I was a junior high school student, and a classmate always bullied me and asked me to buy cigarettes

Updated on educate 2024-07-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, you have to quit smoking, in the first year of junior high school, you are still very young, and later you will understand. As for your classmates, you always ask you to smoke cigarettes, you quit smoking, just give him no smoke, let him scold him if he scolds, don't want what others give you, who is it? It's his own, he scolds you because he's angry, and when he's angry, he's angry, you ignore him, it's himself who is angry.

    As for what you think now, "ask yourself if I give him ten times more cigarettes than he gives me to smoke", in fact, it is not a benefit, but a bad thing for his body, if you are really buddies, you can persuade him not to smoke, and depending on your situation, you will not be good friends, you just tell him, if he doesn't listen, don't care, take care of yourself first. You are afraid of turning your face with him, what are you afraid of, you are not true friends, if you turn your face with him, the people in the class will not play with you, it means that these "friends" in your class are not worth having at all, because this must not be a real friend, but a "wine and meat friend" who has to share good things and flee in distress, and this kind of friend is also a loss to yourself. If they don't play with you, they won't follow, it's not uncommon, that's not sincere, and it's only a matter of time before they don't betray now.

    You don't need material things to win friends, that's all fake. Use your sincerity to make other sincere friends, put your mind on studying, even if there is really such a class of little ruffians in the class, there will always be good people, take the initiative to make some positive friends of good students, because the one who is close to Zhu is red, and the one who is close to ink is black, so if he really turns his face with you, you should be glad that you are out of trouble. Now quit smoking, put your mind on studying, and exchange your sincerity for friends.

    Don't think about what you have and don't, you will understand in a few years that the current problem is actually very naïve, but taking the wrong step will make a big mistake. Don't continue to deal with him, it's best for him to turn his face with you, then you will plan to alienate him. If you don't put it aside now, your troubles will escalate to the troubles of your parents, each thinking differently and worrying differently.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You have to stand firm and flip it, it's not a big deal. There will always be people who are like-minded with you. But don't go too far, just fade the relationship with him slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You quit smoking. After quitting smoking, there are not so many chain things. Smoking is not a good thing, and when you are older, you will understand that if you turn it over, you might as well give the cigarette you smoked to other classmates. Play with other classmates.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are also scheming, pretending to be pitiful, trying to be pitiful in front of others, and finally you fall out again to see who your classmates will believe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Alas, don't be afraid of him anyway, just do what you have to do

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Schoolmate... If you smoke yourself, no one will sympathize with you.

    Things will be fine if you don't smoke yourself, but if you smoke yourself... It's not easy to do ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, smoking is not good, and secondly, the more you put up with this kind of person, the more you have to make inches of progress.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Bad boy paper... You're not going to roll stones into your cigarettes, and you're going to put down your self-esteem and get along with others, do you think no one will like to play with you?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How do you know that people won't play with you? Don't you think he's with you for these things? Classmates: As long as you get along with others with your heart, you won't have fewer friends, you know?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's definitely not right to fight, maybe you feel sorry for your classmates, but you have to understand that there are some things that you know are wrong, and you really do it to make mistakes, do your classmates need you to help do something that violates the law? Maybe you think this is a small matter, but people must be assertive, and things that are not moral and immoral should never be done.

    Fighting can only be a constant revenge, and the final result is nothing more than compensating anyone who is seriously injured or going to the public security bureau or causing a bigger mess. I should be glad that you didn't participate in the fight, and I really hope that you can stay away from these dangerous activities in the future, legitimate defense is okay, but excessive measures are not necessary.

    Whatever you confiscate the pack of cigarettes, you won't be held responsible, unless someone involved in the fight is called by you. However, according to what you said, the situation may not be too serious, and it would be nice if the investigation actively admitted the mistake.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the parents know, ask them to solve it, if they don't know, you will first describe the whole situation to **, but if your friend's injury is too serious, according to this situation, you don't have to be fully responsible, but it's a pity that you received the pack of cigarettes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The 2nd floor is so fierce, the examination questions are not clear, people ask about the high school entrance examination, you found a college entrance examination. But the meaning is pretty much the same...But on the last day, the level of tension was even worse, because some students did not have any sleep problems ,.. usually

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