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As a 7-year-old boy, his stubborn temper and not afraid of fighting or yelling should be related to his usual growth environment, and of course it will be related to some of his own reasons. In the face of such a child, it is obvious that violence or intimidation will not work, and you should slowly reason with him, make and abide by the rules that you have participated in making, punish him if he violates them, and gradually change his unreasonable behavior.
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Stubborn children should not be disciplined when they are stubborn, this will not work in education, and even if they are beaten, they will be beaten in vain. Try to be as cold as possible, and when he has enough trouble, give him a step, and then educate him. Talk to your child more often.
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Such a young boy, don't fight or yell, lead the way in your heart, praise more, communicate more, he will change.
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Abide by the law and treat people sincerely, friends are like this, you treat me with sincerity ,..
Be honest in both career and learning. Your own career and your own study and life are inseparable from yourself, and you must ,.. sincerely
What you promise others must be done. Honesty is honesty and trustworthiness, and as long as you promise others something, you must be ,..
Be reasonable, speak according to facts, don't talk nonsense, don't lie about it. Not unreasonable, honest and honest.
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It shows that there have been too many fights before, and lessons must be learned.
If you think about it from his standpoint, you may find that many of his actions are very justified. It's nothing more than a lack of mutual understanding between you.
Fighting" this matter is equivalent to a family nuclear **, just like in the case of World War II, only two are used, which are not suitable for use in peacetime, at most they are used to threaten, and he will be afraid. You use it a lot, and it doesn't matter to him.
In case of a "hit", it is necessary to do a good job of compensation at that time, and when he calms down, he must re-establish a dialogue mechanism and carry out persuasion work. Generally speaking, it takes more time and is more difficult than not fighting, and it is a last resort.
Maybe you can swap roles with him, let him be a dad for a while, and you be a son for a while, give it a try.
Also, often think back to what thoughts you had when you were a child, whether you were also "beaten" by your child's grandfather, so, were you convinced at that time?
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Of course, it is patient persuasion and education, to avoid rough management or indulgence, especially in education, adults should be in step with each other, ten years of trees, a hundred years of people, for children must be patient, careful, and caring.
I wish the child to be able to thrive.
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I think parents are a mirror for their children, to see if the parents are actually throwing tantrums, and the children are just learning.
Of course you don't need it, hormones are not a good thing, as long as the child is normal, let the child eat a balanced diet and strengthen exercise.
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