What should I do if my child is crying at home?

When a child cries at home, it depends on how old the child is and the reason for the distress.

Just like my baby, he is only a few months old, and it is normal to cry every day when he is at home, so we have to find out the reason for his crying.

Small month old baby, especially this kind of self-expression can not speak, his crying is nothing more than a few reasons, one is hungry, then we feed him in time, there is urine or pull uncomfortable, need to change his diaper or diaper, there is a kind of sleepy, then parents to sleep on it, there is the need for parents to comfort you can hug a hug coax or play with him, the needs of children are easy to meet the basic in several. Of course, there is also a reason for distress that may be that he is not feeling well, so parents need to be more careful to observe what abnormalities the child has recently. Eliminate the possibility of your child's physical discomfort in a timely manner.

If the child's request is very unreasonable, we can find a way to persuade him to refuse his request, but if the child's statement and ideas are reasonable, then we can also meet it.

Treat children more or have more patience, especially small months old babies they have no way to speak and will not express, all rely on parents to guess, for older children they can express will be better, then parents should be more focused on taking care of children.

1. Parents should understand that the child is making a lot of noise because he is not satisfied, and if you satisfy him at this time, he will think that he can get what he wants, so it is not recommended to do so.

2. First of all, tell him quietly and firmly that making loud noises in public places is uncivilized behavior and is not right, and if he can correct it immediately, he will consider agreeing to his request when he returns home.

3. If he still doesn't give up, don't reprimand him in front of many people, although the child is young, he also has self-esteem. You can turn around and go, pretending to go, and then the little one will come after you crying, and then cry and go home with you.

When you get home, take the child into the bedroom, close the door, if the child is still crying, don't say anything to him, continue to let him cry, you do other things in the room and ignore him, the child is tired of crying, and when you see that you have been ignoring him, it will naturally stop.

5. Finally, you wait for him to calm down, and then patiently reason with him. Reasoning is from three aspects, first, let children understand what a public place is. Second, it is uncivilized to make a lot of noise in a public place, and thirdly, crying will not solve the problem, and you can discuss something slowly.

1. Let children learn to express, such as buying some reading materials, so that they can understand that they can speak, and can express their emotions, so that they can effectively vent their negative emotions, instead of using throwing things, hitting people, and getting angry to vent their anger, complaints, and dissatisfaction. After expressing emotions, others can understand his thoughts more directly, so that emotional communication can be achieved;

2. Parents must have more trust and tolerance for their children, give warmth and empathy, when they are short-tempered, they are also hurt by emotional instability, so they should also understand that they may lack the skills to express emotions, or the nervous system is not mature, the younger the child will be more likely to be short-tempered, at this time they must be given stable encouragement, love, and positive attention, so that they can establish a very stable attachment relationship, so that they can gradually reduce the problem of temper short-tempered;

3. Be more tolerant of grumpy, and be friends with them, communicate with them with equality and respect, so as to establish a very good relationship or friendship, only by establishing a very good relationship with them, can you influence the child, or let them understand that grumpy does not solve the problem, and grumpy will hurt the relationship with parents, as well as hurt the relationship with other children, so that they will slowly learn to grow, learn to express their emotions very accurately, and reduce the appearance of grumpy.

The best way to deal with a child who is crying outside is to deal with it in a combination of stubborn and reasonable. Here are some suggestions:

If your child's crying is due to unreasonableness, cheating or the pursuit of special treatment, you can take a moderate approach to the scene. Stand your ground and make it clear to your child that their behavior is unacceptable.

Listen to your child's feelings: Although your child may have difficulty thinking rationally when emotional, try to listen to their feelings. This does not mean that you have to give in completely to their demands, but rather show understanding and concern.

Provide reasonable explanations: When reasoning with your child, explain in a simple and clear way why their behavior is inappropriate and explain the consequences. Help them understand your decision by providing reasonable explanations.

Set boundaries and rules: Children need clear boundaries and rules to guide their behavior. Let your child know that crying does not change the facts, but rather that it is addressed through appropriate behavior and communication.

Seek compromise: In some cases, compromise is an effective way to resolve conflicts. If the situation allows, you can work with your child to find a mutually acceptable solution.

The most important thing is to be patient and respectful when communicating with your child. Every child has a different personality and needs, and methods and strategies are appropriately adapted to promote positive behavior and development.

1.Pretend to ignore it.

When children cry and make fuss, they basically don't know what they are doing, and their emotions at this time are controlled by the cerebral cortex, which is also the place where decisions and judgments are made, so reasoning with children at this time often does not work. Just as you can't teach your child to swim when he's choking, you can't stop him from doing anything when he's throwing a tantrum. And when he's done crying, you can start reasoning with him.

2.Give your child a little space.

Sometimes your child needs to vent his emotions, you should give him space to vent, and you need to be mindful that the way he vents is not harmful to himself or others. Giving them space to vent their emotions will not only allow them to express their emotions, but it will also help them learn to control themselves and not to quarrel with you.

3.Distract him.

This is a method of mental transfer, you can use other things or toys to attract his interest, so that he can forget the reason for his tantrum and crying after several rounds. If you are in the supermarket and your child is crying and refusing to leave to buy a toy, you can say to him, "We're going to buy ice cream, can you help mom choose a flavor?"

Wait. Because children have a very short attention span, this means that they are easily distracted.

4.Find out why.

Since children between the ages of one and three do not have many words, about fifty or so, their communication with others is limited, but they still have a lot of needs and desires to be satisfied, so they lose their temper when they feel that other people are not receiving their messages. One way to do this is to communicate with him through body language such as sign language, or you can use your child's body language to understand and understand their needs.

5.Hug. This may be the last thing you want to do when your baby is crying, but it can help calm your child down.

Hugging makes your child feel safe and they feel that you love him, even if you don't agree with him right now.

6.Give him food or coax him to sleep.

Tiredness and hunger are usually the most likely to make your baby cry, and you just need to imagine how irritable you are when you feel low or sleepy, and you will be able to understand how your child feels. All you need to do is give them food and then put them to sleep, the younger the child and believe that the greater their need for food and sleep, the more effective this method will be.

If the child always cries when he goes out, it has something to do with the child's personality and the unsuitable for unfamiliar places, usually pay attention to take the child out to play, which is conducive to gradually improving the situation, and at the same time let him go to the kindergarten school where the children are more likely to walk around, so that he can get in touch with new things and children of different ages learn some self-regulation ability, Shiwang is conducive to improving the generation of these bad habits. 1. Understand the reasons for children's tantrums, children don't have so many tempers, their tempers are emotional problems, crying search for children because they have a purpose, they can't get their own things, they want to use crying to solve it. For example, when you go to the mall, your child wants to buy a car, and you think that there are already many similar toys at home and you don't agree, he will cry and make trouble until you compromise.

At this time, you must stand firm and stick to your principles. At the beginning, he said that he couldn't buy it, and he must not agree to this matter because he lost his temper, and once he rented it, the child would feel that "if you lose your temper, you can get what I want, then I will do it next time", forming a vicious circle. You can first take your child to a less crowded place to divert his attention, and then try to communicate with him. If you can't communicate, treat your child coldly first, and let him vent his emotions appropriately; If you are close to home, you can also bring your child home.

2. Take the child back to the room, let him cry, and vent his dissatisfaction. When the child is crying, you can accompany him and watch him vent his emotions quietly, at this time you must not beat and scold the child, and do not lecture him, because when the child is emotional, your "truth" is noise to him.

3. When the child is tired and stops crying, you have to immediately take a hot towel to wipe his face and hug him, so that he can feel that "although my mother does not agree to my request, she still loves me". At this time, you have to strike while the iron is hot and communicate with the child immediately afterwards.

Seeing the child crying outside, of course, he was taken away and reasonable.

Some people think that if the child is crying outside and resists the parents as much as possible, the parents should let him cry to the end, give him some majesty, and make him obey.

Don't think that children are very young, they can't understand some truths, you should tell them some truths that children can understand from an early age, so that they can understand in their hearts that their parents are willing to reason with them kindly, and they are also willing to tolerate them to make mistakes, just don't let children form the habit of sprinkling and rolling. , kidnapping the emotions of parents.

Especially in the case of a large number of people, if the child blindly cries and does not stop, it will also let others see some jokes, parents should quickly take the child away, and calm the child's emotions in some promotion places or private places.

To appease the child's emotions is not to admit that the child is unreasonable is correct, to let him know that he has made a mistake, we must correct Hu Zhengyuan's mistake, parents must first express their own point of view, that is, there is a mistake, we must correct it. If you rely on crying, you can't solve the problem. There are some issues of principle in family education that parents cannot compromise.

What should be punished must be punished.

Parents not only express their love for their children, but also set some rules for their children, telling them what to do and what not to do. It's not that just because he's a child, adults just indulge him to cry, no matter what.

When children cry outside, it may be because they are feeling frustrated, nervous, angry, or lost and cannot express them. As parents, we should take some appropriate measures to deal with this situation.

First of all, we should try to understand the child's emotions as much as possible and try to connect with them. We can communicate with our children in a gentle tone, ask them why they are crying, or tell them that we understand their feelings and encourage them to express their feelings.

If the child is very emotional, we can try to pick them up and soothe them. We can tell the child that we know he is having a hard time, but we will get through this together.

If the child's crying lasts for a long time, we can take them away from the scene and go to a quieter place to calm them down. During this process, we need to stay calm and do not lose our temper or reprimand the child in a harsh tone.

In short, we should take appropriate measures to deal with the child's crying according to the child's situation and needs. In the process of dealing with children's emotional problems, we should pay attention to children's feelings and give them warmth and understanding as much as possible.