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The most common mistake a woman makes in marriage is that she is only willing to pay for others, but she is very critical of herself. Women are willing to buy four-figure shoes for men, but are not willing to spend a few hundred dollars to buy themselves a dress. A woman is willing to pay for the best milk powder for her children and a better early education nursery, while her own clothes and skin care products are always solved on the **.
A woman dresses her husband handsome and chic, and her children are dressed up in a clean environment, but she always feels like a family nanny to others, not a heroine.
This kind of woman is miserable, and her misery is not caused by everyone, she herself is the culprit. If a woman doesn't know how to love herself, how can she expect others to love you? Women don't take themselves seriously, so who would take her seriously?
Blessed women know that if they love themselves, others will like her, and if they are good to themselves, others will be good to her.
The duties and responsibilities in marriage can be said to be divided equally between men and women. Some women are taught this concept by their mothers-in-law and husbands, "women take home as the world", "doing housework and giving birth to children are women's duty". What, then, is a man's duty?
Some of the men shouted righteously, "My duty is to provide for my family." "In that case, why do women need to work tirelessly to do housework and take care of children when they earn money like this? It's unfair, isn't it?
When a woman takes care of the big and small affairs of the family by herself, she feels like a superordinate being, and she can only do what she should do from the man's heart. Maybe the man will still dislike her cooking is hard to swallow, his shirt is not clean, and the home is not spacious and bright. When a woman has no time and space of her own, her home is her entire universe.
For such a woman, it is equivalent to a frog at the bottom of a well, and her sky is only the size of a wellbore.
No one is very worthy of a woman's unprincipled and bottomless tolerance, including her other half. If a man truly loves a woman, he will not be willing to make her the ideal type, because in this case, she is not what she once was. He is covered in bruises, his life has changed, his essence has changed, how can he still be the one he loved before?
Women also need to be clear about not changing themselves too much for the sake of everyone.
A truly harmonious couple will understand that change is a mutual thing, not a one-person thing. Men are willing to change for the woman they love in marriage, and women also need to tolerate men's small willfulness and shortcomings to a certain extent. If the only person who has been changing in the marriage is the woman herself, it will be difficult for their relationship to last.
Even if the way is still there, the substance has long since deteriorated.
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Special love to worry, do not pay attention to their own image, do not pay attention to their own figure, always pay attention to others, do not like to learn, no ideas, if there are these characteristics of women, generally will be particularly hard.
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can't experience wind and rain, especially cowardly, emotional, thinks that loving someone is life, is particularly assertive in the relationship, and does what others say.
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Very gentle.,Very empathetic.,Very sensible.,Always like to pester your ex.,Don't know how to be satisfied.,Most of these characteristics are very hard.。
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A woman with a hard life has several habits in her body, which leads to her life being miserable.
1.Mindless, stubborn, and unpersuadable. Some women have no brains and don't know people when they are young.
If a man speaks flattering to her, he will be deceived and swear to marry him. Parents can't stop it if they don't agree, no matter if there is a pit or a well in front of them, they have to jump down, which is called for love. As a result, he was entrusted to a non-beloved person, suffered all his life, and complained that his parents did not help him.
Marriage is the second reincarnation, and we must be cautious, not on a whim, hot-headed.
2.Losses do not have a long memory. Some women have been fooled all their lives, and when they are different, they always don't sum up their experience, and they forget the hardships they have endured every once in a while.
After having children, they don't learn how to be a qualified parent, they don't have a long-term vision, they don't take their children's education seriously, and they don't educate their children enough, resulting in not marrying in the first half of their lives, and not cultivating their children in the second half of their lives.
3.There is no plan to live a life, a day is a day, and you have to get by. Such a woman, with developed limbs, a simple mind, is angry, scolds her children and daughters every day, but she does not complain that she married the wrong person, has no plan for the future, and does not do well in family finance.
There is no way to make money, so you can only rely on hard work to earn hard money.
A woman, the price of marrying the wrong person is very large, marrying the wrong person, it means that most of the opportunities in life are lost, if in the future life, and do not have a long memory, do not grow a brain, continue to be confused, do not educate the children well, doomed to live a lifetime, never to be saved.
People's fate has a lot to do with character, and women with "bitter" lives have these habits: no planning, no thinking about the consequences; If you don't think it through, you will admit that your life is miserable when something happens; Carry everything by yourself, and live yourself as a woman; Accustomed to children, children are not responsible, gnawing old has become a habit, and they have never enjoyed the blessings of children when they are old.
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1.Be diligent and don't let anyone help.
2.Gentle personality, no quarrels, when encountering quarrels, they don't quarrel, and they become unreasonable when they are reasonable.
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Particularly worried, reluctant to express oneself, no self-assertiveness, will form a sense of dependence on others, no independent spirit, and so on.
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They often don't have a smile on their faces, they always have a sad face, and they always complain about others, often say very vulgar things, and always blame other people's faults, feeling that they are not wrong.
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They are all kind and thoughtful people, they don't want to burden others if they don't do anything, they are afraid of hurting others, and they always put themselves last.
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Women have very high standards for their own quality of life, they know that their current life is not good, they know that the other party can't give them the life they want, and the other party is still working hard, but they are not willing to be diligent. A woman who doesn't know what she has paid will most of her life not change, even if the other party has a certain strength in Huihui, it is likely that she will abandon you.
As for women, sometimes they don't just rely on each other, not everything can be obtained from each other, and sometimes they also need to put in more effort, so that in the eyes of others, they can also be looked down upon.
Women's dreams are very far away, they will imagine many beautiful things, and they will expect a lot of future life, and they often ignore the life in front of them. This kind of woman can only have empty ideals, and the life in front of her can't be operated very well, will there really be such a life as imagined in the future? People who have a bad life in front of them are destined to not be able to live the life they want in the future.
No matter who you are, you can't be satisfied with the status quo, the life in front of you may not be too good, not very bad, but in order to satisfy your heart, you should also make certain changes to your current life, so that you will be stronger than you are now, so that you will not become a "hard" woman.
Everyone makes mistakes, and many things in life can't follow their own opinions, so there will be a lot of dissatisfied suggestions, and sometimes some wrong decisions will be made. In the face of such a situation, if a woman keeps complaining and complaining like that, and does not know how to find problems from herself, this kind of woman will not be happy.
Mistakes can be made in the world, the most important thing is to see how everyone treats their mistakes, if you can deal with it well, then there will be this kind of thing will become experienced, if you can't solve it with a straight face, then after all, "life" is hard, and you can't blame others.
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First of all, the cranky women's pants are the students, and the other women who have no financial independence will also have a hard life, because she is eager to ask for others, so it will be very hard.
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First, I am particularly diligent and diligent, second, I like to worry, third, I want to be in charge of everyone, fourth, I hope that everyone can agree with me, and fifth, I especially like to express myself.
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I always like to complain about my current life, but I might as well work hard, and Zhi Meng also likes to fantasize about ethereal things, but it's good at the moment, full of negative scum and energy every day, and I never thought of using action to change the present, such women are generally more miserable.
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What kind of mountain leakage is self-explanatory, and he has personally experienced and amused himself.
Things are very wide.
The hand prints are messy. Crow's feet are numerous.
A lot of worries.
Especially like to be picky, and not easy to get along with, very selfish, easy to be jealous of others, like to compare, rely on others, have no opinions, unreasonable, quite unreasonable.
Men who have a hard life actually have many characteristics, such as their hands will be very rough, and they will have a sad face every day, and they are not motivated.
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I think the characteristics of these women are that they are too good at doing everything and will do everything themselves, they have no obvious sense of boundaries, they don't know how to reject others, they are overly unconfident, and they always like to please others, which leads to their lack of refusal when faced with other people's needs.
Personally, I think that people with bad intentions will have these characteristics, they will be very cunning, they will often hurt others for their own interests, they are very selfish, they never consider the feelings of others, they basically have no friends around them, and so on.