With my boyfriend, it s been eight months and I haven t liked him yet, should I break up?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-05
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    <>Why are you still together if you don't like each other? It's up to you whether you break up or not, if you don't feel anything about him at all, instead of hurting each other, it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, and it's better to break up directly.

    During the relationship between two people, the relationship needs to be run-in, if the personality is not suitable, the two people have no common language together, and there is no need to continue to stay together. Two people don't have a common goal and language, you say yours and he says his, the man has a positive sense of falling in love, but the woman seems a little indifferent. So if you don't feel it at all, I think it's good to break up early.

    Some people, no matter how good they are, you don't like it, no feeling is no feeling. During this eight-month assessment period, you have a preliminary understanding of his personality, etc. Girls generally don't like that kind of straight man of steel.

    Therefore, no matter how much the boy says, no matter how hard he tries to move the other party. The most taboo in feelings is unrequited love.

    If you don't like it, let it go, and don't delay others.

    If you don't meet the right person, even if you feel the same about him in a few years, but the youth of these years will be wasted. Therefore, I often say that you must meet the right person at the right time and place, and if two people are not suitable to live together, they are very reluctant to live, and there is no happiness at all.

    Don't be reluctant to let go? Feelings are to be single-minded and not forced, letting go may be your best choice, you may also hope that you can find a good home as soon as possible, and the same is true for that person. If you like someone, you have to live a good life together, and if you don't like it, break up straightforwardly and don't hurt each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since your boyfriend is so nice to you, then I suggest you keep going!

    The reason why you feel that you don't particularly like him is because you haven't lost him yet, maybe you're used to having everything he gives you, but you haven't realized that his existence is indispensable.

    It is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover. If you don't know how to cherish when you get it, you will regret it when you lose it.

    You also said that you don't particularly like him, which proves that you still like him, but this kind of liking has not risen to the height of not marrying, but there should be a basis for long-term cooperation.

    And feelings can be cultivated, don't people often say that love arises over time? What's more, he is willing to pay for you, and at the same time, you also have a good impression of him.

    Besides, you are now boyfriend and girlfriend again, that is to say, all the necessary conditions for sublimating the relationship, you have already met.

    If you have a better choice, that's a different story, but if you don't, don't have it.

    Sometimes a turn is a lifetime of regret. After this village, there is no such shop. No matter how much he is in love with you, he may not always stand in place and wait for you.

    So I think that since you have chosen to be with your boyfriend and it has been half a year, you should go all out and keep going.

    Even if you don't make it to the end of the day, don't leave regrets when you once had them. Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you chose to date him, you must have felt that there was something about him that attracted you. You said that you didn't like him, is there some contradiction? If you have been with him for eight months simply because of some interests, then there is a big question mark over whether this kind of love without emotional foundation can go far.

    Besides, you won't be happy in this case. So ask yourself if you have any feelings for him. If you really don't like it, there is no common language, and you were forced to be together just for the sake of falling in love, it is best to consider separating, a sincere relationship is what can accompany you for a lifetime.

    Eight months is not too short, and if the run-in is not successful, it may really be inappropriate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think yes. 8 months is that friendship seems to have some too, if you don't like him, they don't have to force on, that will delay both your time and his time, it's better to find a time, boldly talk to him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How do you become boyfriend and girlfriend if you don't like someone? At least one of the other party's merits has impressed you.

    If this merit no longer exists, then speak up and speak your confusion.

    If this advantage is still there, but you are tired of it, then you should also communicate before making a decision.

    Otherwise, your heart has already gone through thousands of troops, and the other party still thinks that everything is fine, thinking that you are just making trouble.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's up to you to choose.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm going to college soon, prove that you're only a high school student now, since you love each other, then experience a long-distance relationship, see if you can get along with each other, if you can't get along well, then you can only choose to break up, in fact, there is nothing to contradict, if you love, then you can love each other well, and you won't regret breaking up one day, and you must be able to afford to let go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't carry it, put it down; If you can't afford to hurt, you should look down; If you can't figure it out, you don't want to; If you can't hate, you have to soothe it. Life is a process of cultivation, why bother to look at people and things with this uneven heart, practice yourself, and live up to the years.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've been talking to my boyfriend for almost half a year, and I feel like we won't be able to get together in the future, but we love each other very much and are reluctant to break up. I think that although you love each other very much, you are reluctant to mention breaking up. But let's face it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, the two of you love each other and are reluctant to break up, which means that the two of you can come together, and you must have faith in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you feel that you and your boyfriend will not be able to get together in the end, then it is recommended that you make a decision quickly, otherwise if you delay, the more you will hurt each other, and the longer you delay, the more it will hurt each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The good boyfriend has been talking for almost half a year, and I feel that I can't find an issue in the future, but we love each other very much, and we are reluctant to mention breaking up, I don't think this feeling is very accurate, I think people's emotions are the most important, don't mainly love the two of you, so it is possible to come together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, the first love is beautiful, if you can insist, you can insist, what school you go to now can't determine what situation you will be in society in the future, let's get along with each other in a different place first, it is sad to break up, or you will find a new life for each other in a year, and it will not be so uncomfortable then

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although it's a bit cruel to say this, but you are too young, of course this is love, but it may not be the love that you still feel sorry for after a few years, people's growth is staged, and the concept of mate selection will change a lot after maturity.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is very strange, obviously they love each other, why can't they get together?

    I think that if you love each other, you have to work hard and be together in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you are really very conflicted, since the two of you love each other very much, why do you feel that you can't get together in the future? Since two people love each other so much, I think we should face it together, and we can't break up no matter what, we must come together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you encounter any kind of trouble, I think that as long as you love each other, all problems can be solved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At least have loved each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When it is broken, it is broken, and if it is continuous, it is chaotic.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Break up decisively, after all, it's only been a week of dating, and while the relationship between two people is not very deep, it's good for both people to break up at this time.

    Love has always been a matter between two people, and the longer this kind of thing drags on and the more you pay, the more it hurts. So when you find that you don't like him, then you must stop and break up in time, so that the damage can be minimized.

    And if you find your true love while maintaining a relationship with him but ignoring him, then how do you deal with it? If you break up at this time to pursue true love, then people will inevitably think that you have split your legs, which is a lot of damage to your reputation. If you give up pursuing what you love, will you be willing?

    So, based on the above views, I think you should break up with your boyfriend decisively, while the relationship between the two people is not very deep, breaking up is the best choice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At the beginning, it may be due to the attraction of our appearance, there is some heartbeat feeling, so we choose to walk together and become a couple, but after getting along for a period of time, we find that the other party has some habits that do not match them, or the personality is different before, and the ambulance hesitates to go on together, and will wonder why they chose to be together.

    In fact, the feelings that came together at the beginning may be a short-term heartbeat, or a momentary idea, and I don't like it after getting along, but who can be sure that the current disliked feelings are not real, and whether they will be temporary thoughts, because we are in our twenties, sometimes our thoughts are not mature enough, and we are not very serious about feelings, so it is not recommended to separate in this case. Because if the so-called dislike now is just a momentary thought, not from careful consideration, if you decide to separate hastily, it may be irreparable when you regret it.

    At the same time, two people together, there is no eternal harmony, there will always be contradictions and friction, there will also be differences in personality and habits, this is the fun between couples, if the other party is the same as themselves, then what fun is there to get along, this gap between two people, is needed to run in with each other to solve, and in the run-in process, it will deepen the feelings of two people, and slowly move towards a firmer state. And choosing to break up now is not fair to the other party, so try to contact each other for a few more days, give the other party and yourself, the important thing is to give your love a chance.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello: If the boy doesn't contact you, it can also be said to be ruthless, but this also prevents you from making mistakes or something, dialectically.

    Since he doesn't want to contact him, what's the pain, women are emotional and won't let go easily. So I advise you:

    1.Shift your attention, find something you like, and stop thinking when you're busy.

    2.Delete everything from his alumni, don't leave yourself a way back, so that you don't have anything to pay attention to, after a long time, you will slowly get used to it, and when you are idle, you will do something else, it is better than you being idle and thinking about it.

    3.The cure is to find the Prince Charming next to you, you always pay attention to your ex-boyfriend, and ignore the excellent men around you, since you and your ex-boyfriend are not possible, so find your own home as soon as possible, and live a good life, so that your ex-boyfriend will feel very relieved when others inquire about your current situation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Amount. Using the attention transfer method learned in politics class, we should not look for a more handsome one.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Deleted him, do you have a good "buddy", talk to him. You can also watch the series to distract yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Believe in your own feelings, always right, some things worth cherishing should be cherished, some things that are not worth cherishing should not be cherished, believe that your own feelings can give you the answer, I hope it can help you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think there's any need to continue with him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I have to admit that most of everyone's first love is beautiful, and so are you. Although later it ended up with the same ending as most of the people. Knowing why you can give so much to your ex, you should admit that you take the initiative to love your ex.

    Your ex loves you just as much (before you and your ex broke up, the other person was perfect in your eyes.) )。

    Your current situation is different, you are passively accepted, and you accept the love of others with constant care, care and connivance. It can be seen that at least you haven't completely let go of the current person who loves you wholeheartedly, and there is a little resistance that cannot be expressed. All this is normal, it is really different from first love, there is defense and rationality in the heart, which is understandable.

    But you have to remember that before getting married, all men should obey their words, and men who don't have a bit of manly taste still have to be a little more observant.

    I don't have a good opinion of your current situation, the situation is unknown, I can't judge, and you have to grasp this yourself. Good character, self-motivated, warm man is enough.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You say this reminds me of my ex.

    She, like you, always said that I was too good to her and then broke up.

    If there is a man who is so good to you, you should be happy, don't hold back, love is mutual, if he is good to you, you should also be good to him, you will not have other thoughts in your heart. I hope that the two of you can get married, have children, and grow old, and make up for the regrets in my heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because of fear. Because he loves you too much and too much, and you are emotionally afraid to give? Afraid that you are not good enough? If you also love him, accept his love, and believe that you will be very happy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is a manifestation of a normal state of mind of people, others are careful to protect themselves, they are determined to not make up for it, how to perfect him, because he is careful and perfect, I can't find a better way, so that there is a sense of long-term helmet in the soul, feeling powerless to face such love, and Ning Yuan she is almost to me, to me to get a little peace of mind, so people have since the autonomy of retreating, the normal reaction, you should have because of the normal face, do not decide to owe in the heart, relax the heart and naturally out of the light, Towards the good.

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