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Give yourself a position in your life and work in your own direction. Try to slowly get rid of the influence of the people around you. Slowly you will feel fulfilled and happy.
I'm also always trying to change myself.
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I think it's a personal problem, you should try to let go of your prejudice against others, think about things from a different perspective, try to find their cuteness, you don't have to worry about getting along with the people in the class, only when you see others although others are helping, you take the initiative to help others, others will remember you, smile more. If you can't do it for a while, take your time and do something you enjoy when you have time.
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If I'm alone at school and don't have friends, I'll read books (magazines, **, essays, etc.), listen to my favorite songs, go out shopping or something.
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Correct your bad habits and treat everything at school as your friend!
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Bring with you something to listen to and headphones books.
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In life, we must make ourselves more open-minded, because an open-minded self will not get into the tip of the horns, and can be optimistic and enterprising. Be more cheerful, because a cheerful self is likely to bring happiness to others and make the atmosphere in life more pleasant. If you want to be happy in your heart, you must not regard the trivial matters between people as right and wrong. Some people are often troubled, just for someone else's unintentional words, but he deliberately accepts them and piles them up in his heart.
A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. More is a burden, another kind of loss; Less is not enough, it is another kind of surplus; Giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a broader possession. A good life should always have a relaxed heart, no matter how the external world changes, you can have a quiet world.
Tranquility is not in the hustle and bustle, let alone in a heart that asks too much, let go of obstacles, open mind, and the heart is naturally quiet and worry-free. Joy keeps the heart bright and maintains a certain and eternal tranquility. If our minds and artistic conceptions can always be clear and cheerful, then the surrounding environment will be beautiful and good.
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Think about how good others are to you.
Thank you for the trouble to adopt!
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Being broad-minded does not mean taking a step back, but a state of life that is kind to yourself, to others, and to the world.
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It's very simple to always remember: everything is reasonable, and the troubles are all because you can't understand it, you don't understand it, everything is reasonable, and there are not so many things.
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Broad-mindedness depends on how much anger you can endure! What's your bottom line? Then you have a big heart, and you can endure and be benevolent.
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Don't worry too much about understanding others, empathize more, don't touch the principles, understand if you can understand, be tolerant if you can, this is determined by personality and environment, and it is difficult to change.
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Some of them are born to be more considerate and read more.
Life is a few decades short, as long as you don't hurt others, be yourself.
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Twenty-nine, you can still drink tea quietly, crush this scene, prosperous fireworks.
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The sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance.
Constantly improve your moral cultivation, don't look outward when encountering problems, find your own reasons, change your incorrect concepts, and do things on the basis of altruism, you will do better.
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As a human being, being big-minded is never as simple as talking or thinking. It is not easy to define broad-mindedness, but it can be seen from several aspects whether it can be broad-minded: the first is whether you can tolerate the differences between others and you, the differences between people in the world are universal, but it is easy to have one-sided negative views on others for the difference in how you do things and speak or the difference in ideas, so being broad-minded means being able to find differences and respect differences; In addition, it is tolerable.
It does not mean tolerating the attacks and slanders of others, but for the ways of doing things from different angles and different perspectives, being able to accept, think about others and be able to tolerate others, and have the courage to tolerate others, they can naturally not care about it, and they can care less; The last point is to go with the flow, conform to the law, and do not force it, so that you can be calm, you can be happy, the world and things are not so difficult, you will be handy in doing things, tolerant of others and optimistic about yourself, so that your heart will naturally become smooth, and your mind will naturally become broad-minded. Hope it helps!
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Have fun, chase happiness, and don't take the rest to heart
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Will change places and think from the perspective of others.
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We don't care about the little things that others do to us.
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See yourself clearly, see others clearly. Bearish on profits.
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The reason why a person can be open-minded is that he can satisfy himself by himself, he no longer needs to ask for anything, and he does not need to worry about it.
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Cats generally use cat litter, while dogs need their owners to clean up their excrement. Sports: If the owner likes outdoor sports, it is better to raise a dog, the dog needs to go out every day for exercise and convenience, if the owner likes to be quiet and usually busy, it is better to raise a cat, and the cat prefers to sleep and rest at home.
Whether it's a cat or a cat.
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Open-mindedness largely depends on mindset and vision. If you have a broad vision and rich cognition, you can see openly. If you have a healthy mindset, you will be less careful. Therefore, it is good to read more books to increase depth, always have a good heart, and cultivate a good attitude. Bless you.
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Personally, I think the practical methods are: 1. Feel life with your heart, 2. Communicate with open-minded friends, 3. Maintain a positive and rational attitude: look at everything openly, and be overly careless and at a loss. Hope it helps, happy with it.
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Do you really want to? No one is born broad-minded, optimistic, positive, positive, and happy. It's all under the awareness of negative emotions. to know. That is, the so-called phoenix panni, the will to be reborn after death.
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Happiness is not complicated. When you are hungry, the meal is happy and enough.
Just be full; When you are thirsty, water is happiness, and you can drink enough; When naked, clothes are happy, enough to wear; When you are poor, money is happiness, and you can use it enough; When you are tired, leisure is happiness, and you can be smooth enough; When you are sleepy, sleep is happiness, and you can do it when you are enough. When you love, you are happy, and when you leave, you remember happiness. Life, by me by the sky, happiness, from the heart not by the situation.
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It seems that there is only *** ideological education for him! If it doesn't work, I'll have to broadcast 12590, which is what I did anyway.
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Relax your mind And oh think about the problem from the perspective of others But I think you did a good job Come on The reason why you make yourself narrow-minded is because you may care too much about a thing or thing you like for a while, and at this time you need to think calmly about whether the so-called things you like are worth pursuing, and at the same time pursuing, also consider other incidental factors. Consider as many aspects of a matter as possible. First, remember, gratitude will make people open-minded Don't always think about how good others want to be to you, others have no obligation Whether it's parents or friends Everything they do for us We should learn to be grateful, and we should repay each other for this Second, there is a kind heart that will make people open-minded When you encounter injustice, think about how many people in this world are suffering You are not lonely What kind of suffering can not be overcome Strong and strong There will be a day when the sea and the sky will be open Finally, open-minded people will be happy So, remember to smile happily every day and you will find that you will have a kind and beautiful heart.
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In fact, broadness is only a relative result, everyone has their own limits to bear, what we have to do is to try to tolerate some small things, small injuries, small mistakes. It's good to be real like this, being a person is already very tiring, so why let yourself be more tired? ? It's all about being yourself.
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When encountering things, you must be calm and calm, and think carefully about who is right and who is wrong in this matter.
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It seems that you are more introverted. I don't know how old you are. Participate in some public welfare activities, try to communicate with your peers, and be open-minded, knowing that your personality is not very popular in society.
It's time to change your living environment and watch the funny duo turn, and after watching it, you will feel in a good mood. The depressed mood will dissipate, believe in yourself, challenge yourself, you can do it, everyone believes in you, come on!
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I'm sure you've heard the saying:"People are more popular than dead people"!In fact, the biggest competitor in life is ourselves!
Therefore, we have to compare ourselves with ourselves in many things, regardless of whether others are improving or not, just make sure that we are working hard and doing everything with our hearts! Be receptive to some objective or unchangeable facts! In fact, the lack of broad-mindedness is largely inseparable from one's own cognition and attitude towards life and things around you!
I don't know if I upset you by saying that! But that's just the way it is! To maintain a tolerant heart, you must first have an optimistic and happy heart.
Because anyone who is sad or unhappy is more likely to get angry and have extreme thoughts. Take the problem of Internet speed as you said: maybe you and your friend are nothing on the surface, but at least they have been surpassing each other in their hearts, and they should like to compete with each other!
Maybe there are certain problems with each other! Otherwise, how could you be angry because of such a sentence! (Although I don't know how your friend said such a thing to you, maybe they really just wanted to help you, or maybe it was his tone that embarrassed you!)
All in all, one sentence will make people laugh, and one sentence will make people jump! Talking is an art! Respect is about giving to each other!
Reflect on what kind of life you want to have, and how do you think life will make you more optimistic and happier! With an optimistic, happy heart. It's hard to get angry if you want to!
Haha......I wish you to find yourself soon!
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Alas, you really devalue yourself for nothing.
Let's start by looking for the sparkle in yourself.
Then smile more, open your mouth and drink more to other people, and I'm sure you'll change.
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Be a righteous person, read more, see through the chaos of the world, and gradually integrate yourself into the greater trend, so that your mind will be broadened.
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Informal, face the world with a smile, love song pot-bellied Maitreya Buddha pendant, wear it on your body, you will be happy.
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Suffering is a blessing, but there must be principles.
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Just learn not to care.
Then you will have a big heart.
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In fact, it is difficult to be broad-minded, no one is not burdened by the things around him, and there is no one who is not worried about his own affairs; There is always a great burden in the heart; A person who can really be open-minded will either see through the red dust after experiencing everything, or he doesn't have to worry about anything, think about it, someone will do it for him and think for him.
Usually go to physical exercise, play ball, swim, run... When you really put yourself into the sport you love, you will find that you are very engaged, very selfless, jumping, screaming, like a carnival party, fearlessly expressing yourself. May you find a pure land of your heart, where you will feel so free, so fearless, and your mind will be open.
Be confident, optimistic, and open-minded, I think you will be broad-minded!
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It is best to be able to empathize, look at the problem from the perspective of others, and if you see it through, you will not be angry, and the new nature will be wide. If you want to lose your temper, go out and run two laps to vent.
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Read 10,000 books. Thousands of miles. Look at the world. You can do everything. Broad-minded.
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Watch more news, learn more about the outside world, and if you have the conditions, it is best to travel, increase your knowledge, and naturally be broad-minded.
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Don't think of people so badly, when others do something wrong, believe that their starting point is good, listen to others more, give others the opportunity to explain, think more from the position of others, think about others, others provoke you less angry, it's a big deal to laugh at it.
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It's hard to be human, but it may be solved the day after tomorrow. One is to participate in activities with multiple participation, such as basketball, football, etc. The second is to make friends who are outstanding in this area! The third is to read the books of great men!
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Read more inspirational books, get along with open-minded people, set achievable goals for yourself in a timely manner, and increase your sense of accomplishment and pleasure.
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Keep a good mood, communicate with open-minded people, and don't worry about everything.
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Some people, things, and things are not worth taking to heart, and if you make a place for the unimportant ones in your heart, the space will naturally open up.
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If you have this requirement for yourself, your mind will naturally be broadened.
You might as well quietly set yourself a relatively big goal in life, be honest and do things, then the troubles you encounter now will only smile faintly and deal with them calmly. Over time, you have become a big-hearted person.
* There is no specific pattern of happiness, you should determine your goals according to your own strength, and don't force yourself to achieve things that you can't do. There is a way to be content and happy, in fact, happiness is around you, smile in the mirror, and look down on everything.
People have to live for themselves, not for others, everyone has their own evaluation criteria for people, and they also have their own concepts of right and wrong, we can't control and change others, and it is impossible for everyone to like themselves, so don't care about these irrelevant people, just do your best and be worthy of your own heart.
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