How to tell if a guy likes him or not by chatting

As a boy, how can you tell if a girl likes you?

Judgment is based on observation, so I think careful observation is an important part. In fact, whether a girl likes herself or not should be able to feel it. I'm guessing you've gotten caught up in such a judgment dilemma.

You're a boy, so if you want to know the answer, you must take the initiative to test her. For example, a mutual friend party invites her; Invite her to lunch; "Chance encounter" on the road to see if she will be pleasantly surprised; or wait for her on the way to self-study, walk with her for a while, send her back to the dormitory, and see if she refuses; Give a gift for birthdays or holidays; Talk to her girlfriend or roommate to find out if you have been shortlisted for the circle of people who are in her attention, and will you be talked about; When she is in trouble, take action in time to see if she is willing to accept your help; Send a text message, or say hello on QQ, and see if she will get back to you; Pretend that you are in trouble and ask her for help to see if she will help you; ......There are a lot of methods, and I think yours must be more creative than mine. This is just the first step, and it is necessary to build a relationship first.

Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, except for brave girls who really like it too much or have more personality. So, remember that you have to be proactive. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away.

If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal, don't be discouraged. Rome wasn't built in a day, so be sure to stick to it and be prepared for several round trips. When any girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated.

She may be happy, but with a little trepidation, she may not be sincere, it's just that she's not ready to date you, so give her a little space. Maybe you confess two more times, and she will be moved by you.

If you get a setback and conclude that she doesn't like you, you may regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe she's also regretting her insincerity. She regrets turning you down, but she can't ask you to come back after her.

Isn't that a bit of a stretch? What I want to express is that there are many ways to test whether she likes you, observation is more important than method, and the most important thing is that judgment cannot be made easily, and when there is a lot of evidence that she doesn't like you, you must stick to it, because sometimes a girl's heart is difficult to figure out. Remember, it takes a lot of probing before you can draw a cautious conclusion.

Chatting with the boy, he replied promptly. Always say something happy. Have a good chat! The chat time is relatively long, day and night. That's like you!

To determine whether a boy likes him or not through chatting, you can talk to him about some emotional issues, and then look at some of his views and some of the opinions of the object he likes, as well as who he likes, you can ask him.

Take the initiative to chat with you, follow you, love you, spoil you, and care for you.

1. The reply is short and perfunctoryIf a guy wants to chat with you, he will definitely say a lot when he replies to you, for fear of a cold situation, of course, the guy who doesn't want to chat with you will definitely want to end the topic quickly, if you find that his reply is both short and perfunctory, you can basically be sure that he doesn't want to talk to you, such as replying to "hehe", "oh" or "okay" and other words without too much emotion, it is a precursor to his end.

2. Don't be distracted by chattingIn the process of chatting, if one person is not distracted, the other person can feel it, for example, when you chat with a boy, the boy always replies to you with words such as "awesome", "666" and "can", which means that he is sending you away, not from the heart at all, at this time the girl should know that he doesn't want to talk to you, and it makes no sense for the two to talk again.

3. It's so lateWhen a guy is chatting with you, the phrase "it's so late" appears, he is hinting that you are ending the chat, maybe the boy is going to rest, and he may need to do other things, so when a girl hears this sentence, she should be a little more interesting, if you just want to chat with him, it will only bore him.

That's definitely what you like.,You say three or five sentences to him.,Endless.。。。

The third situation: every time I chat with you, there are always endless topics to talk about, and every chat seems to have no intention of ending. Guys who like you are always able to create topics to chat with you, and when you don't want to talk, they will also liven up the conversation by telling jokes and other ways.

As long as the boy behaves like this during the chat, it means that the boy likes you.

So based on the above situation, it seems that for a boy who likes himself, we can easily see from the chat history; It's just that many times I can't believe it, and this is what we often call the authorities.

See if this guy often takes the initiative to chat with you, generally if he likes you, most boys will take the initiative, unless he is very sullen.

Through the chat history, it is actually more difficult to judge whether a boy likes you, and some boys will say some things that girls like, so it is difficult to judge.

It's just that you will consciously or unconsciously inquire about what you are doing now, and then who you are talking to. After all, not all boys care about this state.

You can look at the tone of his speech, the speed of replying to your messages, whether he takes your messages seriously, and whether he takes your words to heart.

If he often uses some ambiguous words, or from time to time he says something earthy to you. Then there is a good chance that I will fall in love with you.

1.The last word of the day was sent by him.

Maybe the two of you are happily chatting on your phone until late at night, and there is always something you want to say to each other. Even if you are tired, you are sleepy, and you want to sleep, you are reluctant to tell him, and you are still rubbing your eyes and holding on. The topic continues, and you finally find out one day that the end of your chat every day is the last message he sent.

2.Look at how often he chats with you.

You can't hide what you like someone, even if you don't take the initiative to say it, you will show it in small details.

Just like when I was a child, I was always ashamed to take the initiative to say that I had a good impression of someone, but there was always someone waiting for you to get out of school and go to school, even if I had to accompany you home, and I always found you in a different way, saying that I wanted to do my homework with you.

Actually, you both know that this is what it feels like to like someone, and you don't say it easily, but except for your relatives, you just want to play with you, just because you are you.

So, be nice to the guy who wants to talk to you at every turn, even if he doesn't really like you, but at least he won't get bored with you.

will take the initiative to find a topic, and have nothing to say.

If you don't reply in time, you'll explain what you're doing.

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will tell the other party that he is sleeping, and if he is not very familiar, he will say that he is asleep, and if he is a little more familiar, he will say good night.

Will pretend to show the good side of himself inadvertently in the chat.

If you are a little familiar, you will be coquettish, and if you are not very familiar, you may make an appropriate request.

Cooked words will say something that will make you jealous.

Hi, I'm here.

Don't worry, I'll take your questions seriously. Please wait and give me some time to help you think of a solution

How to know if a guy likes himself'

A few tips to share with you

1.Behavior, when a boy likes to get attention in front of you, he is very high-profile in order to get your attention, or silently shows favor.

2.Positive attention, for example, noticing your clothing and mood changes, will be the first to notice and give you some caring greetings.

3.Be bold and say that you can give the other person some hints and see the other person's response, not necessarily a confession or a hint confession, as long as a few small gestures.

4.Physical contact, boys will deliberately create physical contact when facing the girl they like, such as crossing the street or taking the subway to protect you behind them, and will like to laugh and play with you.

5.Create intimacy, in the emotional relationship, both parties will want to create opportunities to be alone, whether there is an attempt to ask you to be alone, watch a movie, go to the playground, etc.

There are certainly traces to liking someone! Compared with direct flowering, gift-giving, chatting and playing, etc., which we can see at a glance, these two methods may be easier to help you identify those restrained little brothers who like it in their hearts, but don't know it, and don't dare to express it bravely! The most accurate way is to look at the eyes, there is a very apt sentence, like a person is not hidden Even if you cover your mouth, you will run out of your eyes, and your eyes will not deceive.

If you can always feel his eyes fall on you in the process of getting along with each other, and you laugh happily and frown in annoyance, then someone must have fallen into the trap of love. The second method of judgment is that people's subconscious will not deceive people. If when a group of people are playing, there are good things to eat, drink and play, he will look at you for the first time, and find opportunities to wander around you in various secret ways, which can be called human gps, then he also likes it!

Finally, if you want to ask this question, you should also be attracted to boys, if so, you must be brave enough to express it! I wish the person you like likes you a thousand times!

Questions. What if he is hot and cold to me?

The hot and cold is actually reflected in the level of the needs of two people, when the other party desperately needs you, the whole person will naturally move closer to you, but if you feel the estrangement, these communications become obstacles, and you will begin to want to dilute your emotions.

I think if a guy always chats with you without words, and cares about you and makes you happy in his words, it means that he likes you very much, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, he will only be willing to accompany the person he likes.

If this guy likes you more, then he will care about you, well, all the movements care about your preferences, care about your warmth and coldness, from his various signs can be shown, does this boy really like himself?

It's more difficult, because even if you are married and don't love, people are good at disguise! So if there is no actual long-term contact, it is difficult to judge, and there are those who do not call for a long time, this depends on your own intuition, in the relationship girls' intuition is generally more reliable!

Through chatting, if he likes you, he will care about you everywhere, think of you, greet you every day, and he will do what you say.

The easiest thing is to go home with him once, meet his parents and see what he has to say! It can also be seen in life that love and liking are not the same.

Whether it's chatting or doing something else, I always put you first.

It can be seen that the details of the boy's chat with you are: whether to reply to messages in seconds, whether to be perfunctory, whether to report dynamics, whether to pay attention to your dynamics, whether to make you happy, etc.

1. See if he replies to the message in seconds.

When a guy chats with someone he likes, he is always in a hurry. If you are not very busy, you will definitely reply as soon as possible. Even if it's busy, it will tell you.

If you send a message in the morning and he doesn't reply in the afternoon or not, it means that he doesn't value you. Don't comfort yourself that he's busy, or hasn't seen the news, the people who care about you will definitely reply in seconds, because I'm afraid you'll think too much.

2. Will you say something perfunctory?

When a guy is chatting, he always replies to you with "hehe", "oh", and "en", which means that he doesn't really want to chat. If he likes you, he'll be happy to listen as long as the topic isn't too much.

3. Will I report to you on the dynamics?

When a guy likes you, he wants to know what you're doing 24 hours a day and will be happy to share what he's doing. So you can tentatively ask him about the day's itinerary, and if he is willing to tell you, then he has a good opinion of you. If he says he didn't do anything, then he doesn't like you very much.

4. Send the screenshot to the circle of friends and see his reaction.

If a guy likes you, he won't mind showing affection in the circle of friends. You can take screenshots of some flirtatious words and post them in the circle of friends. If he accuses you and says you shouldn't send it out, it means you don't like it; If he is happy and replies or likes, it means that he likes you.

5. See if he will make you happy.

When chatting with a guy, you can pretend to be angry or unhappy and see how the other person reacts. The man who likes you will definitely find a way to make you happy, blacken yourself, help you scold, find jokes to make you laugh, and so on. Of course, coaxing people doesn't mean liking, and not coaxing people definitely doesn't like it.

Summary. If a boy likes someone, there is no need to be tempted, pay attention to the content of his chat, and see if he wants to share everything with you, whether he always wants you to be by his side.

If the boy likes to be alone, there is no need to be tempted, pay attention to the content of his chat, and see if he wants to share everything with you, whether he always wants you to be by his side.

I think he likes me, but I don't understand, it's very contradictory, he will send me a message to bless me during the holidays, Douyin will reply to disturb Aite, and it is not perfunctory, this person has expressed his liking to me, saying that he is serious, but it is different from what my friend said, this is what my friend asked me, do you not like it, but send a message to the circle of friends to say that the other party is injured or has menstrual pain, and he will like and comment on the circle of friends, and the other party will basically reply when he sees the funny Aite on Douyin, do you like me? But my friend helped me ask him if he had any thoughts about me, he said that ideas all depend on fate, my friend said help you ask her, he said goodbye, said that I was a good girl, said that he had not settled down, in the field, don't talk about feelings first, what does this mean? I think he may not like it, originally I didn't like it at first, he expressed it, and then he often cared, praised and commented on the eggplant plum cover theory, I seem to like it, I don't know if I like it or get used to it, if the other party doesn't have that feeling, I just want to stop the loss in time and tremble, don't be sentimental.

After reading your description, I can only say that you are now accustomed to his courtship and his existence, and he can only say that he has a good impression of you, but he thinks about the liquid hail a lot, so he is not sure whether to confess to you or not.

It's just that I think if I like someone, I can connect and care about each other. I always thought he liked me, and he didn't say that he wouldn't contact me, but he laughed at me and took the initiative to chat with me. Douyin every time Aite he will reply.

I also sent a message to bless Children's Day, and so did the Dragon Boat Festival, and if I didn't sleep at half past eleven, he would send a message saying that I should go to bed quickly. So I always thought he liked me, but looking at what he said to my friend, it seemed to be a tactful refusal. It's me who has the illusion of love.

I didn't dare to take the initiative to find him, I was afraid that I was a joke.

It's true that he has a good impression of you, and if he doesn't dare to confess, he will bury it, and there should be something he concerns about between you, plus you said it at the beginning and you didn't respond at the first time, which is also the reason why he didn't dare to say it again.

But you have to think clearly, do you really have a crush on him, or are you used to his presence?

My eldest brother thinks I like it, and I feel an inexplicable fate. It's just that I'm afraid that he cares about me as a friend. He also said that he would not talk about it for a year or two.

It's the kind of person who gets married when he thinks it's appropriate. So I don't know what to do, further I am afraid that I will be embarrassed, and I am afraid that he really likes it when I take a step back.