I had a fight with my boyfriend, and I apologized, but he still ignored him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-05
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Sorry to hear you and your boyfriend arguing. In such cases, sometimes an apology may not be enough to solve the problem. Here are some suggestions to hopefully help you deal with this situation:

    1.Communication: Try to communicate openly and honestly with him and let him know what you think and feel.

    You can try to ask him what happened and if he needs some time to calm down. It's also a good idea to ask him if he has any questions or concerns so you can get a better understanding of his thoughts and feelings.

    If he still seems angry or depressed, you can give him some time to calm him down. At the same time, you can also show your care and affection and let him know that you still care about him.

    3.Self-reflection: Think back to the fight and see if you did something wrong.

    If you do do something wrong, try to apologize to him and say that you will do your best to correct it. But if you think you've apologized, but the other person is still ignoring you, then you can consider other ways to solve the problem.

    4.Find a solution to the problem: Think about what the problem is between you and try to find some way to fix it. For example, you can find a compromise together, or make some changes to prevent similar problems from happening again.

    Finally, don't forget to show your love and concern. Whatever you ultimately decide to do, make sure you support and understand each other. I hope you can solve the problem soon and continue the wonderful relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now it's time to give him some time to calm down. I've apologized, I've made my attitude clear, and now it's time to wait.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think that since you have apologized, it means that you have admitted your mistake, if the other party is still like this. Then you don't have to continue to apologize, after all, what you should have done has already been done, so let it be. If you continue to apologize, he won't necessarily ignore you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems that your boyfriend's bearing is not as big as yours, and when you meet such a person, you can only say that he is narrow-minded. There is no other way, if you still love him, continue to sincerely apologize to him. If you don't have the patience either, just ignore him and let him go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can have a good chat with your boyfriend, if it's not your fault, if the reason for your quarrel is because of your fault and your boyfriend is angry, then you can apologize as soon as possible. But if it's not your fault, then you have to think about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then think about who is wrong, he is wrong, or you are wrong. Don't apologize to yourself, but love yourself more. Harm.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can reason with him, and say that I have apologized, don't be so angry, otherwise it's just four words, small belly chicken intestines, do you want to be a person with small chicken intestines?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It means that he has been hurt deeply, he is really angry, you have to understand him, calm down first.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girls don't have to be so humble, if you apologize and he doesn't reconcile with you, then this person is not worth it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I poured out my heart and lungs to him, every time I quarreled, he threw something, and cut me with a knife twice, and after the quarrel, I apologized to him three times or four, but in exchange for him, he ignored me, why is a man's heart so ruthless,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Who's fault, who's fault, who apologizes, that's right, why apologize. Why!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are many boys in life, they are also very arrogant, even if they do wrong, they will not apologize, because they never feel that they are wrong, so such a man is also very annoying, because such a man she is too macho, so if you meet such a boy in life, it is also very uncomfortable.

    First, first of all, you must communicate with your boyfriend.

    If two people quarrel, it is also because the boyfriend is at fault first, so you also need to communicate well with your boyfriend, because as a man, too much macho, this is not something that a girl will like.

    2. Adhere to your own principles.

    For girls, you should also stick to your own principles in love, if a boy quarrels with you, and then never admits mistakes to you, or apologizes, then you don't need to pay attention to him, because such a boy, he is not worthy of attention.

    Third, girls too, can't be too humble.

    For girls, two people together, girls can't be too humble, if every time the girl speaks first, speaks or admits such a mistake first, so over time, the boy is even more unreasonable.

    So for love life, many things also need to be maintained by two people on both sides, but if one person to maintain, it can't be maintained for too long, if two people quarrel, it is always one party who admits mistakes, so that after a long time, this person will also be tired, and over time, he is not in the mood to maintain the relationship between two people.

    If two people really like each other and want to go on with each other, they still have to understand each other, tolerate, no matter what happens, they must communicate with each other, and they must not quarrel because of a quarrel, and then the other person will never take the initiative to admit his mistakes, and feel that he is right.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes you can take the initiative to apologize, but you don't have to wait for your boyfriend to take the initiative. If a person is too strong, eventually the relationship will break up. In addition, men are actually very coaxing, as long as you lie to him, shake her hand and say sorry, he will not be angry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then don't talk to him either, continue the cold war. To let him know that it was indeed his fault and that he should apologize to you. When you snub him, he will have a state of worry. Men are generally unstable, and they will definitely take the initiative to find you for no more than 15 days.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is determined by your boyfriend's personality, maybe he is such a person, that is, she doesn't bow her head like that, she won't take the initiative to apologize, this requires you to come to him, so if you adapt to it, then you can only do this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    So who is the reason for every quarrel? If it's your boyfriend's fault, and he never takes the initiative to apologize, you have to be careful, this kind of person may be machismo. will not take the initiative to admit mistakes, and the two should communicate well.

    If you can't communicate, you must know how to stop in moderation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You must first let go of the "principles of justice" in your heart. The reason why lovers are reluctant to speak first after a quarrel is that they both think that the other party should apologize to themselves first, and if the other party does not apologize, they will never speak first.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you should bring it up first, and if you have any problems, you should make it clear in time, otherwise this contradiction will drag on more and more, and it is likely to lead to a breakup in the end, so I think the two people still have to communicate in this regard.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This situation is not a good phenomenon, as you take the initiative to talk to him, or you take the initiative to apologize, this is indeed not a good signal, with the passage of time and the increase in the number of times, your weight in his heart is slowly likely to become lighter, even if you are married, this situation will continue, so if you want to identify him, you must be prepared to endure grievances.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Every time you quarrel with your boyfriend, he will not take the initiative to apologize, if you think that the two of you are just because of some small things, you can take the initiative to apologize first, men sometimes can't let go, women just need to put down a little face, men will take care of them in every way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, some boys have such a personality and are not easy to soften. As long as your boyfriend still loves you. It's the same if you take the initiative to apologize to two people after a fight. If he doesn't apologize because he doesn't care about you anymore, then you should consider whether to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe this man really doesn't have you in his heart, he doesn't care about you so much, he doesn't care about your mood, doesn't consider your feelings, and hurts you again and again. So I think you should seriously communicate with him to see if he has changed his mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's your problem, there's no problem if he doesn't apologize, after all, the relationship is mutual, but if it's his problem and he doesn't apologize, I don't think this relationship is anything else, it's better to end it early.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Personally, I think that you will be very tired in the future relationship between the two of you, because you are not married yet, and when you get married, he will not apologize to you, if you really like her, you should tolerate her, if you don't like it very much? I suggested leaving him anyway.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should change boyfriends. This boyfriend is so inconsiderate of you. If you want to continue to be with such a boyfriend, then don't quarrel, or you take the initiative to apologize after a fight.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should find a suitable opportunity to have a good conversation with your boyfriend and show him that he has concerns in his heart, that your boyfriend must love you, or maybe he is just not very good at expressing himself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you suggest this, it's better to divide it early, because your boyfriend seems to have a lot of personality, and it seems difficult for him to change, and if you get married and quarrel, you are the only one who is wronged.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you meet a boyfriend who doesn't take the initiative to apologize, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart, and if he already treats you as his own in his heart, he will definitely be good to you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on whether it is your boyfriend's fault, and if it is your boyfriend's fault, you must make your boyfriend apologize. If it's not your boyfriend's fault, you can reach out to him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe it's his personal character, sometimes it actually depends on your attitude, most of the time it may be that you take the initiative to bow to the other party, and after a long time, it will form a habit.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your boyfriend may belong to the kind of person with a strong personality, no matter who he is for, he is not willing to change this way, that is, even if he is wrong, he is not willing to take the initiative to apologize and wants to slowly resolve it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In the face of this kind of boyfriend, you should break up as soon as possible, because he doesn't have you in his heart, so he is not enthusiastic and doesn't know how to take the initiative to apologize.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Then you can also give him a "cold face", commonly known as cold revenge. Anyway, there is no place to reason at home!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think I should have a good talk with my boyfriend and tell him that as a man, you should be able to bend and stretch, and blindly machismo will not do any good to each other's feelings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This question of yours is a little strange, why do you have to apologize to your boyfriend after two people quarrel? Instead of you apologizing to your boyfriend?

    In the process of two people falling in love, some girls will always think that it is natural for a boy to take care of himself, and at the same time, he also thinks that a boy needs to apologize to himself unconditionally. This is a very immature state of mind, and there is even a serious problem with the concept of love. There may be some girls who think that they are born to be served by others, and at the same time, they also think that boys are born to coax themselves.

    First, you have to analyze why your boyfriend must apologize to you.

    I don't know what kind of problem the two of you are arguing about, but for two mature adults, both of you can be the one who takes the initiative to apologize after something happens, which means that you don't have to have your boyfriend to apologize to you. If you really value the relationship between two people, you don't need to be too demanding that your boyfriend take the initiative to apologize to you, because this kind of request itself is a double standard behavior. <>

    Second, you also have to analyze why your boyfriend did this.

    Some boys are relatively shy and don't know how to deal with problems. Some boys have a relatively good personality, so they will refuse to apologize because of the problem of face. It is precisely for this reason that you should try your best to analyze why your boyfriend did not take the initiative to apologize to you, rather than directly blaming your boyfriend.

    3. I think apologies are a two-person affair.

    After something goes wrong, there is nothing wrong with either the boy or the girl taking the initiative to apologize to the other person. The two of you need to focus not on the issue of apology, but on how to resolve the emotional conflict between the two of you. In this society, some girls will always face boys as little fairies, and at the same time, boys are required to be equal between men and women.

    This in itself is a very double-standard behavior, and girls need to get rid of this bad problem as much as possible. In addition to this, the two of you should solve the problem with a rational attitude, instead of dwelling on the so-called problems of face and dignity. <>

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In this case, first of all, you should not pay attention to him. It's more about living your own life first and not letting him have too much of an impact on your emotions. After all, life has to go on, waiting for him to coax you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In this way, he does not care about you very much, and treats you as a dispensable stranger.1 Since he treats you like this, then you are separated from him for a while.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think it depends on what is the reason for the quarrel? If it's your fault, you should take the initiative to apologize to your boyfriend, and if it's your boyfriend's fault, you can also communicate with him well, and there is no need to quarrel.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In our daily life, love is an indispensable part of our life, can bring a different experience to our life, when we have our own love, we will find that everything in life will become meaningful, will make each other happy, always with their beloved to do some childish things. <>

    In a relationship, many people will quarrel, if the object always apologizes to themselves very perfunctorily, then don't forgive easily, let the other party know the seriousness of the matter, and let the other party know the importance of himself. Quarrels are a common problem that occurs in many relationships, and they are also very testing of a relationship, and sometimes if you don't take the initiative to resolve the quarrel, then these quarrels may accumulate and may become the final fuse of the real relationship.

    When the other party always apologizes perfunctorily, don't forgive yourself easily, because the other party has begun to perfunctory the relationship and has begun to stop caring about his feelings. After a quarrel, there is always one party who takes the initiative to admit his mistakes, don't always let one party admit his mistakes, everyone makes mistakes, when one party is at fault, you should take the initiative to express your apologies. If the subject always apologizes perfunctorily, it will make you feel very unbalanced and uncomfortable, so don't forgive easily at this time and let the other person do self-reflection.

    When a person slowly begins to perfunctory a relationship, then, the relationship may have slowly disappeared. When two people first started together, they were very patient with each other, the other party was the whole of their lives, and all their bodies and minds were put on each other's bodies. <>

    It's better not to say a perfunctory apology, and the object that girls hate most is perfunctory to themselves. Everyone hopes that their feelings can be treated sincerely, not perfunctory by their beloved, if it has been like this, they must also make it clear to the other party, do not choose to endure again and again, otherwise this relationship may eventually end up in the end.

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