expenses, and you also need to let your husband develop a habit of saving money.