Why is it so difficult for the post 90s generation to marry a wife now?

Because there are not many good men in the 90s. But the good women of the post-90s generation are very demanding. Therefore, good women are married, or waiting to marry good men, so more than 7% of post-90s men who are not very good will not be able to marry wives.

Is it true that the marriage rate of the post-90s generation is less than 10%.

Fake.

Previously, it was reported on the Internet that there are currently about 100 million people in the post-90s group, and the statistics of their marriage data found that the post-90s who registered for marriage did not exceed 10 million couples, and the proportion was less than 10%.

First of all, it is a fake, pure rumor, and cannot be believed!

Why wouldn't they want to get married?

To paraphrase Tolstoy's famous saying: people who want to get married are all alike, and people who don't want to get married have their own concerns.

What is inevitable is definitely the economic problem, "when life does not consider a series of money-consuming issues such as getting married and buying a house, the rest of the world is opened." “

Who praises the ruler and counts the height of the post-90s?

Those born in 1990 to those born in 1999 are counted in the past ten years. Today, 99 years old in 2021, he has turned 22 years old. According to the relevant laws of the country, men can get married when they reach the age of 22 and women can get married when they reach the age of 20.

But the reality is that with the development of modern society, the vast majority of them marry late and have children later.

College students are about 22 years old after graduation, and most people may fall in love in college, and work for at least a few years after graduation before considering starting a family. Some are in graduate school, and if you have a doctorate, it is even more unlikely that you will marry early.

Therefore, over the years, the age of marriage has been pushed back for a long time.

It's hard to see what kind of life you want and what kind of wife you marry. Ordinary people don't have so many ups and downs in their lives, and it is not difficult to run a small family well with two people, occasionally have a petty bourgeois romance, and communicate well in case of trouble. If you want this, you want that, and drink more chicken soup from Douyin, then it will be difficult to get married.

I have a female colleague born after 95 next to me, and I went back on a blind date this May Day holiday. As soon as she graduated, she was dragged on a blind date by her family since she was in college, and now she has at least eight times, and several of her blind dates have finally married girls born in the 80s.

She observed the people around her again and found that more and more post-90s would rather marry the post-80s than the post-95s. Doesn't it say that 80-year-olds or 18-year-olds love 18-year-old girls? Why is it that young men are now more and more accepting of marrying girls who are taller than their age?

Rather than saying that "more and more post-90s would rather marry post-80s than post-95s", it is better to say that now boys are less and less mindful of marrying girls who are a few years older than themselves, and it is also an era of popular sibling love.

Why are some boys more willing to marry girls older than themselves? Most of them are under pressure.

1. Reduce the pressure of life.

In terms of psychological maturity, girls are generally precocious than boys, post-80s girls come out of society early, experienced they can a certain extent to mention the post-90s boys who have not been out of society for a long time, and post-80s girls can guide the post-90s confused boys who have just come out of society not long after their lives or careers, so as to reduce their pressure to cope with society.

In addition, post-80s girls have a certain ability to make money, and they are more attractive to men with independent economic thoughts, and work together to reduce the pressure of life.

2. Female junior, hugging gold bricks.

Now the ratio of men and women is not coordinated, so boys do not refuse to be with girls older than themselves, and now girls generally dress up and maintain, sometimes you can't tell which age is older in a couple. Many boys even bluntly said that they would rather marry a girl who is a few years older and can maintain and dress up than marry a girl who is a few years younger and does not look old.

In addition, young people like to show off their personalities, and immature post-95 girls seem to them to be more contrived and willful, many post-90s who really want to find someone to marry and live find that some post-95 girls are still uncertain and difficult to serve, all kinds of willfulness, they are more willing to marry mature post-80s girls who understand them and mature.

After the girl is not in a hurry to get married.

Nowadays, the age of marriage for young people is getting later and later, and some women advocate getting married later, and a very small number of girls bluntly say that they want not to get married. The reality is that young girls born after 95 don't want to marry early, they feel that they are just babies and don't want to be restrained by their families so early; And older single women are also anxious to find someone to live when the time is right.

There is a long difference between those who are willing to marry and those who are not willing to marry, even if the post-90s boys have the heart to marry the post-95 girls, but the post-95s girls are not necessarily willing to marry, and the post-90s boys certainly choose the girl who has the heart to live with him.

No matter who is older than the man and woman, it is not the point, the two parties run a marriage together, the most important thing is whether there is a heart, whether there is a correct mentality, be responsible for everyone, be responsible for this relationship, the mentality is in place, the person who loves each other runs in successfully, and naturally can work together until he is old.

Because the post-80s generation can talk about marriage immediately, and they are all stable in their jobs and very mature mentally.

Because many people in the post-95s will seem pampered and buried, and when the post-80s generation is concerned, they have become very mature and stable. There won't be too many contradictions in your love life.

Because the post-95 generation is very hypocritical, and their self-care ability is very weak, they lack assertiveness, and they don't have any concept of money, and they can spend it as they want.

It's because Lu Jian is now Zen Some prejudices against the post-95s generation, and maybe some girls born in the 95s are more independent in their thinking than Sun Xichen, and they have higher requirements for the other half.