A girl treats others generously, neither humble nor arrogant, can it show that she has a high emotio

That must be a very high level of emotional intelligence. No matter what the three or six or nine are, where do the dreams come from? Maybe sometimes we seem small in front of our dreams, but that doesn't mean it's humble, it just shows that it's far away from us.

As long as you work hard, you can get closer to your dreams. A stumbling trip, how can you live beautifully with endless bruises, don't be intimidated by having a distant dream, boldly pursue it, and don't care about the world's eyes. As long as you have worked hard and paid, you will have no regrets.

If we are unfortunate enough to pass by our dreams, don't be afraid, maybe we just happen to achieve another self? This is not a bad thing. As long as we have dreams, we will not hesitate.

Dreams, sometimes very close, sometimes very far away. However, I firmly believe that people with dreams will never waste their lives in vain. Only by chasing can we catch the meteor, only by climbing can we conquer the dome, and only by dreaming can we go through hardships and finally become omnipotent.

So, no matter what happens, remember to always give yourself a dream, even if it's out of reach. Dreams are the beacon that never goes out at night, guiding the direction of life for the lost; Dream is an indomitable and iron-clad belief that supports us to move forward bravely and never give up. Dreams are like the sunrise on the top of a mountain, as long as you climb hard, you can reach the sunshine with your hand; Dreams, like flowers in a fantasy world, are ethereal, if they are youthful, revealing a strong sense of poetry and painting; Youth, exuding a faint fragrance and affection.

Youth is full of youthful frivolity, infinite vitality, and beauty and self-confidence. The pace of youth will not be sleepy. Youth is like a flood, and it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves without encountering islands and reefs.

The melody of youth will not be hindered by wind and rain. Youth is sunshine and a sign of self-confidence; Youth is the moonlight, the representative of elegance; Youth is the starlight, and it is the pioneer who leads the fashion. Let us raise the corners of youth, set sail, and let us meet the melody with our dreams.

A girl is generous and decent, which does not mean that she has high emotional intelligence.

Because this is the most basic requirement, there is no emotional intelligence at all.

I believe that emotional intelligence is the ability to see the wind and steer, to know what is in the hearts of others, to be able to empathize, to be able to persuade others, and to achieve one's own ambitions.

It shows that such a woman is very confident and wise. Emotional intelligence is definitely high as well. It is also related to her experience and social experience.

A girl treats others generously, neither humble nor arrogant, which shows that his emotional intelligence is still relatively high, and he is also more confident.

Of course, it can show that this person has a high emotional intelligence, and a girl can do it to this extent, which shows that she is very confident in herself, and she knows how to deal with people very well, at least this girl can know how to advance and retreat, and understand the rules. You must know that girls nowadays are the pearls of the family, and it is already difficult to treat others without being humble or arrogant.

Such a girl. It shows that his tutoring literacy is very good, and it also reflects that his emotional intelligence is also relatively high.

It can be explained, at least it shows that this person is very outgoing and cheerful, does not twist, and will be very comfortable with such a person and will not feel tired.

If a girl is very smart and knowledgeable, it still doesn't mean that she has high emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is generally manifested in dealing with people.

A girl who is neither humble nor arrogant, knows how to measure etiquette, treats people and things generously, understands proportion, knows how to advance and retreat, and is indeed extremely smart.

It's a smart show. 不平不不超 is a Chinese idiom, pinyin bù bēi bú kàng, which describes people who speak and act in a proper manner.

It's terrifyingly smart, and only a very small number of human elites can do it well.

Not being humble or arrogant does not mean that it is smart, it can only be said to be a personal character, so that girls are actually very good, but you have to look at the key person.

Yes. This is the best performance of girls, self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-improvement, reasonable, advantageous and modest.

This, not to say smart or not, but at least her values are correct.

I can't judge whether I'm smart or not, I can only say that I have a good personality and I'm really helping you look forward to it

Everything is going well, and the place I want to see is to say your Weibo because we don't want it.

Young, but steady and indifferent, neither humble nor arrogant, such a person has a high emotional intelligence, of course, he is a very rational person, but the rational one is too afraid of people, and he is also a very special person, I hope to adopt.

Well, yes . Things should be done maturely and steadily. Yes.

It can be reflected through the word "Rong", Rong, including tolerant, inclusive, high emotional intelligence of women, women have obvious tolerance and tolerance of people and things, treat people and things with generous performance, do not care, sunny and enthusiastic personality, good at communicating with people, never hurt people, will make people feel that the communication is very smooth and harmonious.

It can be reflected through a letter, letter is self-confidence, women with high emotional intelligence are very confident, because her emotional intelligence is high, so she does a very good job of dealing with people, there will be no loopholes, can grasp the proportion, express appropriately, the whole person is full of self-confidence.

It can be seen through the word heart that they are very attentive in everything they do in life, and many times they will do their best to do it, and they often have a normal heart.

Listen, trust. A woman with high emotional intelligence, she has the trait of listening is one, trust is another. She will listen to you carefully, be a qualified listener, and you can trust her completely. How many women can do this?

It is reflected in this one word. "Say", women with high emotional intelligence are especially good at talking, and they can coax others very happily in just a few words.

The characteristics of girls with high emotional intelligence can be reflected through the word wisdom, that is, they are very wise, and many times they will look at other people's faces.

Able to say things that others are happy about, not to say bad things about others in public, not to say things about the past, to care about other people's feelings, to see other people's facial reactions, and then to ask questions.

It is very good to get along with others, to speak in a measured manner, to be very popular, to be very polite, not to be careful, to respect others, and to have a certain sense of self.

Emotionally stable, particularly empathetic, very considerate, when communicating with others, he will also think about others, will not say ambiguous words, and is very smart.

It can solve problems very well, be very calm when encountering things, resolve embarrassment very well, adjust the atmosphere, make the atmosphere very comfortable, and help others get rid of the embarrassing atmosphere.

Pay attention to the advantages of others, often praise others, can solve problems reasonably, do not have a head-on conflict with others, and can handle their emotions well.

In the eyes of many people, speaking is nothing more than a matter of moving the skin of the mouth, and it is not worth deliberately learning at all. They often have a misconception that they regard their open-mouthedness and low emotional intelligence in interpersonal communication as a representative of outspokenness and frankness. Especially for a woman, it is really important whether she can speak, this is a necessary skill for women, to master the art of speaking.

Those women who speak with high emotional intelligence are like an interesting book, and they are wiser and more attractive than ordinary women. When they speak, they tend to behave in the following ways:

1.Speak in a measured manner, to the point.

Women with high emotional intelligence will speak in a measured manner, and they will stop at the point. As the saying goes, a master does things, does seven points, leaves three points of leeway, and the same is true for speaking. A woman with high emotional intelligence does not talk at length, leaving the interlocutor unable to digest, which is respect for the person and leaves room for thought.

At the same time, it will not be full of words, there are no absolutes in the world, everything is developing and changing, and it is more serious and responsible to leave three points of leeway. Speak first with the heart, then with the brain, and finally with the expression. It is best to speak in a good way when a woman speaks, don't be too conceited, and don't say too absolutely.

2.will praise others.

Women with high emotional intelligence who know how to praise are very popular wherever they go, and they will be good at digging out the good in others to generate happiness for each other. They are good at complimenting others, and this praise is sincere from the heart. People who see the advantages of others will make progress faster, and people who always pick on the shortcomings of others will be complacent and sluggish.

Praise should be appropriate, and everyone wants their ideas and preferences to be supported.

3.Gentle and not mean.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will try to be as gentle as possible when talking to family or friends, and will not say particularly hurtful things. Because she knows that there is an old saying that is very true, "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is hurtful and cold in June." Manage your emotions and don't say hurtful things, so that your family, friends, and yourself will have more opportunities to be happy and happy.

Wouldn't it be uncomfortable for friends and family to be with those who speak harshly and hurt people everywhere.

4.Good listener and respectful.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will not only speak, but also listen. Listening is a sign of respect for others, listening is the premise of better communication, and listening is the best kind of communication between people. Don't interrupt someone until you've finished listening to her.

Only by being good at listening can we fully understand the consciousness of others and communicate better with others. Women with high quality and high emotional intelligence have a feeling of respect when talking to them.

A woman who is extremely good at talking must be a woman with high emotional intelligence. A woman with high emotional intelligence spits lotus flowers in her mouth, and a woman who can't speak is in trouble. Speaking is not only a skill, but also an art.

So we look at whether a woman's emotional intelligence is high, it is enough to listen to her say a few words, and the above accounts for more than two points, indicating that this woman is a woman with high emotional intelligence.

To judge whether a woman's emotional intelligence is high, you can see whether she stands out by belittling others, whether she pays attention to her attitude and tone of speech, and whether she can speak in a moderate manner without exceeding her personal identity.

Low EQ Speaking 1: Demeaning others to highlight yourself. In class reunions, it is common to see such a type of women with low emotional intelligence, who compare each other from different material aspects and belittle each other to the fullest, so as to improve their status.

For example, whether the house is big, whether the car is good, whether there is a lot of money, whether the job is good, whether there is a position and power, etc. This kind of woman, who completely ignores the feelings of others, offends everyone in order to highlight herself and show her superiority. This kind of person is a proper woman with low emotional intelligence.

On the other hand, if you can face the belittlement of others without being humble or arrogant, even if you are framed and rejected by others, you can calmly talk to each other, then you have high emotional intelligence.

Low EQ speaking 2, speaking attitude and bad tone. Many times, when we communicate, we are not only expressing the content of what we say, but also the tone and attitude we show when we communicate, which will also affect the evaluation of others and the effect of communication. People with low emotional intelligence, even if they care about each other, but they don't pay attention to the tone and attitude when they express themselves, resulting in clearly saying words of concern, but they are very harsh to listen to, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.

As long as you can pay more attention, don't use a bitter attitude, a vicious tone, and an offensive language to speak, maybe there won't be so many contradictions and conflicts. However, it is a pity that this kind of person often relies on "I am for your good", and always feels that he has done nothing wrong, and it is impossible to change his words and deeds ......If you reason with the other party, she can still make you speechless in a nonsense way......And a woman with high emotional intelligence, even if she is criticizing you euphemistically, you feel acceptable and ...... listen

Low EQ speaks 3, speaks excessively, and exceeds personal identity. Everyone has their own way of life and their own attitude towards behavior. There are some people who like to point fingers at other people's lives.

For example, when others say what their children have achieved, people with high emotional intelligence will agree and praise them in a timely manner, while people with low emotional intelligence will say that this is nothing, whose children are more powerful, and directly pour cold water on the scene to stir up the ......Like a girl showing a gift prepared by her boyfriend, a person with low emotional intelligence directly ......breaks the girl's happiness with "diamond rings less than 1 carat are worthless diamonds".

People with high emotional intelligence can often distinguish what the other party wants to express and what kind of needs they want to show, communicate in their own words, meet the needs of the other party, and make the communication more harmonious and harmonious. But people with low emotional intelligence speak without thinking about it, and they don't consider the reality of the other party, they can say whatever they want, and they don't know it when they offend people, and they often say it to death after they open ......their mouths, so that they can't talk anymore

"High EQ can directly highlight that this woman has a good character and personality, not only can she live a good life, but also can make her friends feel comfortable and at ease. ”