Middle aged men like online dating, is it loneliness or true love?

Middle-aged men love online dating.

Is it loneliness or true love?

1. Most middle-aged men are lonely, so they choose online dating.

After entering middle age, many men's marriages have entered a bottleneck period.

Even worse, they will choose divorce. At this time, the children have grown up, this study, usually rarely go home, therefore, they are often alone, busy with work during the day, and at night they will feel very lonely, without the other half to chat and eat with them, so they will look for a partner on the Internet. They think that their partners on the Internet can help them get rid of loneliness, kill time, and there will be no conflicts in life, which is the life that many middle men want.

However, this kind of life is not realistic, if two people meet, they will feel very far away from their expectations, so they will "see the light and die".

Second, there are also some middle-aged men who do meet true love and maintain their relationship through the Internet.

Because a man met his other half in the vast sea of people, but due to work, he couldn't get along in real life, so he chose online dating. This kind of relationship has an emotional basis, before online dating, they may have gotten along through blind dates, and have a certain understanding of each other, although they don't often meet, but they meet on the Internet every day, and the relationship is particularly deep. When either party encounters a problem, the two will do their best to help the other, because each other is sincere and hopes to be together one day.

3. Middle-aged men must stay sober, if they can't step into a realistic relationship, such a relationship is not worth paying.

As a middle-aged man, he can no longer step into a relationship as easily as a young man, once the relationship is frustrated, then the pressure will break him. Therefore, middle-aged men must be clear about what kind of love they want, that is, love should be pragmatic, and if two people want to meet and become husband and wife in real life, they can continue to get along; Otherwise, there is no need to continue to get along, which will only hurt each other's feelings.

It must be lonely, I feel that life is boring, boring, and there is no novelty, so I want to look for online dating on the Internet, how can there be any true love, because true love costs money, and they are not willing to spend money.

Personally, I think that for middle-aged men, if they like online dating, it is true love, because for middle-aged men, their minds are relatively mature, and they are always able to weigh the pros and cons and find their own true love.

I think it should be lonely, because people are quite inferior to their looks after they reach middle age, and they feel that people on the Internet can't see their looks, so they can talk about online dating.

Because young people are now kidnapped by mobile phones, there are more and more two-dimensional people, so online love has naturally been recognized by everyone.

If you were unreliable in my online love 10 years ago, I will definitely tell you that everyone on the Internet is **, and most of the people who talk to you about online love are either cheating money or cheating sex, but today my thinking has changed.

There are indeed some people around me who have met on the Internet who have come to reality, their love is not as deceitful as everyone says, and even some people have no way to find a partner on the Internet, because in reality they are too busy and do not have much time to socialize, the Internet has provided us with such a convenient platform, why should we refuse?

Let's just say how much it costs to meet in reality, for example, I once went to a blind date and others to have a meal may be one hundred and eighty yuan, which is still a little shabby, if you find a higher grade of the hotel, then the consumption will be more, most of the blind dates in reality are still unsuccessful, so the cost of the blind date here plays a decisive role, I look for a partner on the Internet is different, two people casually add a friend to chat, talk to the right and continue to communicate, If it's not appropriate to chat, say goodbye to Nala, what's the cost, at best, it's a QQ member or something for the other party.

In such a high-tech era, many things have been changed by the Internet, including our living habits, dating habits, and even the habit of falling in love.

Online love doesn't have to take on a lot of responsibility. Young people today are increasingly lacking in responsibility. Don't dare to take responsibility.

Because love on the Internet is easier to find, but in fact, it is also easy to disappear and not be responsible, so some young people will prefer this kind of fast love.

Because everyone is reluctant to contact people in reality, and they are relatively shy, they only dare to express themselves on the Internet.