I ve always liked a guy, and I don t dare to go to him automatically, so what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is a process for everything, don't be too anxious, "if you want to hurry, you can't reach" and "things must be reversed" is a good illustration of the truth, after all, you have only known each other for a short time and lack of true understanding of each other, easy to love will only love to hurt each other, the better you treat her, the more she doesn't want to hurt each other, maybe you haven't found the key to open the door of her heart, give her and yourself a little more time and space, to find, to run-in, start from friends, start from the plain, I believe that one day your true feelings will open the door of her heart, Your confession can only represent your inner emotions at that time, but it cannot represent the future and the future, because everything is constantly developing and changing, and who can expect the future? So it makes sense that she doesn't face your confession head-on. Personally, I think you need to create a space for both parties to communicate and understand more, find your common language, through a period of time to hone your differences in living habits and ways of thinking, to see if each other can accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and then further determine whether you really love her, if you love, please don't easily confess to each other, use your practical actions into an invisible love to take care of her for a long time, people are not grass and trees, and love over time, which is better than your thousand words, I believe she will also have feelings, this is called silent is better than sound, in short, fate is destined, and success will come naturally.

    The relationship is not something that can be clearly explained for a while, and it requires both parties to manage it carefully for a long time. Finally, I wish you happiness soon! You are still young, and when you grow up, there will be good ones waiting for you, and now you still focus on learning!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You think you like that guy very much, because you think he is very good, you appreciate him very much, in fact, you are still young, you don't know what real liking is, you are actually just appreciating him, don't think too much, otherwise you will only find trouble. Study hard and lay a good foundation for the future, and you will meet many better boys.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, you are still young, you can take liking as the object of hard work, since you want him to like you, you only make yourself excellent, he will not like others in the future! Come on

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I used to take the initiative to find that boy. Playing with him or something, after all, elementary school is still relatively simple. You can play online games or something with him, **** together, there should be progress! Good luck

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Little sister. When you go to junior high school, there will be more handsome and better boys. In high school, then to college... My sister is from the past, and now you are so young. Wait.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In two years, when you look back, you'll feel how ridiculous you are now. Elementary school students' feelings,It's quite pure.,But I've never seen a couple in elementary school.,At least it's after graduation.,Let's talk about it when you grow up.。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's so easy for elementary school students to see if there are any things they like to do, just do it together, and take it slowly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't pay too much attention to it, you can talk to him and take your time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay to pull you're still an elementary school student.

    Then you should be bold and ask him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I also had a crush on her when I was in elementary school, but as I got older, I found that there were many people better than her, so let's do a good job in the moment and go to college...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Little pot friend, are you developing early? The love is just beginning, congratulations, sad and pathetic!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I advise you to study hard.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Today's children are so precocious.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, it depends on the boy's personality, if it is a boy who has never been in love or has a very introverted personality, he may not dare to talk to the girl because he is too shy, because he cares too much about the inappropriate words of his words and arouses the disgust of the other party. At this time, the girl can take the initiative to find him, if she likes the boy very much, you can tell him that sometimes she is waiting for him to find herself, you can express your liking for him, so that the boy can feel that you need him in his heart, feel that he is dependent, who does not like to be dependent, of course, provided that he does not hate or he likes you a little.

    Another situation is that boys are extroverted and have been in a lot of love, of course, they can't generalize. But I think it's more likely that he is just no that into youAfter all, liking can't be controlled, how can you control your inner liking and not go to her, of course, this is the premise of liking.

    He doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, which shows that his life is very colorful, and that you don't attract much curiosity to him. At this time, although I know that I am only here to write the answer to say so, the subject must see it and feel that the truth is understood, but it is really necessary to enrich your life, you can't let your life only him, read books, listen to songs, practice words, exercise body, wear light makeup, go shopping, chat with girlfriends, watch movies, and there are a lot of things to do, not necessarily think of him all the time, of course, you may say that you haven't liked someone, but silly girl, love is not a necessity of life, It's just the spice of life, although many people yearn for it, but you can't force it to go with the flow. The best state is that you can do it without him, but it will be better with him.

    Isn't it a bit off-topic, back to the topic, if he doesn't take the initiative to find you and pour some cold water, the answer is yes in most cases. Don't overthink it in your heart, don't imagine what you expect. Keep your expectations of him to a minimum, be the best version of yourself, and you'll be happy when he comes to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Crush on a person who is afraid to get close to her sake.

    In this life, everyone will inevitably encounter so many girls who are tempting to everyone, and some are likely to choose to confess to that person loudly, what is a man in love like? Some will choose to love silently on the side, falling in love has always been a wonderful thing, when falling in love with a person, the other party seems to have a kind of magic, has been attracting herself, so that everything about herself is obsessed with her, but although it is very attractive, but in many cases the person who loves her is afraid of being close to that woman, because that woman is too happy for him, worried that she will be shattered after being happy, and she feels that she can see it from afar, in fact This kind of situation is everyone's inferiority complex, because they are worried that they are very different from girls, and they feel that they are not worthy of standing next to girls.

    What should I do if I have a crush on someone.

    1. If you really like him, it shows that you actually want to get along with her in your heart, and it is very likely that you are worried about rejection and unsuccess, so you should be heroic. What should I do if I quarrel with my boyfriend and break up? 10s Free Application for Sentiment Analysis

    2. The bigger the situation you want, the more likely it is that you will feel less likely. Actually, feelings are not like this, there should be action.

    3.Therefore, if you explain your favorability to the other party, the result of everything will naturally depend on the other party's intentions, if you don't agree with it or a friend.

    4. If he is in love, then I advise you not to get close to him, because it will ruin their feelings.

    5. If the other party's emotions are also vacant, then you can pursue perfection with peace of mind, without any psychological burden, without that need.

    6. Happy first anniversary of love, the most important thing is that in the relationship, you must not only pursue her skills to perfection, but more importantly, you need to have a heart that loves her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A large part of the reason is that he doesn't see girls showing affection.

    2.Excessive inferiority.

    3.It may be that girls will be wrong, and boys will do this to everyone.

    4.He may be a passive personality and needs the initiative of the woman.

    5.Still very disliked, during the observation period.

    6.Other extras prevented him from taking a step forward.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

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    I feel like he's also a shy and shy boy.

    I like a guy but I don't dare to take the initiative to do it.

    Hello, if you like a guy but don't dare to confess it, here is a suggestion that you can try to prepare a gift for the other party, if the other party is very happy to receive it, you can take this opportunity to try to confess to the other party. If the other party says to consider it, then tell the other party to accept the gift, this is a part of my heart as a friend. <>

    That way you won't feel embarrassed.

    But he's just a friend of my friend.

    Wouldn't that be too straightforward.

    Have you met?

    Or have you ever actually been in contact with each other?

    There has been shallow contact with not a class.

    That is, both sides don't know each other very well, right?

    Yes. In fact, it is not so difficult for a girl to chase a boy, first of all, you have to find out how he feels about you?

    Can you feel how he impressed you?

    His brother would snicker when he saw me, and he could see him looking in my direction when he got out of class, but I wasn't sure he was looking at me, and I often met him when I was out of school, and he would avoid me when I passed him.

    I feel like he's also a shy and shy boy.

    That said, he probably will be interesting to you, too.

    But I'm not sure if he's shy to see me, because often I'm with a few of my friends, but sometimes when I meet him alone, he's like that, but he's afraid to look at me <>like that

    In fact, you can find out the <> through mutual friends

    If the other party also has a good impression of you, then boldly confess, I believe you can get a satisfactory answer.

    Your mutual friends should be happy to help <>

    If you still need me to help you analyze and solve the problem, you can always come to me<>

    Ask about custom messages].

    If you have him on WeChat, if you can't say it in person, you can first increase interaction through chat tools, such as when he sends a dynamic in the space or circle of friends, you will naturally reply below, everyone wants someone to follow, comment, and like their messages. You also have to reply interestingly, arouse his mind to interact with you, and slowly become a normal friend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, like it proves that he is following you. It's not known if I'm interested in what you're posting, or if I'm interested in you, a gentleman. When he does not formally show you his intentions and proper attitude, do not speculate and speculate excessively, which will only add to your own troubles and annoyance.

    For this kind of behavior that you know that you have a good impression of him but praises, I personally think that girls should have their own pride and reserve, if you really have that kind of meaning, a like without contact can be understood as the content you posted that arouses his interest, and many likes without contact is a bit of a sea king hanging on you. You don't have to take it too seriously and think too much about how he is.

    Look at the person who really cares about you, and maybe someone pays attention to you as much as you care about him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, I fell asleep when you left a message, sorry for not replying to you in time, you said that your parents have a good relationship, this is not the key, the key is yourself, you can see that you like him, listen to you introduce you are six years younger than him, now it should be junior high school, it is now the stage of puberty, it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex, but this good feeling is not necessarily love, and it may change in the future, always looking for a boy will he like her.

    Hello, there doesn't seem to be a standard answer to this question.

    There are two possibilities, one is to fall in love over time, and the other is to be disgusted.

    You have to see what kind of attitude the guy usually has.

    You can feel what the outcome will be.

    He was six years older than me, and our mom and dad had a good relationship.

    He's in college now, and if I send him a message, he'll always reply if he sees it. He has a very good character, we only met during the New Year, so he is a little born and will not take the initiative to find me now, because he is very busy, do you think we may be very big.

    Hello, I fell asleep when you left a message, sorry for not replying to you in time, you said that your parents have a good relationship, this is not the key, the key is yourself, you can see that you like him, listen to your introduction that you are six years younger than him, now should be junior high school, it is now the stage of puberty, it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex, but this good feeling is not necessarily love, and it may change in the future, for him, it can be seen from your narrative that you will reply to his message, But that alone seems a bit far-fetched to conclude that he likes you, and I want to know: does he know that you like him? If you know what his reaction will be like?

    Did he talk about a girlfriend in college? These have to be taken into account.

    And what kind of girl does he like?

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