Why did you break up with your ex boyfriend for a long time and still come to Douyin to visit me?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on what the reason for your breakup with your ex-boyfriend is, and whether your ex-boyfriend is the one who wants to break up.

    If your ex-boyfriend is not the one who wants to break up, he must be visiting your Douyin because he still has attachment to you and attachment to this relationship.

    As for his access to your personal space on Douyin, I personally think there are two reasons.

    The first reason is that your ex-boyfriend is curious about your current life, wants to know if you are doing well after separating from him, wants to see if there is a state of your current life in your Douyin, and wants to see if you are alone or two.

    He wants to know if you are affected by breaking up with him now, you have a bad life, whether you have posted some sentimental and emotional words in Douyin, and whether you are still reluctant to give up your relationship between conversations.

    Maybe it's just because of curiosity, or maybe it's because he still has attachment to this relationship, he just wants to see how your life is after separation, and curiosity is the majority!

    The second reason is that your boyfriend wants to renew his relationship with you.

    He doesn't know that starting with ** can make you pay attention to him and save your relationship, so he wants to understand your current life through Douyin, intervene from your current life, and then find a way to make you recall your past bits and pieces, so that you can remember that he knows that he is still paying attention to you.

    To put it bluntly, he wants to understand your true emotional state through your current life situation, and then decide whether to renew your relationship with you through your emotional state.

    In fact, he still thinks about you in his heart, but he doesn't know how to contact you, so he simply goes to your Douyin to take a look and see if he still has a chance.

    Personally, I think that two people break up, if you don't tear your face, it is also a very normal behavior for the other party to visit your Douyin space, and it is more likely to be simply curious, because he may have watched it often, and then big data will also push something to him, and it is completely possible for him to be curious to click into your space at this time.

    If the two people have torn their faces, and he still comes to see your space, it means that there is still reluctance to the past relationship, after all, the two people once loved each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Look at whether you are doing well, it means that he still has the opportunity to take advantage of the situation and treat you as a backstop, if you live well, I feel a little unwilling, how can I live better after breaking up with me, at this time you can secretly have fun, because you are better than when you were with him.

    2. The person who really lets go will not keep any information about you, think about this question yourself, I broke up and kept all kinds of information about my ex-boyfriend, is it a time bomb when I fall in love or after marriage? What good things stay in the memory, if you take it out from time to time to look at it and miss it, it means that you don't love the current object, you want to find a chance to talk about each other's life, or even want to meet again, and maybe even want to get back together, you even want to treat each other as a backstop, repeat the mistakes of the past. I've seen a scumbag, it's really like this, and I don't know if I've operated an ex-boyfriend.

    It's the same if it's a man, you believe that he doesn't refuse to come, don't have any unrealistic illusions about his behavior, the ex is the ex, good or bad, snooping, don't snoop, let him snoop if you don't dislike it, if you don't dislike it, you can block and delete it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Generally, girls will be more uncomfortable than boys when they break up, boys are generally more emotionally dull, and they may start to be sad after a week or so Start to miss the days with you, in the first few days of the breakup, they must be thinking that their future life will be more free, they can have more time to play games, and finally they don't have to coax their girlfriends anymore, but after a long time, they will feel very lonely, he will start to think about you, think about all aspects of you, think about the way you look in his life, So he may not have resisted to visit your Douyin homepage, he may just want to see if you are doing well, and want to express that he misses you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I want to know how you are doing, I want to understand your current situation, I may have a fluke mentality and feel that you are single and have certain ideas, and I have thoughts about getting back together with you, but I am in the hesitation stage, or I may suddenly think of you and want to see how you are doing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The person who came to find me a month after the breakup may have thought about it, and then wanted to get together with another woman. A month after the breakup, the ex-boyfriend came looking for him, and the man mentioned the breakup, thus starting the relationship again.

    Although I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for a long time, on the other hand, I feel guilty. After breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, for a long time, maybe one day I look forward to getting back together. A long time ago, my ex-boyfriend suddenly found that he didn't like or talk when he looked at the homepage. Maybe out of habit.

    Although two people can't be lovers, if the ex-boyfriend still comes often, it has to be analyzed from two aspects. The ex-boyfriend may have put it down when he pays special attention at night. The person broke up, the ex-boyfriend will suddenly follow, and there is a homepage.

    If so, it may have been before the breakup to browse.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It seems that your ex-boyfriend is still more concerned about you, and he may still want to reconcile with you when he visits Douyin now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should be him, who has not forgotten you, still has you in his heart, and wants to pay attention to you and your life silently.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a habit, and it's only now that I'm going to visit you habitually.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's been a long time since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, and I still came to Douyin to visit, you may just take a look.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    may still be a little reluctant to you, or he wants to see how you are doing and whether you are better than him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is there a presence in the brush? Isn't it cool to break up? Hahaha, it mainly grabs your attention. Don't worry about him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hahaha Mainly grabs your attention and leaves him alone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is there a presence in the brush? Isn't it funny that you guys broke up? Hahaha, it mainly catches your attention. Don't worry about him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal, they are all mortals and loved people. I want to see how you've been lately!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't want to be a lover, you can be a friend and a fan, and it's not a contradiction.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you for the Die Key. 1.This shows that your ex-boyfriend is still obsessed with you.

    Visit your TikTok homepage every day mainly to see how you're doing. 2.Many couples after a breakup.

    In fact, I still can't forget each other. After the breakup, I care a lot about what the other party is doing now. That's why you'll visit your TikTok homepage often.

    3.If you don't want to have any contact with your ex-boyfriend right now. You can block your ex-boyfriend's TikTok.

    He won't be able to access your Page after he blocks him. 4.Some people have a bad personality and are willful and impulsive, do things sloppily, and say to break up at every turn, so when the other party seriously agrees to break up with her, she regrets it, thinking about temporarily treating it coldly, and waiting for the right opportunity to contact again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. If it's been a month since you broke up, and now your ex-boyfriend suddenly came to see your Douyin, I think your ex-boyfriend may be a whim, after all, you haven't been in touch for a month, he may just want to see you, now, what is the state of life, you have a deep understanding of this, because you will definitely also think about what your ex-boyfriend's current life is like, there is another possibility, maybe he has really been paying attention to you and has not let you go.

    It's been a month since I broke up, my ex-boyfriend came to see me on Douyin, what do you mean?

    Kiss. Ex-boyfriend this kind of behavior.

    It's good to miss you.

    If it's been a month since you broke up, and now your ex-boyfriend suddenly came to see your Douyin, I think your ex-boyfriend may be a whim, after all, you haven't been in touch for a month, he may just want to see you, now, what is the state of life, you have a deep understanding of this, because you will definitely also think about what your ex-boyfriend's current life is like, there is another possibility, maybe he has really been paying attention to you and has not let you go.

    Wrong. Wrong.

    I didn't have contact for three months and separated, peeked at my Douyin the day before yesterday, why did he peek at me, will he look for me in the future.

    Kiss. My boyfriend will secretly watch your Douyin after more than three months of breaking up, does he want to get back together with you? I can't help you analyze the other situations if I want to get back together, but I know through your narrative that he must miss you.

    The odds of it coming to you in the future are very high.

    My friend broke up for five years, and then they got back together.

    Your ex-boyfriend doesn't know how good you are when he's with you.

    The girls you met after the breakup were not as good as you.

    It's normal for him to turn back.

    How can people who don't love you pay attention to you?

    How long does it take to reunite? He broke up during the New Year and said that it was impossible to be together, I canceled his Douyin attention and left him a message and didn't reply, seeing that he was not delivered online, I found out the day before yesterday that he had read that there must be ** head to see me, but he didn't contact me, I don't know if he will contact me.

    Not to mention your ex-boyfriend.

    It's up to you to decide if you want to.

    He's been waiting for you.

    If you ask him at this time.

    You okay. He'll definitely get you back.

    And will follow you.

    But don't seem to care too much about him.

    You have to look indifferent to him.

    So that he can understand how deeply he hurt you in the first place.

    Do you want me to contact him? Still is?

    You can ask him, "Are you okay?"

    I was afraid that if I contacted him, he would ignore me, so I didn't dare to contact him.

    You have to be brave. He's definitely waiting for you.

    I'm just afraid that you won't want to pay attention to him.

    I've looked for him many times before and didn't reply to me, and I'm afraid that I won't reply to him now, so you try to contact Douyin.

    Believe in yourself. It's been three months.

    He must be in trouble.

    Otherwise, I won't come to see you.

    Brave. He ignored you before, and that was before.

    He would like to come back to see you.

    The note has forgiven you.

    And miss you so much.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Ex-boyfriend, have a new love, and come to visit me every month Douyin Hello dear, if the ex comes to visit your Douyin, this is very normal, although the two of you have broken up, there is no relationship anymore, and there should be no more contact, he may not have completely let go of you, so he now wants to know how you are doing, what your life is like now, so he visits your Douyin, I want to know if you are doing now. When an ex comes to visit your Douyin, he may think of you and want to understand your current mood and life status through Douyin.

    This is a very normal behavior, after all, you have loved each other, and it is impossible to completely forget it, so he thinks of you in his spare time, and it is not appropriate to contact you directly, and he doesn't want to disturb you, so learn about your recent situation from Douyin. You don't have to think about it. Hope it helps.

    My ex-boyfriend has a new love, and he also visits me on Douyin every month.

    Ex-boyfriend, have a new love, and Zhenliang comes to visit me every month Douyin Hello dear, if the ex comes to visit your Douyin, this is very normal, although the two of you have broken up, there is no relationship to answer, and there should be no more contact, he may not have completely let go of you, so he now wants to know how you are doing, what your life is like now, so he visits your Douyin, I want to know if you are doing well. When an ex comes to visit your Douyin, he may think of you and want to understand your current mood and life status through Douyin. This is a very normal behavior, after all, you have loved each other, and it is impossible to completely forget it, so he thinks of you in his spare time, and it is not appropriate to contact you directly, and he doesn't want to disturb you, so learn about your recent situation from Douyin.

    But he has a new love.

    This is a very normal behavior, after all, you have been in love, and it is impossible to completely forget the code, so he thinks of you in his spare time, and then it is inappropriate to contact you directly, and he doesn't want to disturb you, so learn about your recent situation from Douyin. You don't have to think about it. I hope I can help you to annihilate you.

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  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm happy to answer for you, after the breakup, the ex always visits your Douyin homepage, and the specific reasons are as follows: 1. The ex still loves you, still cares about you, and still wants to know your daily dynamics, but he has been separated from you, so he can only pay attention to you silently.

    2. The ex mainly wants to know if you have a boyfriend, and if you don't have a boyfriend yet, he feels that he still has a chance to get you back. 3. Your ex may have a grudge against you, and if you are having a bad time or find that the boyfriend you are looking for is not as good as him, he will feel very happy. 4. Your ex has no feelings for you, and just pays attention to you as an ordinary friend.

    Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, after the breakup, the ex always visits your Douyin homepage, and the specific reasons are as follows: 1. The ex still loves you, still cares about you, and still wants to know your daily dynamics, but he has been separated from you, so he can only pay attention to you silently. 2. The ex mainly wants to know if you have a boyfriend, and if you don't have a boyfriend yet, he feels that he still has a chance to get you back.

    3. Your ex may have a grudge against you or, if you are not doing well or find that the boyfriend you are looking for is not as good as him, he will feel very happy. 4. Your ex has no feelings for you, and just pays attention to you as an ordinary friend. 5. The ex prefers to go to Douyin, and Douyin will recommend your ** to him according to his habits, he may not have watched it, but just slid by.

    I should want to see how you've been doing lately and whether you've found a new boyfriend.

    I came again last night.,I sent a work in the spring when he came in to see.,I haven't sent it for the past two days.,He's here again.,Did he enter the state to search for my Douyin name<>

    <>Left Pickpocket's Face].

    It should be. Either I just want to get back together with you.

    You want to get back together with me and you want me to get back together with him, is that what you mean?

    Yes, the purpose is to get your attention, to make you curious, to take the initiative to find him.

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